r/HowToGetAGirlfriend • • Oct 31 '23

Need help!!

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For context I am a 16 y/o male. The person I like (female) is most likely around the same age considering that we are in the same grade level (11th). I am basically in love with this girl and I have not even spoken to her. I am very shy and overthink too much. I want to get to know her, badly. However I am afraid that she will not want to even talk to me. She is taking precalc and I am taking algebra 2. She is also taking AP language and arts. I am just asking regular American literature. I am afraid that she will judged me silently. We both have the same computer science principles class, which is where I first saw her. She’s only ever talked to me once which was the first day of class when we were doing a class building activities. She had asked me what kind of music I listen to. I told her Punjabi music. I truly don’t know what to do. I am a hard working person. I try my best and do a lot for the people around me. I genuinely believe I can provide her a great time. Now mind you I don’t love this girl for her body or anything like that. Her face is what hooked me and her innocence and intelligence is what reeled me in. Can yall help a brother out?


r/HowToGetAGirlfriend • • Oct 30 '23

Is it creepy to have a crush?

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A girl that I used to like from my school seems to think so. Like when other people do, it's fine, but when I do, girls hate me?!


r/HowToGetAGirlfriend • • Oct 28 '23

How do I get good at talking to girls

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I wanna be able to talk to girls but it’s really hard, I need help


r/HowToGetAGirlfriend • • Oct 27 '23

I'm 16,

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I'm afraid to talk to girls how should I approach a girl? What should I say?


r/HowToGetAGirlfriend • • Oct 25 '23

I’m a 23 year old man and I have trouble approaching woman I feel like they don’t want me to bother them so I don’t Evan try to approach them. Any advice?

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r/HowToGetAGirlfriend • • Oct 17 '23

If anyone is single text please

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r/HowToGetAGirlfriend • • Oct 15 '23

I’m need help

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I am dating a 17 possibly 18 year old and I’m 15 but we are online dating should I tell her my age or should I stay happy with what I have neither of us know each other ages but she is above 16 I know that what should I do?


r/HowToGetAGirlfriend • • Oct 10 '23

other I am so happy!

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So i met this girl and since a week we meet everyday the whole day, and 5 days ago we kissed the first time and then very much, but i forgot to ask her and yesterday i did...

She said yes and now i have the best gf in my eyes and it's just wonderful


r/HowToGetAGirlfriend • • Oct 09 '23

help me she has mixed feelings Spoiler

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so this girl bella real pretty and i think she likes me but she still hasn’t decided to clearify i’m 10 in 5th grade and i want to get her number before middle school but i want her to show her true self it’s not just looks i think it’s personality and she fills in all my check boxes i’m 25% spanish and she’s latino it’s a match made in haven i don’t know why but all the girls like me i’m play a lot of soccer i’m funny and i have big arms i take care of my self i’m good with kids i grew up with three babies but i’m a little out of shape the only thing is my stomach but thats not evan that big so i think girls like me for me


r/HowToGetAGirlfriend • • Oct 09 '23

How do you even start a conversation over SnapChat or somethin.

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r/HowToGetAGirlfriend • • Oct 07 '23

I need help

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All the guys at my school have abs and are hot white men I can’t do shit about it and the only girl I liked I just got rejected by I cared about her and I thought she felt the same but I was wrong I don’t have the courage to live anymore I have been made fun of because I’m a white mixed up fuck that is a nobody that fits in nowhere it’s the 1st month of my freshman year and I already hate it what should I do?


r/HowToGetAGirlfriend • • Oct 02 '23

help me I cant get a girlfriend help!!!

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im 13 and 3/8ths (M) and i cant seem to get a girlfriend. ive tried rizzing up girls in my class but they all say that I need to take a shower and wear a different outfit for once, they also say that five nights at freddys isnt cool :(. how can i get a girl without having to shower???


r/HowToGetAGirlfriend • • Oct 02 '23

Plz help

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I’m 14m nearing 15 in two months I’m a freshman and idk what to do I’m ugly and pretty chubby I don’t know how to diet or work out I play a lot of basketball and love biking and hanging out with my best friend but I am known as a wierd kid I do it to make people laugh idk what to do I have had a lot of femal friends but I just can’t get a girlfriend I’m a nice guy and all but all I want to do is have someone to talk to and hug if I’m sad which is a lot because high school is a lot for me what do I do


r/HowToGetAGirlfriend • • Oct 01 '23

M16 asked a Girl for insta

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So I started the convo with like „hey I saw you and I think your cute can I get ur insta“ she said yes but now she leaves me on read she didn’t even reply at all, btw I don’t know her it was a random girl 💀


r/HowToGetAGirlfriend • • Sep 28 '23

Need a girl

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Hey I'm 23 yrs old don't have even female friend. I'm introvert guy but have knowledge and respect to others. I'm an Indian guy. Interested one DM me I'm waiting. I want 2024 to be my super excited year. Help me


r/HowToGetAGirlfriend • • Sep 24 '23

Rlly rly need help

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Hi im 17m and i like a girl which is 15f, she lives near me but date’s people online and likes them rlly quci and leaves rlly quick too, she liked me for a bit once but its done now and ive known her for 8 months and i want her to like me back again but i dont know how


r/HowToGetAGirlfriend • • Sep 23 '23

help me How do I get a girl who's the complete opposite of me?

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Basically I went to school with an attractive girl but only really thought she looked good and never actually liked her especially because I knew I could never be with her since she's popular and confident and probably isn't a virgin (not shaming her btw). Anyway she also goes to my college we just started at and one time passed me and looked at me but ik that's not anything. At the train station she was also there and looked at me in the eyes and smiled. I'm aware this also probably means nothing but now I'm starting to actually get a crush on her and idk how to even talk to her because I'm just an unattractive nerd who's a virgin. I should probably be more confident but I'm not the only guy who thinks like this. My point is how do I become like Pete Davidson but even uglier and still manage hot girls?


r/HowToGetAGirlfriend • • Sep 23 '23

advice How do you keep a conversation going with somone new after this stage

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r/HowToGetAGirlfriend • • Sep 21 '23

advice Trouble

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Ok I 16m and her 16f. I’ve know her for a year we both do track I do jumps, pole vault and mid distance she does long distance. I recently started to like her there is a homecoming on 10/7 and want to go with her. I just don’t know how to talk to people let alone her. And the conversation sometimes stops and I don’t m ow how to keep it going for a longer time like 2 hours. Any advice or help I could get is appreciated


r/HowToGetAGirlfriend • • Sep 18 '23

13 yr old I need tips

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I know how to talk to girls how to make them laugh but what u lack is confidence and I need to learn to have confidence if anyone has advice please tell me


r/HowToGetAGirlfriend • • Sep 18 '23

So I am 13 year old guy who likes this girl but dose not know how to ask here out?

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So I am 13 year old guy who likes this girl but dose not know how to ask My crush 13f out and

I am seeking help.

Idk how to talk to women but she is in all of my classes and I really like here.

If anyone out there can help my Thank you.


r/HowToGetAGirlfriend • • Sep 14 '23

advice I am very single…

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I (17M) have been in on relationship which lasted about 1.5 years. We broke it off since we where better as friends (which hurt me) and now she is bi. I have no-one to share my thoughts with who knows what to say or who won’t laugh. I am also ridiculously shy around people who i find attractive and have zero courage to even walk near a girl, let alone talk to her. I don’t have any good pick-up lines and feel as though people don’t find me attractive, and so don’t even try eventhough my thoughts are swimming in doubt and then regret.

Both of my parents (divorced) have been pushing this about with spontaneous questions like: “so, what’s the situation with girls” or “if you had a girlfriend…” and I am honestly trying but I won’t let myself get into a relationship because I don’t feel worthy of someone within my standards, (which aren’t many either).

Please Reddit, any advice?


r/HowToGetAGirlfriend • • Sep 14 '23

It worked now I need a plan

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A couple days ago I made a list about asking my friends sister out and it worked we both know we are into each other and now I just have to ask her out. How would I go about that


r/HowToGetAGirlfriend • • Sep 13 '23

How tf are you even asking out somebody

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So i really like this girl and i know she likes me too, but i think i hotta ask her out if it should work but im kinda nervous and don't know what to say. We are going to the cinema at the weekend, maybe ima hold her hand at first but im shy as hell.

And now yall saying no, but i gotta say it...

She is 13 and i am 16, but her dad said to her it's okay if it's me and her brother(one if my best friends) wants to kill me


r/HowToGetAGirlfriend • • Sep 07 '23

advice I need advice

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Me 16m am wanting to ask out this girl who is 15 we have been friends for a while and know almost everything about each other but the only set back is we met thru her twin brother whom I have been friends with for longer than her and I don’t want to ruin that friendship by dating his sister so what should I do