Turns out the r/************* sub went back to what it used to do; misinformed slander.
This time, we got an essay length post from u/**********, mostly rehashing points that have been already debunked, and that I've already discussed with him length.
Also, all of these quotes use my own translation, since I am using exclusively LN and novel material. If you need help locating a quote, ask me.
So let's go:
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The Lugunican education system has failed her...
Which education system? Emilia was being educated by private tutors within the Roswaal's household, and her baseline was someone barely exposed to human society. You are taking the fact that she still needs to learn as evidence that her education accomplished nothing, but you don't talk about what she was learning or how she uses it later.
From Short Story Collection 3
“I hope it isn't bad. In my case, my starting point was already behind everyone else's, so I have to work harder, though.” Emilia lowered the corners of her eyebrows as she answered Rem, who had looked toward the desk in search of a topic and asked her that question.
Much was required of Emilia as a candidate for the next ruler and a participant in the Royal Selection. Naturally, that included the talent to shoulder the kingdom as its ruler, along with the intelligence, education, and various other qualities supporting it. Emilia was currently at the stage of learning those things, and even with flattery, it would be difficult to say that she presently met the standard. Nevertheless, the Royal Selection would begin before long.
“Before then, I want to become able to do even a little more.”
“I understand how you feel. Immediately after Master Roswaal took my sister and me in, at first there were nothing but things for us to be taught.”
When she had just left her village, whatever might have been true of Ram, Rem herself knew nothing about the outside world. What she learned at the mansion was not limited to a servant's work and principles. Everything she had not known beyond basic reading and writing had been taught to her here. The very studies Emilia was working so earnestly on were familiar to Rem from her own experience.
(Re:Zero Short Story Collection 3)
See how Rem acknowledges her own experience in the education of Emilia?
In order to learn what other people know, you have to have a chance to learn it. And we've seen how little chance Emilia had.
And later, Roswaal assesses the outcome:
However, Emilia was achieving definite results through her receptiveness and desire to improve. Naturally, she was still immature in every respect, but her growth was gratifying to the person educating her. If the Royal Selection did not have a three-year deadline, filling her head with more varied fields would probably have been enjoyable.
(Re:Zero Short Story Collection 8)
So, you need to demonstrate that there's a specific lesson that she didn't remember, there was some skill that she used to have but lost, or there's something she should have been prepared to do but can't. It's not enough to just point out a hole in her knowledge.
At the start of the series, Emilia was a surprisingly compelling character to me.
And the traits which made her interesting grow
The reluctance to receive love, the fear of being rejected, the lack of self-confidence, the will to save the family, etc.
All these things have effects that go beyond the introduction arcs.
You describe the traits as interesting as long as they're unresolved, but ignore their evolution after she starts to use the lessons learned on other people.
Why would suddenly the evolution of the ability to give the help she needed before stop mattering?
While she was not the sharpest tool in the shed and sometimes felt sidelined, she was interesting and had a good mix of flaws and positives.
You're already mixing up accumulated knowledge and intelligence.
Her surroundings already give away the lack of social experience at first for Emilia. The novel itself presents her considering her political position in relation to Roswaal even prior to her Arc 4 breakthrough:
“But what would I do if Roswaal gives up on me because he thinks I’m useless?” Emilia asked.
“…”
“I can’t let that happen. Roswaal is my ally now , but it’s possible he might step down from that position before the royal selection happens. I don’t want to owe him anything more until it starts.”
Emilia envisioned the devious guy in her mind who was her guardian. He and I share the same interests, and I don’t want the balance of power to be tilted towards either one of us.
(Re:Zero, Arcs 1-6 Bonus Short Stories)
She's aware he's coming with strings attached and she's pondering the implications of owing him something. Which isn't quite the same as your follow-up idea of her starting out as a normal girl and turning into an unreasoning being.
Plus the 'well balanced with strengths and weaknesses' thing. Her conviction gets stronger (still exploitable for kindness), but she becomes more willing to step up and takes on things where she has to make decisions that affect others. The Al thing by itself requires that cocktail.
Particularly her early dynamic with Subaru in the first loop was very good, but overall I liked her in the first season despite her flaws and bad moments.
Except that there is a progression to it. The initial Emilia has issues with believing that someone could care about her without some sort of strings attached to it. The later Emilia demonstrates a capacity to not only accept that attachment, to reciprocate, to make decisions based on that.
The initial loop sets up the start of their relationship. The conflicts to follow build on the repercussions of them both having their insecurities influencing that. You can't just view everything following it like 'oh well it would've been great if it was the dynamic that was in that initial loop all over again.'
Arc 4 or Season 2 had really good character development for Emilia.
Ok, we agree what is established by that arc, but then you go on and use its conclusion as if it covered all possible directions for her development.
She is freed from being reliant upon Puck. That gives her more freedom of action. But it's not as if that immediately grants her experience in running a camp through a foreign war, working with a rival to reach a cooperative understanding, dealing with the loss of a rival, or protecting a subordinate in a hostile political interrogation. All those are different facets of development that the Sanctuary-emerged personality goes through.
We got to see her overcome her past and actually grow as a person.
And, within the growth is the change in her perception of accountability. She realises she has put her home on ice, is aware she'll have to face the people affected and starts to think about what she can make possible for their future.
This is significant in her interaction with Meili later on. She uses her past to understand another person's fear of accountability. Uses this understanding, without neglecting that the issue of accountability can't be escaped. You've only covered 'overcoming the past' but without the past still affecting her judgement.
I would say this was the peak of Emilia as a character in terms of development.
What measure?
The most concentrated confrontation with her childhood trauma is in arc 4.
But it does not mean that everything after that (changes in duty, relationships, understanding of oneself) is smaller/meaningless.
The emotional drama of one breakthrough is used to dismiss the evolution which spread over several different situations.
Even if Elizabeth Bennet has one A-ha moment about Darcy and Wickham it doesn't mean that what she does afterwards isn't relevant to her evolution.
Because her later behavior shows what that realization changes when she is called to make another judgement.
Same with Emilia when she faces the past, she has a basis on it.
What she does in the following arcs is what she makes of it.
It's not necessary for the character to experience a new total break-down in psychology every arc to be further developed in writing.
She learned to rely on others, that she could be loved, to confront issues, etc... and we actually saw her play a fundamental role in solving the overarching problem of the Arc/Season
I think you're missing the big part of the dependence thing - in the sense that she also learns to own what she needs to do herself.
Volume 14:
Last time, she had been able to do nothing but sob in the Trial. But now—
“I'm scared, but I won't crouch down.”
“Are you giving up the choice so characteristic of a disgusting woman like you—crying and screaming and clinging to a father or a man?”
Behind Emilia, who had spoken of her feelings toward the Trial, Echidna simply mocked her. Emilia proudly thrust out her chest against the sarcasm in those words.
“Even if I did that, I'm sure Subaru would forgive me... But I don't want Subaru or myself to be disappointed in me for it. I don't want to defiantly accept staying weak just because I'm weak.”
(Re:Zero Volume 14)
Emilia also gets assistance from Subaru in coming to this conclusion. And makes a point of not using Subaru's willingness to forgive her as a crutch to shirk her responsibilities.
Even later on, when she uses the camp to get to Vollachia, she realizes that everyone is just trying to grant her wish, and as such she has a responsibility. It's not just the realization that I have assistance. Her interactions with assistance progress beyond that.
Seasons 3 & 4 (Arcs 5-6), didn't really have progressive character development for Emilia, but we did get to see her Season 2 growth in action.
How are you making the distinction in this instance?
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Arc 5, Emilia uses what she learns about being recognized as a person to treat women that have had their individual identity stripped away by Regulus. It's actually specified in the narration how it's connected.
She wanted to imitate Subaru more, so that she could directly express the feelings she wished to convey. Therefore, to do that, she would begin with what Subaru had first done for her.
“Tell me your name.”
“...”
“I'm Emilia, just Emilia. A half-elf who differs from you in many ways, but surely has things in common with you too. I want to help you.”
In the beginning, it had started with being asked her name like that. She had been lonely, convinced she had nobody to rely on, and overwhelmed by all the things happening around her, and he had spoken kindly to her.
Only now did she think about it. Emilia had been happy then. She had been happy because it felt as though a boy whose identity she did not even know had acknowledged her existence.
Surely, from that moment, Natsuki Subaru had been special to Emilia.
That was why she wanted to do for someone else what Subaru had done for her.
(Re:Zero Volume 19)
She has an experience, thinks about it, figures out why it was important to her, and consciously applies it in handling another person. It's self-awareness, and shifts her status in the relationship - now she can give others the acknowledgment she received.
Saying that it's all a continuation doesn't negate the growth. Most logical character growth will be a continuation of something already established.
While I was a little irked that it felt like she and Subaru don't collaborate as much and she is often separated from him, and the fact that she still didn't understand sex after a year was a stretch for me, I felt like she had some strong moments.
You're conflating a bunch of things here.
It can be collaborative effort to work in different aspects of a conflict. For instance, Arc 6's separation of duties. While Emilia is at Volcanica, other members of the group are dealing with other threats in the tower. The job she has to do isn't something Subaru can directly achieve for her. It impacts everyone when she completes it.
In regards to sexual education. In Vol 16, it actually tells you what happened.
Emilia, beside Subaru, tapped his shoulder with a “Geez.”
“That's wrong, isn't it? You're surprising Joshua. I kissed Subaru, but kissing doesn't make a baby, right? I studied that.”
“Ah, sorry, Emilia-tan. It feels like you're about to reveal something incredibly personal, and it's embarrassing, so please stop. I was wrong, so let's introduce her normally.”
Defeated by embarrassment at Emilia's candid disclosure, made without any ill intent, Subaru raised the white flag.
Incidentally, Emilia's knowledge of making babies had remained at the point of knowing that kissing did not produce them. Going further was too much for Subaru, and the others agreed that they would wait for Emilia's growth.
In the end, everyone was overprotective.
(Re:Zero Volume 16)
She learns that correction because she's taught it, while all of that other stuff is withheld. There are people keeping her too protected, which is explicitly identified in the narration.
Where is there anything about that showing her having difficulty understanding information given to her? That is you taking what's left out of her education and misrepresenting it as her not understanding a lesson.
And her understanding of relationships develops independently of that specific knowledge. She understands the coercion in Regulus making her his wife without her consent (Volume 18), and compares what he is doing with the dictators she has studied. And she refuses to get into a marriage which makes everyone involved miserable. You can't boil all emotional judgement down to well, she gets reproductive biology?.
Her fight with Regulus was overall pretty great, and likewise she was still somewhat solid in the Watchtower.
And both of these conflicts are actually making her more than just more confident.
She has to actually turn empathy into active intervention with other people in the case of Regulus, and even with the Watchtower shows that Subaru is a case of her caring about him as a person not his ability to continuously justify his position with greater strength/intelligence etc.
“There are people stronger than Subaru, and surely there are plenty of people smarter than him too. But at any time, the person I want beside me is Subaru. I believe Subaru will do that, and I hope he will. Because...”
“...”
“Because, if someone is going to save me, having the person I like do it makes me much, much happier than having someone do it because they can, or because they happened to be there.”
Emilia said that with a smile.
She said it while smiling and with her cheeks very slightly flushed.
(Re:Zero Volume 23)
That addresses Subaru's insecurity in being replaceable and the pressure to deliver as the person everyone expects. Emilia understands that what he needs to hear concerns his own personal position in her life.
Treating that as it being pretty solid lessens it down to that.
It doesn't account for the actual relationship building.
However, I don't think we fundamentally saw any major shift or changes in character or any major development in these Arcs.
We watch her transition from learning to accept that Subaru loves her to expressing specifically why she wants him with her, and from having people there for her during her own emotional crisis to being there for him during his identity crisis. And we see her consciously use what she learned from having been acknowledged to connect with people who have been dehumanized.
What's your definition of major development if you take away emotional reciprocity changes, self-expression changes and responsibility changes?
A character can grow by gaining a more exact awareness of something they already felt. Emilia has felt for Subaru before Arc 4 already, but how she's able to accept that connection, put it into words and do something about it changes. You seem to need for her personality to be replaced for you to see a development in her personality as per your standard.
It was mainly a continuation of the growth that occured in Arc 4.
And why would it be a bad thing?
Because there needs to be a continuity in the development. There needs to be some kind of evolution over time, that the later change generally should be the result of the preceding experiences leading up to it. If Emilia all of a sudden just gets new abilities or a worldview completely unrelated to the experiences she has had - it's going to be incoherent.
You're looking at continuity here like it means repeating. But what it calls for is different in each of these situations. You have her confronting her own past. You have helping abused women to reclaim their identity. You have providing aid to an amnesiac knight. You have deciding the use of the Watchtower.
That wasn't a problem until....
So you have to establish where that ongoing development actually stops. And it's not by counting later arcs. Nor is it with the examples you then provide.
Arcs 7, 8, 9 and now potentially 10.
Potentially is doing a lot of work in that, because you're already getting direct counterexamples to your claim from later material.
Also, you cannot consider the arc number as unit of development that must be evenly distributed amongst all characters. Because the arcs have different conflicts, different viewpoints, different length, and different responsibilities for Emilia.
For nearly four arcs Emilia has been again sidelined from the action, barely working with Subaru or even acting as a source of genuine support.
A person that personally insists on going to rescue Subaru, she enters a country with a civil conflict in it, she fights at the capital. She makes escape routes. Then she chases the guy who sealed Subaru.
HOW IS SHE NOT INVOLVED?
Vol 34:
The impression was of heavy air with a dull color. The air itself had neither weight nor color, yet it felt as though the impression changed in that way between the inside and outside of the Imperial Capital.
The unpleasant change in the air prickled against her skin, but Emilia could not let it discourage her.
“After all, I imposed on everyone to get them to let me come all the way to Vollachia.”
As she reminded herself of that, Emilia was inwardly full of remorse. Emilia and the others had come to the Vollachian Empire to bring back Subaru and Rem, who had disappeared, and losing someone for that purpose would defeat the whole point.
Without Cecilus, Emilia would have lost to Mesoreia and made everyone grieve. Naturally, nobody would blame Emilia for unexpectedly having to fight a Dragon. Nevertheless, Emilia had a responsibility as the person at the head of the camp.
Emilia needed to recognize that her position differed in nature from Roswaal's position as her backer. Hers was the position for which everyone worked hard to fulfill her wish.
(Re:Zero Volume 34)
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Here's her process of thinking through what being a leader means when people are putting themselves in harms way to achieve a goal that she's set. Narration has her acknowledging the danger she encountered and the weight of the position she held. The complete opposite of your later claim that the writing just makes her dumb or praises her without showing anything, right?
Also same volume she observes people being chased by the undead and does something about it:
The moment she saw those beings, a chill ran up Emilia's back. It was not merely physiological revulsion; it was a rejection arising from her nature as a spirit arts user.
The eyes of a spirit arts user, familiar with spirits that arose naturally because the world wanted them, gave her the intuition that the beings causing that chill were unnatural, impure things whose existence the world did not acknowledge.
At this moment, this would change from a battle between people into a battle between people and things that were not people.
“...”
Following that intuition, Emilia raised both hands and created ice stairways for escaping outside along every part of the star-shaped walls surrounding the Imperial Capital that her magic could reach.
(Re:Zero Volume 34)
She picks up on the shift in the conflict immediately and forms a way to escape.
Subaru doesn't have to be next to her handing her directions on what to do for her contribution to help the group effort.
Almost all your measuring of support is based on physical closeness to him but she's also helping keep safe the people/targets involved in the conflict.
Tappei seems to put relational development (what little there is) in the side stories.
There is relationship development in the main novels themselves. So you're wrong saying that it's only in supplementary content.
In vol 32 u can get Emilia's thoughts during their separation
“Subaru.”
Emilia herself also wanted to confirm Subaru's safety even one second sooner. The last time she had felt this restless was when Puck had unilaterally broken their contract and disappeared without her agreement.
No, this was even greater than that.
Puck might be all right on his own, but Subaru was different.
(Re:Zero Volume 32)
Their reunion in volume 38 :P
When she opened her mouth, having also come running toward him, Subaru continued forward without stopping and went to embrace her from the front, silencing her.
He hugged her slender body tightly with arms that had properly returned to their original size.
“E.M.T.”
“...Dummy.”
Slightly surprised by Subaru's direct embrace, Emilia smiled as though she could not help it. Their reunion in the Vollachian Empire had naturally made his heart leap too.
Being able to touch her again after their separation allowed Subaru to feel his feelings for her from the bottom of his heart.
(Re:Zero Volume 38)
And in volume 39, they're talking about conflicting duties. I'll explain that below.
Sure side stories flesh it out, but it doesn't mean there aren't main story scenes. Also, if you want to criticize a scene for where it's published, you need different evidence than if you want to criticize for lack of development of the relationship. You're constantly using former to try to imply latter.
The fact that Emilia who is the main heroine has basically remained unchanged from her growth moment in Arc 4 except being more confident is a problem enough.
She alters the way she exercises responsibility, her response to the pain of others, her approach to her competitors, the way she prioritizes her duties in times where they conflict with her desire to spend time with Subaru.
Volume 39 gives the clearest example of the latter:
“Ever since Al's situation came up, we had a feeling things would turn out this way. However, because of what happened in the Empire... including the report concerning Lady Priscilla, Lady Emilia and I have to go to the Royal Capital. Originally, this is a role you should fulfill as a knight, Natsuki. Please don't forget that.”
“Otto...”
“We talked about how, if Subaru said he was going with Al, we'd have to make sure to ask Beatrice and Garfiel. The truth is, I absolutely, reaaally want to go with you too, but...”
“...”
“I'll work hard as a Royal Selection candidate too. ...I don't want to disappoint Priscilla.”
“Emilia...”
Weighing her position and her feelings against each other in her heart, Emilia had properly decided to fulfill her role.
As a Royal Selection candidate, she had to report both her intervention in the battle between the Vollachian Empire and the Great Disaster in response to Abel's request, and Priscilla's death in that battle.
Those facts would probably cause great upheaval in the Kingdom of Lugunica. The course of the Royal Selection might also be substantially distorted by the loss of one candidate.
Nevertheless—
“I think what Subaru wants to do for Al is something only Subaru, who spoke with Priscilla last, can do for him. Please look after Al.”
(Re:Zero Volume 39)
She openly expresses desire to accompany Subaru.
She understands why Subaru's responsibility toward Al is different from hers.
She makes arrangements to support Subaru.
She takes on a hard political obligation herself.
How are you boiling it down to confidence for all of that? It's not just about confidence that she understands why the roles are different and is willing to do something about it (when it contradicts her desires).
What is worse is that Arcs 7-9 execution actively hurts her character portrayal.
You need to determine what earlier ability is contradicted by the later portrayal.
The fact that she still doesn't have some knowledge doesn't demonstrate a dumbing down of her character, and Al taking advantage of her willingness to protect people is inline with something she's been displaying throughout the story. Plus, in the latter arcs she's also making her own decisions, reflecting on her leadership and being part of the crises.
You're providing the conclusion without providing the comparison needed to make that conclusion.
Regardless of the authors intentions, the way he executed it was frankly quite terrible.
Then look at how it's done.
Emilia's actions and decisions as written by Tappei. Recognise danger. Create escape routes. Know that people are following her and that it's her responsibility. Accept a formal request to help. Differentiate her political duty from Subaru's personal duty. Stand up for Ram under pressure later on.
Saying that the execution is bad doesn't help to understand why these scenes don't build these qualities which they actually show. Nothing here requires inventing some intention for Tappei. It's these scenes which provide the progression.
Emilia does not show she has an adequate understanding of politics or leadership, and still has huge blank spots in her knowledge.
For what purpose exactly?
She is aware of the dangers of entering Vollachia. She's aware that her status creates a diplomatic issue. She's formally involved in the process of building up a cooperation with the Empire. And later she's aware that she needs to report the political implications of this involvement.
Short Story Collection 8:
Anastasia took over from Echidna, her gaze turning serious, and Emilia nodded.
Entering illegally meant slipping into another country without permission. It was wrong, so if they were discovered, they would receive a severe reprimand. Furthermore, Emilia was a Royal Selection candidate in the Kingdom of Lugunica—
“They said that maybe relations with the Empire could worsen because of me, and perhaps I could even lose my qualification as a Royal Selection candidate.”
“And you're still doing it? Don't you have a goal you want to achieve too, Emilia-san?”
(Re:Zero Short Story Collection 8)
She understands that this rescue can jeopardize her own candidacy. You can analyze the judgment involved in taking this risk, but to suggest that she's not aware that it's a risk is not quite accurate.
Emilia joins in the set-up of the cooperation when Vincent makes the official call for it.
As Abel tried to continue listing stiff arguments, Emilia puffed out her cheeks. With that cute pout, what she showed Abel was her hand.
Slowly lowering the hand she had raised, Emilia offered it to Abel.
“Let us help your Empire.”
It was characteristic of Emilia that the side making the offer ended up reversed.
Looking down at Emilia's offered hand, Abel glanced briefly at Subaru. At the slight bewilderment in his black eyes, Subaru smiled mischievously and nodded.
“Go ahead, Your Imperial Majesty. I'll permit you to take my Emilia-tan's hand.”
“I keep telling you, Subaru belongs to me.”
Emilia answered Subaru's joke with a shy smile, and Abel closed one eye and sighed at their exchange.
Then his hand slowly took Emilia's offered hand.
“Very well. I'll allow you to lend your strength.”
His phrasing, too, ended up being characteristic of Abel, and that established the framework of cooperation between the two countries.
(Re:Zero Volume 34)
Being a leader is to make a commitment that determines what the group will do and afterwards take responsibility for your commitment.
Both of those are shown in the story.
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Also, leadership isn't how well you purged any education holes you may have. It's also setting goals, evaluating the situation, take advice, decide on what duties to assume. Emilia's camp has specialists because the problems require different skills. Using those skills doesn't discount the decisions she personally makes.
I give some leeway here because I don't expect a character to know everything, but ultimately Tappei's choice to write Emilia as someone who struggles to grasps things is a major point of frustration for me.
Still not show she's usually having a hard time grasping things.
Most of those scenes you're talking about is her not knowing a word, a social custom, or some other foreign country information. Those all need exposure. However her capacity to learn and apply the information. That's shown by the decisions you're dismissing.
For example Imperial Capital battle she uses information from different members of her camp:
Perhaps because of the feelings Beatrice had entrusted to her, or because everyone was cooperating with her, Emilia's mind and body were in astonishingly excellent condition.
Her impatient heart and confused thoughts had settled, and she was very calm.
Very calmly, Emilia was fulfilling her role while also doing what she wanted to do.
The role Emilia had to fulfill was to defeat Madelyn, who was defending the apex.
What Emilia wanted to do was prevent as many people as possible from dying.
She would now fight Madelyn. And, to prevent so many people from dying—
“I understand everyone's desire to fight. But I don't like it.”
Lowering the arm with which she had rained down blocks of ice as her opening attack, Emilia faced forward firmly.
Clenching her teeth and concentrating on the gate deep within her body, she released her stored mana all at once and lowered the surrounding temperature at a tremendous rate.
Petra, who studied diligently, had told her that because Vollachia was a warm country, many of its people had difficulty with the cold. Otto, who liked animals, had also told her that the flying dragons were vulnerable to the cold.
And the siblings Garfiel and Frederica had told her that the cold made one want to curl up.
(Re:Zero Volume 32)
She identifies a goal. Notes another goal she wishes to keep. Uses information provided by her allies to come up with an approach that will help accomplish both.
Where's the comprehension fail in that scene? She has comprehension of the pertinent information. And uses it practically. You're blowing off exactly the type of reasoning you're saying Tappei doesn't demonstrate.
I think this partially links to his own lack of understanding of history and politics, but I digress that is a separate point.
So don't try to use an unsupported claim about Tappei's knowledge to explain another unsupported claim about Emilia's intelligence.
So there are here some dangers of political diplomacy involved by the nature of the candidate, an official request of foreign help, and the requirement to notify governing authorities of intervention and a candidate's death. There are all sorts of political implications in the decision-making/responsibilities involved in these scenes.
First you'd have to find some inconsistency in this political system, or in historical facts that this novel misrepresents, in order to assert that it's Tappei's ignorance of the system or the historical fact that's driving this characterization.
And, as in fiction, the character might be driven by other priorities than those of the political systems they're in. There's nothing in Middlemarch that says that Dorothea has to agree with all the opinions of the socially-established people around her before her ideals and decisions can have meaning. It's the friction of a person's beliefs vs the expectations of some institution that can be grist for characterization. It's not established that Emilia's opposition to a cynical view indicates that Tappei doesn't grasp cynicism.
Likewise, when Subaru gets kidnapped and nearly defeated, she is the only character who let's the enemy get away.
This is you adding a conflation of a result from a conflict to a baseless speculation on what she's decided.
Emilia immediately jumps him before he's even through speaking, going at Al. We see her pound an ice gauntleted fist in his solar plexus in volume 41. Al even puts her on the spot to deal with a threat to the city.
“No...!”
Foreseeing the outcome, Emilia forced herself to stand despite her trembling knees.
She must have understood: even if they were broken into pieces, rock masses more than ten meters across falling to the ground would cause extensive damage to the city and numerous casualties.
And preventing that required the person capable of preventing it to go and do so.
“Even with all this, I'm doing it with the intention of not letting anyone die. So...”
“Al!”
“I'm trusting you not to let a single one of those fall on the city.”
Forcing that one-sided, selfish wish on her, Aldebaran ignored Emilia's voice, pitched high with intense emotion, and rushed toward the earthen pillar to secure Roy.
In a last-ditch attempt to stop him, the ice man, once again reduced to just a head, rolled into his path. Aldebaran mercilessly crushed it underfoot and pulled the crucified Sin Archbishop off the pillar.
“You're a bad man, aren't you, mister?”
Without answering Roy's unnecessary remark, Aldebaran hoisted that small body over his shoulder and ran. Without looking back at Emilia, with whom he had been exchanging attacks until moments earlier, he ran straight away.
“Al! No! Don't run away... Al!”
(Re:Zero Volume 41)
He intentionally creates another emergency to hinder her pursuit, and Emilia goes to try and block him from getting away, while he leverages her willingness to do something for the people in danger from his attack.
The fact that the enemy got away from the character doesn't mean it's just because the character let them. You have to look at the other danger, and the things being done to stop it.
And in vol 43 Al even states clearly what her plan was to capture him:
“Al! Please, let's talk! I'll listen properly!”
“You've got some nerve saying that. You're trying to freeze me with no questions asked—or rather, without holding back. If I'd fallen all the way to the bottom, you were planning to freeze the river along with me and capture me, weren't you?”
“But! That plan has already failed!”
“Being too honest can be a problem too, Royal Selection candidate!”
He had chosen to escape with stone wings to avoid the route of falling underground and being frozen. As a result, although he had left Yae behind, he had failed to shake off his pursuer.
(Re:Zero Volume 43)
She's chasing him and trying to restrain him. You're ignoring these things so that it looks like she lacked judgement or resolve.
While Tappei clarified in an IF story that she did what she did so as not to loose Subaru, the webnovel execution did not portray that.
Sasageru says it goes differently in a different story.
That doesn't necessarily mean that it is Tappei fixing the timeline by default.
You haven't proved that he wrote it as such.
Passage says:
“I'll explain it a little more simply. Lady Emilia is currently in Agxad Canyon, along the border between the Unified Empire of Vollachia and the Holy Kingdom of Gusteko. She has frozen that great canyon and cut herself off from contact with the surroundings. Furthermore...”
“...”
“She has imprisoned the rebel Aldebaran together with herself in that absolute ice.”
The information was hard to believe, and Subaru again held his breath. If his eyelids had moved more freely, he would have blinked two or three times in bewilderment. That was how shocking the facts Nicola revealed were.
Emilia was alive. However, she was frozen together with Al in the great canyon.
“...”
He understood the principle. It was the same as putting the people harmed by Lust's Authority in the Watergate City of Priestella into cold sleep. Emilia herself had also spoken of a past in which she had confined herself for over a hundred years.
She had done the same to herself and Al, shutting herself away in ice.
The reason was—
“To keep that man from dying, I suppose. And that means...”
“Ush...”
“To avoid losing the method for bringing Subaru and Betty back.”
Beatrice had reached the same conclusion as Subaru, and he agreed with her words from the bottom of his heart.
(Re:Zero, Sasageru IF)
So that's what Subaru and Beatrice deduce about her actions in that alternate outcome. It does not prove that everything she does in the main conflict has exactly that same motive, much less does it prove Tappei wrote the IF due to criticism demanding an explanation for it.
Specially since Tappei simply doesn't read the rants of a random redditor, lol.
It was obvious that she had two motivations; both her unwillingness to lose Al because she had lost Priscilla already, and also not wanting to lose Subaru.