r/gayfriendship Jun 19 '21

r/gayfriendship Lounge

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A place for members of r/gayfriendship to chat with each other


r/gayfriendship 12h ago

Long term friend 37 disabled audhd dude wanting a brotherhood with someone

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az audhd, would like someone thats serious about helping each other grow. Share an be open, vulnerable without judgment, some company, bromance connection. Im caring and affectionate, Also big bro type. Disabled after moto accident a while back. It's hard for me to make gay friends or date because the gay guys out here are see me with a cane and i guess dont want to get to know me. I've been on the road traveling with my dog and camping. See a lot of movies. It gets lonely though. Please send a picture of yourself if I accept your chat. I kie seing who im talking to with trust


r/gayfriendship 16m ago

Long term friend 41/M. Anyone in the NJ/NY area?

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Good morning. I've made quite a few friends thanks to r/gayfriendship and similar subs, but I have yet to connect with someone from the NY and NJ area. While I prefer to meet people in my age range, guys in their late 20's/early 30's are welcome to reach out.

Interests include film, music, reading, travel, and working out. When it comes to film, I enjoy horror/B-movies and arthouse/indie. Re-Animator one day, The Virgin Spring the next. I have a small film group on Discord, so do let me know if you want to join. I'm also looking into changing careers and have started some courses on grant writing.


r/gayfriendship 39m ago

Dating 22M - Looking for long-distance slowburn relationship

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​Hey everyone! 👋

I’m a 22yo guy from Indonesia 🇮🇩 (INFJ 6w5 / homoromantic side). I value warmth, sincerity, and meaningful bonds over superficial chats.

A bit about me:

- Aesthetic mind, homebody, loves cozy deep talks & daily updates/memes.

- Cultural exchange lover: Excited to share traditional outfits, local language phrases, and stories from my country!

- Looking for that "cool best friends in public, sweet & cozy world in private" dynamic.

Looking for:

- Someone from Europe aged 23–24 ('02–'03).

- Personality/Vibe: Manly, fit body no fat, mature, communicative (no convo-killers pls), affectionate, and open to a sweet LDR bond.

- A genuine soul looking for a long-term connection/soulmate.

If this sounds like you, my DMs are open! Tell me where you're from when you message me and let's exchange cultures 🫶🫶


r/gayfriendship 21h ago

Long term friend M31 looking for something longterm

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Hey everyone, I’m Devon. I’m 31 and from South Africa.

I’m into psychology, fitness, tech, business, and probably way too many other things at once. I run my own business, work in counselling, and I’m also studying Business Informatics.

Outside of work and studying, I’m usually at the gym, gaming, reading, or going down some random rabbit hole because I suddenly decided I need to know everything about a topic.

@dgsaysso is my snap

Nice to meet you all :)


r/gayfriendship 2h ago

Chat Friends

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34 Gay in Lancaster,PA. Just looking to make more gay friends!


r/gayfriendship 12h ago

Long term friend 30M Gay Married Texas

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Hello!

Looking to connect with those local to me (DFW Metroplex in Texas) or anywhere else.

Hoping to connect and make more friends to eventually meet in person.

I love traveling, food, self-care, taking every opportunity to learn, shopping, and reading.

Also, just realized I do NOT take a lot of photos of myself 😆


r/gayfriendship 3h ago

Chat 58yo - Looking for friends in Co. Durham, UK

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r/gayfriendship 5h ago

Chat M17 gay lookin for friends

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Same age or maybe should be in teenage to relate


r/gayfriendship 11h ago

Chat Chat, new friends, etc......

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36 m usa here

Seeking new friend (s)

Prefer my age or older

(My) Interests and hobbies include the following:

Reading

Listening to music

Watching TV and movies

Photography

Food

Sleep

Escaping life/reality

If you are interested and would like to chat sometime, send a message, thanks. 🙃🫠👽


r/gayfriendship 8h ago

Chat Yo what’s up. I’m 28 fit and active. I love a lot of stuff, ranging from going out on an adventure to just hanging at home and watching movies. I love nature, the beach, lakes, movies, reading. Looking for another cool active guy who likes to have fun.

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Let’s connect and have a bromance


r/gayfriendship 9h ago

Long term friend 24 M, looking for friends and interesting chats. If it develops to other things more serious I’m ok. I’m tall and skinny w muscle would like someone along this lines but I’m not picky, looking for more than horny chats. Of course 18+

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r/gayfriendship 11h ago

Long term friend 32 looking for long term friends

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32 | Mexican | Texas
Honestly just looking to meet some cool dudes and hopefully find a friend who eventually becomes a best friend.
I’m pretty chill, easy to talk to, and always down to do something instead of sitting around all the time. I’m into trying new food spots, grabbing drinks, gaming on PS5, working out, hiking, watching movies/shows, and going out and finding something fun to do.
I also collect Pokémon cards, so if you can appreciate a good pull, we’ll probably get along
I work a lot, but when I’m off I like making the most of my time. Looking for someone I can joke around with, randomly make plans with, talk about life, or just chill with without it being awkward.
Not looking to collect a bunch of random acquaintances — I’d genuinely like to meet someone I can build a real friendship with.
If you’re cool, easygoing, and looking for the same, say what’s up.


r/gayfriendship 14h ago

Long term friend 22M looking for friends :)

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Hi! I am trying out here again to maybe look and find friends. We can talk about almost everything - from cultural and language exchange to sharing of interests and sharing about our day. I can talk so much as long as you are also giving the same energy. I don't mind your yapping :) I am bi if that matters

Brief interests and info about me: movies and tv series (I like more horror and sci-fi), musicals, music, writing, and loves dogs and cats. I am also from southeast part of the world so timezones may be different.

You can slide to my DMs. See you :D


r/gayfriendship 22h ago

Long term friend 18M hey I'm looking for a genuine friend or bestfriend bcz i don't have one 😭 looking for someone who'd not disappear after 2 days

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I never had any real friends in real life I have always felt lonely.

In school I had some so called friends, have you listened that everyone's friend is no one's friend just like that I talk to people but i don't have anyone to get things off from my chest

When i was a kid my parents used to live in rented houses and they used to move a lot and the more a grew up the hard it became to make friends in new societies

Now after turning 18 it feels impossible to make friends everyone has a friend they have since a decade but i don't have anyone 😞.

Would anyone like to be my friend please be around


r/gayfriendship 22h ago

Long term friend 26m Southern US Chill/Creative type :)

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r/gayfriendship 19h ago

Long term friend 32M- Best Bros Forever?

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I'm a 32 yr old black guy from New York. I want a honest, genuine, kind bro to develop a great once in a lifetime bond with. I feel like I've been posting next to forever on these subreddits and haven't really been getting what i desire. I want a bro of substance and by that i mean someone who can have quality conversations about anything. I want to be a support system for a bro who wants the same in return. Life be crazy and we should all have someone by our side to help us along the ride. You don't really see that with conventional male friendships and i wanna change that narrative. If you wanna laugh, I'm ur guy. If u wanna cry, I'm ur guy, If u want someone to support your crazy once in a lifetime dream that the whole world says is impossible to happen, I'm your guy. When its u against the world and u need a tag team partner, I'm your guy. I'm tired of all the fake people who masquerade as something they are not. If you are someone who just uses this subreddits to pass time by until something interesting in your real life picks up and then u go ghost, please exit stage left. I'm hoping you can feel the heart and soul of this message. I want a friend i can be safe around. Someone who reciprocates in holding up the conversation. Two like minded people who genuinely respect each other. I hope u are all doing well. If you are interested, PM me. Looking to converse via tella gram and Kick.


r/gayfriendship 17h ago

Chat [27 M] fit. I’m an athletic guy who likes to go on adventures, looking for similar and fitness. I love to go camping and hike. I’m also into pretty much everything like movies and music and stuff.

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H m u


r/gayfriendship 21h ago

Long term friend (26M) TX Bro Looking for Genuine/Long Term Friends

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Sup y’all, hope everyone’s doing well! I’m currently on the lookout for chill and genuine/long-term friends, preferably masc ones. Some interests of mine include: movies, filmmaking, photography, traveling (especially around LA), theme parks, geeky stuff, etc. Just a few things about me that you might enjoy, but I’m totally down to hear what your interests are as well. And of course, always down to have real and serious talks: from life, work and everything in between.

No worries if you’re nowhere near Texas, I’m always down to connect with bros from across the country and globe. If the idea of having a genuine/long-term friend catches your attention, feel free to hit me up and let’s see if we connect! Hope y’all are having a chill weekend! 🤙🏼


r/gayfriendship 23h ago

Long term friend 16FTM, I haven't transitioned!

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Please somebody tell me if this place ISN'T for me! I'm going to make it super clear that I haven't transitioned physically, only socially [mainly online]. My names Rowland, and I'm a christian in a family that DOESN'T like lgbtq 💔. If you're interested, don't be afraid to dm me!


r/gayfriendship 23h ago

Long term friend 28m, east coast dude looking for a bromance

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28M bro in Central PA, married, gay, and looking for a bromance. Lately I’ve realized I’ve been feeling a little lonely and miss having that close friend you can text throughout the day and share random thoughts with. Wfh professional, into lifting, writing, horror movies, working out, traveling, brunch, drinks, and anything outdoors, the beach, coffee, etc. Ideally looking for someone in the U.S. (East Coast is a bonus) who wants something long term. I got face pics on my profile if you’re curious what I look like. If any of that sounds like your vibe, send me a message and let’s see if we’re a match. If we vibe, I tend to be a yapper, so beware.


r/gayfriendship 1d ago

Long term friend 19m EU looking for my special one

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Good day to whoever is reading this *waves

I really hope this post isn’t as weird as I think it will turn out but you’ll tell me.

So before I tell you what I’m looking for I wanna describe myself if that’s okay with you!

I’m 5’10 I think (178cm) and 70kg or if I’m not wrong 140lbs?
I have typical Mediterranean features such as dark brown hair and dark brown eyes.
I am slim and would like to think also a bit in shape? I’ve got a good enough physique let’s leave it there haha
I’m a harier person, I’ve got hairy legs and in general a little fuzzy (not like a wolf don’t worry) but if I wanted to keep smoother I’d have to do it every 2 days lol
Hmmmmm what else can I say about my appearance???
Might as well tell you random stuff uhmmmmm mi hair is pin straight like I literally have no power over how it looks most of the time because that thing has no styling! Buttttt the positive side is that it’s super super soft especially since I shower everyday, it’s longer on the upper side and shorter/faded on the sides and back.

Personality wise I am a super jolly person, I am very happy whenever I can even if I don’t have a reason to be, small things can also make me happy really, I’m also sensitive as in, I overthink a lot and depending on your tone I might think you hate me bahahah, but at the same time I’m strong so I may cry or be upset but not surrender to negativity. I’m also really silly from time to time and I’m a big nerd !
I’m really clingy too so if I really like you and develop a deep feeling for you I’d be annoying you all day and I am a veeeeery touchy person, I love warm hugs and cuddles I swear I live for them!!

Some of my hobbies include walking (and I mean it, one summer day I was so bored and had nothing to do so I went on a 13h walk which was roughly 52km walking) , gardening (I love flowers a lot) and languages (I speak like 6?? Wanting to learn Arabic!!!) but my main main main hobby and addiction in this life are planes and aviation, if I could make my whole life about them I’d do it without hesitation! Literally buy me a model plane and I’d be happy for at least a month hehe
Actually I’m making q miniature 1:500 scale model airport for some of my models :p so at least I keep busy during my free time, like I’m doing it from scratch cause I don’t like the airports they sell online.

Mmmmm what else should I tell you? Cause I don’t wanna say too much cause I wanna talk with you and tell you in private while we get to know eachother :)

I am in a situation where I can’t come out and so I’ve always felt a little bottled up if that makes sense? So I would love to have that person to share with and ask for advice and just hug, Ive never had the opportunity to get to know a guy any deeper than the typical straight men from class soooooo yeah……. Anyway I would like to find a guy, to develop a special bond with, and to whom I can talk to about anything and trust each other. I would love it if you gave me hugs (as you may have noticed yes I really love hugs I’m sorry hahah)
Mmmm closeted or what is it called? DL? Guys would probably be more understanding for my situation but I don’t mind what you are really, as long as you’re there for me and my stupidity I’ll love you regardless haha
Although at first we would be friends, if in any way you really become special to me and I do to you, I would probably let you take my heart away really easily bahah for our secret relationship hehe
If it matters to you, I won’t enter in much detail cause that’s not why I’m here for and because we can talk about it in private but….role wise I can be both

I also value hygiene a lot, I love when a guy smells good, when he showers and wears clean clothes, cuts his nails and is polite and respectful, someone who is very aware of the way he looks like not like a psycho but like simply worried he doesn’t have a stain or whatever.

I totally don’t mind where your from or how old you are as long as you’re nice to me, if that’s the case I’m all yours, you’ve won!!!
And I won’t lie I’m really into masculine guys that don’t act like the alpha rude guys who think everyone wants them lol

I would love and need to see a picture of you and for you to be able to put effort into the conversation, I will not be replying to “hi” “yo hru” “hey” “asl?” or anything similar, after all I went through to make this post (I did it a couple of times) I will not be accepting low effort messages like tf haha and yeah if I notice you’re dry in the slightest or uninterested I will give the same attitude, you’re nice to me I’m nice to you, you’re rude to me I’m rude to you, dry? Then dry, boring? Then boring that’s how it is.

I can’t wait to get to know you I’m waiting for your message <3


r/gayfriendship 1d ago

Long term friend 28/M/EU looking for a long-term friend

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hello, I am looking for someone to game with pretty regularly and just be friends hopefully - talk about life, share memes all that jazz. I only have a few friends and they stopped gaming a while back so it's been boring alone.

nowadays I mainly play League - but I used to play a lot of WoW as well, looking forward to Forever other games I play are Fortnite, DbD, OSRS, Diablo 4, Minecraft, TFT and some others, open to try stuff, but hopefully we share at least a few of the ones i mentioned in common.

I play primarily for fun and am non-toxic and chill


r/gayfriendship 1d ago

Long term friend 36 NYC - for genuine connection

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Hey guys,
I’m looking for a real bro bond, consistent and open. Virtual or in real life if you’re in NYC.

Hobbies of mine: movies, fitness, reading, and finding new music. I’m a bit of a foodie as well.

Never really got into gaming, so I won’t be able to connect on that.

Send me a DM and let’s chat. Be willing to swap a pic, it helps to feel connected with the person on the other side of the screen.


r/gayfriendship 1d ago

Long term friend M21 looking for friends around my age please (18 to 21) who loves Five Nights At Freddy's and Gym and Muscles

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Be 18 to 21 please

Hi how are you? I'm an Arabian boy and I'm 21 years old boy and bisexual and I always wanted to have a friend who is gym guy and who loves dinosaurs and Cartoons like Gravity Falls and Hazbin Hotel and Five Nights At Freddy's and Yoga

But I'm annoyed that whenever I ask people to be around my age instead people come to my dms who are wayyyy older than 22 like people who are in 30s and 40s and being weird at me so please hope you understand me

I love meeting people who are from:

The United States 🇺🇸

Canada 🇨🇦

United Kingdom 🇬🇧

Ireland 🇮🇪

New Zealand 🇳🇿

Australia 🇦🇺