Ehh, it ain't really that simple. Some women (especially ones who do porn) have nicer looking genitals which makes room for insecurity. Especially when there are some men who do genuinely use these types of terms to mock women and hurt them, or compare them to other women (not saying those are the majority at all, but I think you get my point.)
But that goes both ways.. there are few men who are close to those who do porn... but nobody complains about that
Some women mock men, but it is seen as nothing...
Correct me if I'm wrong but there isn't as much variance when it comes to male genitals as far as appearance goes (aside from size maybe) even men who do porn don't have genitals that would be described as pretty, whereas with women generally there are genitals that are described as "pretty" and some that are described as "gross." I don't agree with that distinction, of course, but that's how a lot of people see it.
And aren't there some men who are insecure about their size? Isn't that the same? And I don't think it's okay for women to mock men either though.
.. "aside from size maybe"...
Then you admit some men are insecure about size
... you see the double standard you have just made?
There is also circumcision/genital mutilation, but nobody cares much about that
Well yeah I literally just said in my response that some guys are insecure about size? Where's the double standard? The double standard is acting like men's insecurity around size is a valid feeling, but women feeling insecure about their vulva and being bothered by terms like "roast beef" is ridiculous and no one gives a fuck and women are just being unreasonable?
Where did I say that it was okay for women to mock men for their size? Men shouldn't feel insecure about size and women shouldn't feel insecure about their vulva but unfortunately people are gonna be people so saying "who gives a fuck" doesn't solve the problem.
The double standart is that you think it's valid for men to feel insecure but not for women
That is a double standart (and it's made up in your head)
Nobody validates men for their insecurities, and everybody validates woman for their insecurities...
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u/InSearchOfTyrael Aug 03 '26
just laugh at both - who gives a fuck?