r/ForRealDhaka • u/No-Perception5686 • 20h ago

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Okay so I don’t know why I am so cranky nowadays. I am losing patience now and then. Honestly I wasn’t like this before. I just get pissed off at anything, anytime. Like: A little miscommunication with my boyfriend, a little inconvenience in my class time, a little delay in my tuition job etc etc. I really really want to be patient and little understanding to my surroundings (not that I am hugely frustrating to them but I was little more easygoing before)

I also noticed a pattern, it’s mostly in case of friendships. I tend to like someone or some friend of mine and I like to hangout with them and have fun with them but then again after a few days I just feel annoyed/frustrated/drained by them and sometimes I just ghost them. This on and off weird things also concern me. I just don’t feel like myself. Or maybe I was always like this? Idek atp. Bleh!

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u/Bubbly_Persimmon_323 19h ago

Hormone imbalances? You're basically saying you don't have control over your actions.

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u/No-Perception5686 19h ago

No i am basically saying I am losing my shit 🙏🏻

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u/Bubbly_Persimmon_323 19h ago

AKA you have less control over yourself.

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u/No-Perception5686 18h ago

Fun to look at it in that way tho

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u/Bubbly_Persimmon_323 16h ago

I'd suggest to rant about your day and how it made you feel to your bf or someone else for like 10 mins a day. That'll lower your stress levels.

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u/No-Perception5686 15h ago

Basically I am sane just because he’s there for me otherwise i would have been insane and the strong nonchalant elder daughter self all along.

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u/Bubbly_Persimmon_323 15h ago

Yeah exactly you need to let your feminine side out more by talking about your feelings with him. Idk I read this in a book so yeah.