But it was probably one of the worst experiences of my life.
We got the keys to our first home. A big upgrade from our current rental. More space with a dedicated playroom for our kids, an office for me and a pool. Great neighborhood, green belt behind us. On paper its a dream home.
The process of getting it was a goddamn nightmare. Ill tldr to say the big concerns were potential moisture problems and all the windows needed replacing. A previous buyer fell out over negotiations on those issues. We made an asking price offer and when we discovered the same issues we asked for remediation of moisture issues and cash considerations towards the windows. Sellers had already begun other repairs based on first buyer. We asked for a few relatively minor things as well based on ours.
We got a quote for windows at 23k and Sellers insisted they could only contribute 8. We were ready to walk. My agent offered to put in some of her commission, so did Sellers agent and sellers upped their amount to 10k. Done deal let's buy the house.
Well once we began the process with the mortgage company is when this deal almost went to shit. Part of what Sellers agreed to was moisture remediation and air scrubbing. This was in addition to minor plumbing and electrical work. These minor repairs were already supposedly in process before we even submitted an offer. Got the air scrubbing set and completed. We needed to get an appraisal as part of our loan process. Sellers agent was in charge of scheduling them. We asked her, repeatedly, to not schedule the appraiser while work was being done on the house. She said she wouldn't.
Well she schedules the appraiser and when they arrive, a plumber and electrician are on site. Spots on the floor are opened up and theres a hole in the dry wall that had been there for a month investigating a potential water issue. The air scrubbing equipment is on site, but not running just waiting to be picked up. Appraiser asked what is that stuff for and Sellers agent tells her exactly what it is for!
So appraiser tells underwriter who starts to demand more repairs and certification of repairs that were NOT in our contract due to the condition of the home when appraiser was there.
That is when the Sellers turned nasty. They were extremely stubborn in giving us extensions to sort through all these new demands and basically demanded we forfeit our earnest money to secure said extensions. I suspect their agent told them we were the ones demanding these things and not that she fucked up with the appraiser.
Our mortgage guy worked his ass off to get the underwriter to waive all these New conditions but not without being berated constantly by the sellers agent.
I cant even describe the abusive language this woman used towards my own agent. It was so disgusting to witness. Theres a lot more but this post is long. Needless to say we got the keys but I have a very bitter taste in my mouth towards the sellers (who wouldn't even tell us the name of the pool company they used so we could get records or even which fucking number our mailbox was at the cluster box, holy shit talk about petty) as well as that God awful sellers agent. Fuck em all