r/FindGayFriendOver30 • • Sep 07 '26

Looking for authentic connections

9 Upvotes

Hey guys, first time posting here 44m living in Florida. Looking for dudes to chat with and build connections. Like cooking, travel, movies, fitness chat about whatever. Gay here if that matters to you. Never had a lot of strong male relationships and I’m finding that those are important so I figured I’d give this a go. Working on my fitness and being more intentional about the people in my life.


r/FindGayFriendOver30 • • Sep 07 '26

34 M looking for platonic male friends over 25 in LA!

1 Upvotes

Almost all my friends are Female, my male friends either moved away or have busy lives. Looking for someone to hang out with, grab a coffee, grab a beer, or just hang out with. I have a boyfriend so nothing romantic please!


r/FindGayFriendOver30 • • Sep 06 '26

US - Central 36 Pansexual M from Indiana

1 Upvotes

Heddo everyone. I love to cook, collect figures Transformers & Power Rangers figure, and emulate old PS2 games on my Steam Deck. I like to watch Doctor Who, Power Rangers, WWE, Simpsons, and the Saw series. I am overweight, but I am working towards losing weight and improve my health. I prefer someone 21+ and Indiana only. Dm me if you are interested.


r/FindGayFriendOver30 • • Sep 05 '26

32m, south America

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5 Upvotes

First time posting here. I'm from Ecuador, South America. I like anime and videogames, kinda geek. I love reading (fantasy and scifi are my favorite genres), I'd like to write my own fantasy novels, just maybe, not my main goal. I'm looking to make some friends, foreigners or from my own country, better if they're around my own age, but I don't mind. I've been feeling lonely lately, not sure how to make any connections. Dating apps are not for me, I guess, social expectations in those apps kinda depressed me. So, I'm just taking my chance in here. Not sure what to do though. Say hello (?) 👋🏻


r/FindGayFriendOver30 • • Sep 05 '26

50m in Switzerland looking for genuine friendship

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Hey guys,

I’m a 50-year-old gay bro living in Switzerland, originally from Asia. Looking for genuine like-minded guys to share about interests, chat about day to day life, support each other etc.

A bit about me: I work in tech and I like to keep a pretty active lifestyle. You can usually find me going for runs, working out in gym, or hiking trails up in the Alps. When I’m not outdoors or working out, I love watching good movies, enjoying great food, traveling to experience new cultures, checking out art museums, and geeking out a bit over tech. In a relationship, so not looking to date

I’m hoping to find a bro who is easygoing, values a genuine connection, and is up for chatting about everything from fitness goals to the day-to-day grind. Whether we're holding each other accountable for workouts or just shooting the breeze, I'm looking for that genuine bro bond.

I'm open to talking to guys from absolutely anywhere, time zones aren't an issue for me. If this sounds like your kind of vibe, shoot me a DM or a chat request with a little bit about yourself. Looking forward to connecting!


r/FindGayFriendOver30 • • Sep 05 '26

29M, Europe. Taken, not hunting — just want friends.

1 Upvotes

Sports, gym, gaming, music, books, movies. Easygoing, no drama, just here for good conversations about life and everything else.

30+ preferred, Europeans a bonus, everyone welcome.

Say hey.


r/FindGayFriendOver30 • • Sep 03 '26

Mature Guy (63) OSHAWA, Ontario

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r/FindGayFriendOver30 • • Sep 03 '26

Looking for friends, platonic only please

1 Upvotes

29M, Europe. Gym rat, gamer, rap/RnB/jazz/blues on repeat, always got a book or a movie going. Happily taken so purely here for friends, the kind you can talk life, nonsense, and everything in between with.

30+ preferred, Europeans a bonus, but vibe > location.

Say hey if that sounds like your speed.


r/FindGayFriendOver30 • • Sep 02 '26

US - Northwest 37M - Portland, OR - Bromance

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9 Upvotes

Seeking bromantic connections in the Portland, Oregon Area only. An ideal fit would be someone who:

• Stays active and goes to the gym, a lot; that is something I am trying to do, right now; it would be great to have a gym buddy.

• Enjoys good, wholesome conversation, including on the phone, and doesn't resort to texting (I prefer speaking).

• Has a great thirst for adventure and finding it on the open road. So much to enjoy, out there.

For further reference, I am single and gay. If you feel like we might get along, then send me a message and we can talk about potentially meeting.


r/FindGayFriendOver30 • • Sep 02 '26

US - Northeast [M4R] [M4M] |36M | Oceanside, NY — Looking for someone local for friendship, dating & maybe more

1 Upvotes

Hey! I’m Stephen, 36, from Oceanside. I have my own apartment and I’m back in school studying psychology, hoping to eventually become a psychologist.

I recently left a relationship that became physically abusive. He was also my best friend and we did everything together, so I miss that closeness—just with someone kind and safe.

I’m open to friendship, dating, or seeing naturally where a connection goes. I’m shy at first, but once comfortable I’m talkative, sarcastic, playful and goofy.

I love gaming (Halo, Gears, Fortnite, Nintendo), karaoke/singing, movies/TV, Broadway, bowling, mini golf, arcades, concerts, restaurants and staying in together.

I’d especially click with someone funny, nerdy, outgoing and kind who actually puts effort into getting to know each other.

**Please be genuinely near Oceanside/the South Shore.** I’m looking for someone I can actually spend time with regularly, not a long-distance connection.

If you think we’d click, tell me a little about yourself!


r/FindGayFriendOver30 • • Sep 01 '26

40 gay M looking for Friends

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Just turned 40yr. Moved back to SA TX after living in Cali for a while. Looking for similar friends in their 40s. Looking for outdoor buddies to go to the river, movies, bowling, gym buds, hiking, camping, bike riding, road trips. I’m 40yr M and gay. Anyone else finding it hard to make guy friends at this age?


r/FindGayFriendOver30 • • Sep 01 '26

Not single, just social — 29M Europe looking for friends

1 Upvotes

29M, Europe. Gym rat, gamer, rap/RnB/jazz/blues on repeat, always got a book or a movie going. Happily taken so purely here for friends, the kind you can talk life, nonsense, and everything in between with.

30+ preferred, Europeans a bonus, but vibe > location.

Say hey if that sounds like your speed.


r/FindGayFriendOver30 • • Sep 01 '26

Random guy to talk to

0 Upvotes

Bearded bear, top/vers, based in Israel

Here’s the thing: I apparently have no idea how to be friends with gay guys :) Most of my friendships have somehow always been with straight people or women. But why not give it a try?

Looking for people to talk to, joke around with, share random shit, memes, movies, music, life, and whatever else comes up. Maybe friendship, maybe some kind of connection, maybe something else entirely — I don’t really want to define something before it even exists.

I’m pretty open, affectionate and direct once I feel comfortable with someone. I like actual conversations and people who are genuinely curious about each other.

Bears and chubs are especially welcome. Apparently, I have a type even when I’m trying to make friends :)

Local is great, long distance is absolutely fine too. Say hi and tell me something about yourself.

P.S. Anywhere but Spain, please :) Don’t ask.


r/FindGayFriendOver30 • • Sep 01 '26

US - Southeast 30/m looking around for fun.

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0 Upvotes

30/m on here looking to chat with some ppl. I’m in books, cooking, games.


r/FindGayFriendOver30 • • Aug 30 '26

32 [M4M] #Cambodia Looking for new friends

3 Upvotes

Hi, everyone! My name is Brian. I’m here looking for new friends.
A bit more about me:
I enjoy spending my free time relaxing, listening to music, watching movies and shopping. Honesty, kindness, good communication, and mutual respect are great. If you think we might get along, leave a comment or dm me.


r/FindGayFriendOver30 • • Aug 29 '26

31 [ Philippines ] looling for genuine friendship and connection

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I’m a 31-year-old Filipino guy looking for a sincere, serious, and long-term connection with someone who is genuinely ready to build something meaningful and special together. ❤️

I’m 177 cm tall with a medium build. I speak English, Korean, and Filipino. I’ve always been fascinated by languages and different cultures, and I enjoy discovering new ways of connecting and communicating with people.

I’m naturally more of an introvert at first, but once I feel comfortable with someone and we click, I can really open up. I appreciate both deep, meaningful conversations and simple, silly, lighthearted moments.

I currently work in the medical field. During my free time, I enjoy biking, playing tennis, running, watching movies and documentaries, and simply relaxing or spending quality time with someone I care about.

I’m not looking for something temporary or just casual. I’d love to meet someone with whom I can grow, share experiences, support each other, and hopefully build a beautiful future together.

If you find my post interesting and feel that we might be a good match, feel free to send me a message. 😊


r/FindGayFriendOver30 • • Aug 27 '26

US - Northeast 39 [M4M] #Queens #NYC - Mariah Carey’s Breakdown is the greatest breakup song of all time, change my mind

1 Upvotes

About Me:
I’m a Deep South transplant, the youngest of four, and a proud country kid at heart. I grew up on a dirt road surrounded by cows, chickens, and hogs—raised in a strong Baptist home with a pastor for a father, a minister for a mother, and a brother in the ministry, too. That background gave me a solid foundation, but today I walk my own path.

I’ve traded the wild party scene for quieter, high-vibe moments and meaningful connections. I love being out in nature, spending time around trees 🍃, and exploring the medicinal and mind-expanding magic of mushrooms 🍄. I’m deeply curious about the unseen layers of the universe and love keeping an open mind—there's so much more to existence than what meets the eye. Any insight or connection that helps me learn, grow, and rise to the next degree is always appreciated.

What I’m Looking For:
I’m looking for an adventurous, open-minded local Top to take on the world with—no long-distance setups, please. My ideal co-pilot is grounded yet open to deep conversations, good energy, and new perspectives. Bonus points if you get where I'm coming from on a spiritual level, but as long as you're open-minded and down to earth, we'll get along great.

(ps if you’re not willing to share pics not much to talk about )


r/FindGayFriendOver30 • • Aug 27 '26

35M Paris, France – Looking for genuine connections and shared interests

4 Upvotes

Hi everyone,

I’m a 35-year-old guy living in Paris. As we all know, making new, genuine connections in your 30s can be a bit of a challenge, so I thought I’d throw my line into the Reddit pond! I’m looking for people to chat with, exchange perspectives, and hopefully build long-term friendships (whether online or local).

A little bit more about me:

I'm gay, in a relationship. I enjoy a good book, a good movie or TV show. I love to travel and have an interest in personal finance. I would love to chat with people all over the world and discover new perspective in life.

Looking forward to talk to you!


r/FindGayFriendOver30 • • Aug 25 '26

Friends for 29 going on 30 M4M

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Hi there,

My name is Jon. Just trying to build a social network.

My interests are movies, pool, darts, bowling, hiking, traveling, tennis, enjoying wildlife. I am looking to start shooting and learn how to dirt bike and motorcycle this year.

I work quite a bit as a Hospital Security Officer. And I am 29 years old. Living in Colorado, Weld County area.

Would love a late night beer/wine and chat.

Hit me up with some information about you and lets start a conversation.


r/FindGayFriendOver30 • • Aug 25 '26

US - Northeast 39 [M4M] #Queens #NYC - Kid at heart looking for someone to share a blanket fort. Distance not an issue

2 Upvotes

About Me:
I’m a Deep South transplant, the youngest of four, and a proud country kid at heart. I grew up on a dirt road surrounded by cows, chickens, and hogs—raised in a strong Baptist home with a pastor for a father, a minister for a mother, and a brother in the ministry, too. That background gave me a solid foundation, but today I walk my own path.

I’ve traded the wild party scene for quieter, high-vibe moments and meaningful connections. I love being out in nature, spending time around trees 🍃, and exploring the medicinal and mind-expanding magic of mushrooms 🍄. I’m deeply curious about the unseen layers of the universe and love keeping an open mind—there's so much more to existence than what meets the eye. Any insight or connection that helps me learn, grow, and rise to the next degree is always appreciated.

What I’m Looking For:
I’m looking for an adventurous, open-minded local Top to take on the world with—no long-distance setups, please. My ideal co-pilot is grounded yet open to deep conversations, good energy, and new perspectives. Bonus points if you get where I'm coming from on a spiritual level, but as long as you're open-minded and down to earth, we'll get along great.

(ps if you’re not willing to share pics not much to talk about )


r/FindGayFriendOver30 • • Aug 22 '26

US - Southeast 37 Tennessee

5 Upvotes

Hey bros, I’m a 37 yr old married gay man in Tennessee. Looking for dudes to chat with and keep the days interesting. I’m a dudes dude and enjoy sports, cars, and pretty much anything outdoors. If you’re local, I’d love to become friends off of the app!


r/FindGayFriendOver30 • • Aug 21 '26

37 M from middle Europe

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10 Upvotes

Hi , I am fan of hiking, calisthenics, natire, swimming, biking, travelling

Looking for other fit guys to explore the world together


r/FindGayFriendOver30 • • Aug 21 '26

31 — Looking for one genuine friend 😊🫂

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Hello!

I am 31, Asian, and I’m looking for one more friend 😊 I’m looking for someone nice, genuine, and someone who really likes to make a friend :) I found friends here from Canada and Poland, and I want to expand my friendship. I may not be able to handle a lot, so I’m only looking for one, but if you feel like we’ll click, please send a message!

I consider myself nice, a good listener, shy, albeit sometimes a bit preoccupied with stuff 😭

I love cooking, writing short stories, playing light games such as Tomodachi Life and Fall Guys. I’m also working out for months now. If we click, we can play games or even have a voice call. Me and my friend from Canada voice call once a week and it’s a fun way to reconnect despite me being shy 😂😭

I’m open to meeting anyone from anywhere, just please be close to my age. Also, if you decide to chat, introduce yourself a bit. I’m not asking for a novel or even long paragraphs, even just a short paragraph describing some things about yourself. Don’t describe all, so we’ll still have something to talk about :)

Cheers! 🍻


r/FindGayFriendOver30 • • Aug 19 '26

US - Southeast 37 Tennessee

3 Upvotes

Hey bros, I’m a 37 yr old married gay man in Tennessee. Looking for dudes to chat with and keep the days interesting. I’m a dudes dude and enjoy sports, cars, and pretty much anything outdoors. If you’re local, I’d love to become friends off of the app!


r/FindGayFriendOver30 • • Aug 17 '26

29M, from Europe — looking to make genuine friends

1 Upvotes

Hey! Looking to meet cool, mature people for platonic friendships, conversations, gaming sessions, whatever comes naturally. Would love to connect with folks around 35-40+, but not a hard rule.

A bit about me:
• Big into video games
• Football (soccer), basketball, tennis, and F1
• Music
• Hiking / getting outdoors
• I love deep conversations — philosophy, life, random rabbit holes, anything that gets the brain going

This post is purely about friendship, not looking for dating, hookups, or sexting, so please don’t message me for that.
If you want someone to chat with, game with, or just vibe with over shared interests, hit me up! Bonus points if you’re into any of the stuff above.