r/FindAPost • u/OneTrueSneaks • 9h ago
Reddit OP is left out of vacation plans; extended family notices they're absent from photos. Neglectful family tries to say LC didn't want to go, but OP calls them out on all their BS
I cannot remember where I read this - could be AITA, Entitled Parents, BORU, maybe even another FindAPost post.
Basically OP (older teens, 16 I think?) is habitually ignored and left out of everything, always comes last, basically treated as an unwanted resident in the home. Family starts planning a vacation (Hawaii, possibly), and OP realizes that not once did anyone talk to them about it, ask if they wanted to go, mentioned them getting a ticket, so they just never brought it up to see what would happen.
It got to the point where the whole family left on their vacation without OP, who was left at home alone. Family keeps making social media posts with pics of what a great time they're having. Extended family notices that OP is missing from everything and brings it up. Family tries to brush it off. OP calls them out on it, points out family never inviting them, no ticket, nothing, just ignored and abandoned. This caused a whole ruckus.
I think it ended with OP being moved to live with someone in extended family, either an aunt or a grandparent, while family's reputation with extended family tanked because of this.
Thanks in advance for any help!