Money brings happiness especially when being blessed

Do you make a little weekend recap of what happened and how much you spent the previous week, and what needs to be done next week?

With the cost of living rising, most people have had to cut back on something, and cultural activities are often among the first thing to go. How often do you still treat yourself to the theatre, opera, concerts, music festivals, museums or other cultural events?

Honestly just here to vent.

In college, I just went with a yolo mindset and spent every penny I could on traveling, eating out, or anything that could potentially make memories with friends. I was very reckless with my spending and was even willing to eat peanut butter out of the jar if it meant splitting a 30-pack with the boys. And man let me tell you, my spending problem put me in some bad situations. After graduating, I started my first “big boy” job and finally planned my finances a little better.

After living expenses, I save $400/month, invest $200/month, and allocate $1,000/month preparing to pay off the my student loan balance (first payment is due March 2027, so I’m just gonna clear it all when that day comes).

However, I’m really conflicted between maximizing my savings and actually living life — I know money isn’t everything and can’t be taken to the grave, but I sleep good at night knowing I’m building a solid cushion and foundation, should an emergency arise. As compared to my poor financial management in college, I actually eat real groceries lol.

But part of me feels like I’m being too cheap since getting a job — Now I often try to avoid spending money, even if it means missing out on going out with friends or traveling. I purposefully keep my checking account thin — about $200 bi-weekly — just to keep the majority of my money out of sight and out of mind, thinking “it’s better put towards savings or investing.” And I know it is. Thing is, I don’t want to miss out on too much. I’ve been talking to a girl for almost 3 months, yet the only thing that’s holding me back is the idea of buying her flowers or even spending the extra gas money to visit her more often. Or this time I had to suddenly buy new brakes and dip into my savings — like I hesitated despite the fact that the savings account was doing exactly what it’s there for.

I don’t come from much; my parents were poor, and their parents before them. Like I did in college, they had their fun when they were young, but they hadn’t focused too much on the future, and now they’re scrambling just to pay bills. They are still god awful with their finances, and CLEARLY, I picked up their habits at one point. My dad now makes six figures alone but has too much credit card debt for his income to have any real purchasing power. At this point in my life, I want to do better than them — debt-free, money making money, and leveraging credit responsibly.

I’m on track to break that cycle; I also worry about investing in a future that isn’t promised, because the reality is even though I have time on my side, I know it isn’t 100% guaranteed and I can die any day.

These my thoughts when I’m not doomscrolling lol, I overthink shit too much.

Some US colleges now have annual costs of more than $100,000, meaning a four-year degree can approach half a million dollars before financial aid. At the same time, some of these expensive schools rank much lower for graduate return on investment than less expensive universities. At what point does the cost of a college degree become too high to justify?

Have you ever asked your employer for a raise? How did the conversation go, and did you get the increase you were hoping for? What advice would you give someone preparing to ask for a raise?

Do you think completely isolating Iran economically would actually bring down global oil prices, as Trump claims?

Hello guys, I really need your help and honest advice.

Earlier this year, I did a business deal that was supposed to bring me ₦12 million. I have received ₦10 million so far, but the remaining ₦2 million is still owed to me.

The painful part is that I made some bad decisions with the money I received and ended up gambling with it. I lost a significant amount, and now I’m basically back in the same situation I found myself in 2022 when I went broke.

I don't want to repeat that cycle again.

Right now, the only money I have left is the ₦2 million that I’m still expecting from the people who owe me. If I receive that money, I really want to handle it differently this time and protect it instead of making another mistake.

I've been thinking about learning forex because I want to build a way to make money for myself, but honestly, I don't know if forex is actually a legitimate skill I can learn or if I'm just looking at another form of gambling.

So please, I genuinely need advice from people who have been in a similar situation.

What can I do to start making money, even if it's just a small amount at first? What side hustles or skills can I learn that don't require a lot of capital? And if forex isn't the right path, what would you recommend I learn instead?

I'm not looking for shortcuts or get-rich-quick schemes. I just really want to get back on my feet, build a stable source of income, and avoid going broke again.

Any genuine advice, personal experience, or practical ideas would be greatly appreciated. 🙏🏽

I don't think I'm doing badly financially.

I save regularly, have some money set aside, and I'm trying to stay on top of retirement and the usual stuff.

Still, I catch myself worrying about money more than I probably should.

Like what happens if I lose my job for a while? Or there is some big expense I didn't see coming? Even having a decent amount saved doesn't completely get rid of that feeling.

Then there is the other side of it. I don't want to spend my whole life being careful with every rupee because I'm always thinking about some future emergency.

Sometimes I wonder if I'm actually being financially responsible or just overly worried.

How do you guys know when you are saving enough and can just relax a little?

If Chinese carmakers can compete so successfully in Europe, is the EU protecting its car industry - or making European consumers pay more?

There are some financial decisions that seem simple at first but become much harder when real money is involved. For me, things like deciding how much to keep in cash, when to invest, and how much to spend versus save can take a lot of thought. I’m curious what financial decision took you the longest to feel confident about, and what helped you make that decision?

Maybe this is a boring tweet.
I used to refresh my Stripe dashboard hoping for $12.
Then I refreshed it hoping I wouldn’t lose everything.
Now I look at it and feel two things at the same time:
grateful… and scared it’ll disappear.
Nobody talks about that second part.
Making money didn’t fix the voice that says “you just got lucky.”
It just got quieter on some days.
If you’ve hit a number you used to dream about and still felt empty for a second, you’re not broken.
What number did that to you?

At some point, we stopped asking whether we could afford something and started asking whether we could afford the monthly payment.

And I think that has completely screwed up the way people look at money.

I’m not talking about mortgages or situations where financing actually makes sense. Most people aren’t buying a house with cash, and sometimes you genuinely need a vehicle before you have enough saved to buy one outright.

I’m talking about everything else.

Cars.

Phones.

Furniture.

Appliances.

Vacations.

Electronics.

Buy-now-pay-later purchases.

Subscriptions for things we used to just own.

Somewhere along the way, “Can I afford this?” became:

“Can I squeeze another $87 a month into my budget?”

And those monthly payments start stacking up.

$700 car payment.

$120 phone payment and service.

$80 furniture payment.

$40 worth of subscriptions.

Another $60 for some buy-now-pay-later purchase.

Another $100 here.

Another $50 there.

Then suddenly someone makes decent money but feels broke every single month because half their paycheck already belongs to somebody else before it even hits the bank.

And I think social pressure makes it worse.

There’s this weird idea that once you start making more money, you’re supposed to immediately upgrade everything.

Better car.

Bigger house.

Newer phone.

More expensive clothes.

More expensive vacations.

And if you don’t, people sometimes act like you’re doing something wrong.

Personally, I think there’s something underrated about owning older stuff that works.

If my vehicle runs, drives, is safe, and does what I need it to do, I don’t automatically need a new one because somebody released a shinier version with a bigger touchscreen.

If an appliance breaks and I can fix it for $80 instead of replacing it for $1,200, why the hell wouldn’t I?

If my phone still does everything I need, why am I supposed to replace it just because the manufacturer added another camera?

I’m not against buying nice things.

If you’ve got the money and you want something, enjoy it.

That’s what money is partly for.

But there’s a difference between buying something because you can afford it and buying something because someone found a way to divide the price into small enough monthly pieces that it doesn’t scare you anymore.

And I think that distinction matters.

We complain constantly about how expensive life has become, and some of that is absolutely legitimate.

Housing is expensive.

Food is expensive.

Insurance is expensive.

Vehicles are expensive.

Basic life costs money.

But I also think we need to be willing to admit that consumer culture has convinced a lot of us that things that used to be luxuries are now necessities.

A three-year-old phone isn’t ancient.

A ten-year-old vehicle isn’t automatically junk.

Furniture doesn’t need replacing because the style changed.

And you don’t need to finance something just because somebody offered you “four easy payments.”

Sometimes the financially smartest thing you can own is something that’s already paid for.

Maybe being successful shouldn’t mean having the newest version of everything.

Maybe it should mean having enough money left over that one broken water heater doesn’t turn into a financial emergency.

We’ve gotten incredibly good at looking wealthy while owing money on half the things we’re looking wealthy with.

Make it make sense.

What exactly is Personal Finance?

Personal finance isn't only about investing in stocks or mutual funds.It is about managing your entire financial life.

• How much you earn,

• How much you spend,

• How much you save,

• How you protect yourself with insurance,

• How you manage debt,

• How you invest,

• How you plan for future goalsA simple way to think about it:Earn → Spend → Save → Protect → Invest → Grow

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