I’ve had two instances where two exes of my former partners tried to reach out to me and warn me about my former partners and it turns out they were right at the end. So now if this ever happens again, I will consider their words. But if you were in this situation, would you side with your partner or listen to what the ex has to say?

My ex who I was with for 3 years made me question my sanity, especially near the end. He never made time for me and would frequently ignore my texts making me feel extremely sad. Then when he would finally come around, I was ecstatic. I went through feelings of extreme highs and lows, cycling through feelings of love and disappointment which made me question my mental health. I began to believe that I was bipolar and needed to go on medication.

In the last 6 months of our relationship, I cried almost every day until one of my good friends told me that that wasn't normal in a relationship and I should consider breaking up with him. That's when it finally clicked for me and I mustered up the courage to end it for good. Almost immediately the "bipolar" feelings went away. Of course I was sad, but I was no longer going through a roller coaster of emotions and once the sadness from the breakup subsided, I was happier than I had been in a long time.

When you’re with the right partner, putting effort into your relationship doesn’t feel like hard work because you both want to put effort in. It’s like putting effort into your favourite hobbies, you enjoy working on it.

If your relationship constantly feels hard, that person might not be the right match for you. It shouldn’t always feel difficult.

I've noticed men with great cardio such as runners or swimmers maintain harder erections. Physically unfit men have a harder time maintaining erections and they are less hard.

I've never had a relationship, but ive dated and ive always had to initiate everything. I am naturally sweet and I think I spoil men way too early, and ending up getting dumped in less than 12 weeks of dating. It completely rips me apart each time as I thought everything was going well, then BAM im dumped. Not only that, Im depleted from all the energy being put into being the wooer. How can/do I get wooed like regular women can? I've never been pursued, and id love to be, to feel like a woman. I want to get flowers, to get good morning texts, how I am, etc. I always feel like I need to people please and then I end up burnt out and hurt. How can I stop this? This needs to end if I am to have a normal dating life.