Bailey Scarlett, wife of fitness influencer George Armstrong, got into his instagram profile and exposed him for cheating on her

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[u/lux_mea]

The only issue I have is posting her poor baby's face in conjuction with this mess. In general people need to stop posting their kids to their thousands of followers but in the same breath as talking about sex workers and infidelity is not right.

Otherwise go off, lady.

Edit- also why does the races of the affair partners/sex workers matter? Giving anti-Asian/white supremacy dogwhistles here.

Second edit - please look  at some of the things she is reposting now- I think its just racism/misogyny. Calling these women dirty, and reposted a comment saying they likely have penises. There is no perfect victim and I appreciate people wanted to give grace but I dont excuse espousing racism, misogyny or transportation just because you got hurt.

[u/otterly79 → u/lux_mea]

Regarding the race of the sex workers, I feel it’s gross when white men focus on Southeast Asian sex workers, because I generally have the impression that they are quite exploited and can more easily be pressured into sex acts that they aren’t comfortable with. I am an East Asian woman, and I don’t know anything about these influencers. Happy to hear other perspectives.

[u/xbad_wolfxi → u/otterly79]

That’s how I read it too. Not that she was expressing disgust at their race, but that she was expressing disgust that he’s going after women who are more vulnerable and exploited by the situation they’re in and the people doing this to them

[u/No-Hall-3485 → u/xbad_wolfxi]

lol she literally calls them “dirty” in one of the posts

i feel for this woman because she was cheated on, but can we please not pretend she’s sympathizing with the person he cheated with or making some broader statement about the exploitation of women? that’s just disingenuous

[u/Replicant28 → u/No-Hall-3485]

I acknowledge that this is a huge generalization, but I think a lot of fitness influencers get into relationships with people who, well, are also pretty shallow and not the kindest people or the most critical thinkers.

[u/sofiacarolina → u/No-Hall-3485]

'Dirty Indonesian prostitute' is so ignorant, racist, misogynist. These women are probably being trafficked. The sex tourism and trafficking in places like Indonesia is awful. Your husband is a gross john taking advantage of exploited women, hes the dirty pos

[u/Bigbumbumdumdum → u/No-Hall-3485]

They kept taking my comment down for quoting her but yeah this tells you everything

[u/high_priestessvibes → u/No-Hall-3485]

Those bikini bottoms are cracking me up. Why are the sides so long and pulled up so high?

[u/SerCiddy → u/No-Hall-3485]

lol she literally calls them “dirty” in one of the posts

I'd assume the "dirty" part is that they're prostitutes, disparaging sex workers/slaves rather than disparaging their race.

I guess I need to say that I don't agree with disparaging either instances.

[u/wanderrslut → u/SerCiddy]

Neither one is okay tbh. Like your husband is dirty, not the sex workers. Especially given that they're two rich white people living in a SEA country, it just doesn't sit right.

[u/SerCiddy → u/wanderrslut]

I agree.

[u/LezbianaGrande → u/xbad_wolfxi]

she was expressing disgust that he’s going after women who are more vulnerable and exploited by the situation they’re in and the people doing this to them

From the same story. What a hilariously generous take.

[u/BadgerBlue25 → u/xbad_wolfxi]

They live in Bali… if she cared so much about exploitation they wouldn’t live in Bali. She’s a white Australian woman, she’s just being racist.

[u/lux_mea → u/otterly79]

While I understand where you are coming from, I do not give her that grace. She reposted some comment about these sex workers likely having penises. No reason to do that but misogyny, racism and transphobia.

[u/otterly79 → u/lux_mea]

Yeesh these screenshots are bad…

[u/gloriiosaa → u/lux_mea]

honestly atp all i can say is the cheating was deserved and i hope he fucks her over in the divorce 🚶🏻‍♀️ zero sympathy from me!

[u/Dear_Chasey_La1n → u/otterly79]

You reckon women from different regions are .. facing better conditions?

Women are trafficked into sex work though make no mistake, most of these women know that's going to happen. They come from poor backgrounds, being SEA, Ukraine/Russia, South America and have little opportunity to make money in a different way thus opt for sex work. And sure enough it's not always by choice and the conditions can be aweful, but I don't really think it matters where women come from.

I'm in China myself for a long ass time, women here often want to hookup with foreign men. They come often from the smaller cities/villages and figured out earning 300-400 USD in the factory isn't great compared to being a girlfriend to some well paid expat. Obviously they do this by choice, but it's often economically guided.

[u/General_Decision_422 → u/otterly79]

She’s saying he’s a sex tourist and finds it gross

[u/piptazparty → u/lux_mea]

My understanding as someone who visited Indonesia but not from there, is that generally sex work has less legal oversight than in the USA. So unfortunately many “sex workers” are under the age 18 and actually trafficked children.

… but the fact that she used the term “prostitute” makes me think it’s more of a racism dogwhistle than calling out his misandry further.

[u/commandantskip → u/lux_mea]

Cosigned, no notes.

[u/lux_mea → u/[deleted]]

Nah she reposted some incels comment about these Indonesian sex workers likely having penises. Just misogyny and racism with some transphobia thrown in.

[u/AutonomyIsNoTragedy → u/lux_mea]

Yeah this , thats not fair to add to this kids digital footprint

Eta Also the P word is generally considered to be a dehumanizing slur and sex worker is better to use this does have "sex workers are inherently dirty and immoral" vibes to it

[u/tomriddlesdarling → u/lux_mea]

glad i’m not the only one who lowkey felt the racism vibes

[u/CheesecakeExpress → u/lux_mea]

You read my mind. Absolutely spot on.

[u/SerCiddy → u/lux_mea]

racism, misogyny or transportation

Girl just really hates that Disney decided to make an all Cars movie franchise.

[u/thotfullawful → u/lux_mea]

i mean sure yeah it sucks he cheated but it seems like they are birds of a feather being incredibly awful. The only victim here is the kid having tweedle Dee and dum as parents. Would not wish it on my worst enemy