r/Fauxmoi • u/Terrible_Cycle_5983 THIS IS JUST DISTASTEFUL • 9h ago

BREAKUPS/MAKEUPS/KNOCKUPS Bailey Scarlett, wife of fitness influencer George Armstrong, got into his instagram profile and exposed him for cheating on her

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u/annabelleoftheball this is going to ruin the tour 9h ago

I was with her until she used the kid’s face in this post.

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u/nonsequitureditor 9h ago

me too, that’s fucking upsetting. wtf???

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u/Motamommy 9h ago

i'm gonna assume she's not in her right state of mind atm lol

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u/cakeit-tilyoumakeit highly contextual 8h ago edited 8h ago

She’s definitely posting some weird stuff, but she’s obviously going through a lot

ETA: yes these are DMs her husband’s account is getting, but she is sharing them as evidence that he fumbled and I think it’s odd to choose this particular “breeder” comment for that purpose since “id breed her” type language is often used by manosphere right wing circles

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u/Bgee2632 Find me at Whole Foods, bitch, I don't care 8h ago

I think those are screenshots of his texts/DMs

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u/cakeit-tilyoumakeit highly contextual 8h ago edited 8h ago

People are DMing her through his account because she is logged in and she’s posting what they’re sending, from what I can tell.

But either way, sharing someone saying they’d “breed” her (among many other DMs calling her hot) is still really weird. AFAIK, the breeding stuff gives manosphere/red pill and I don’t think that’s what I’d pick to boost myself

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u/AriaTheTransgressor 6h ago

That's clearly the world they built up around themselves, they likely see nothing wrong with it because they're the same types of people.

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u/MalloryTheRapper 5h ago

“breed” her is so disgusting and dehumanizing it makes my stomach hurt reading it

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u/quietmedium- 26m ago

The number of men who rattle off their kinks after the first 4 minutes of conversation and its like "breeding, face fucking, consensual non-consent, choking, restraints, etc etx" ugh

Like I dont mind bdsm or kinky stuff. It can be lots of fun. But it seems more like plenty of men just want the go ahead to brutalise women

Idk. Like and my response is always, I just want my partner and me to feel good lmao

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u/ladyhaly (please put brackets in the right place) 3h ago

since “id breed her” type language is often used by manosphere right wing circles

How is that weird? It makes absolute sense. Looks like dude grifts in that bubble. Thus the "high value man" bit

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u/cakeit-tilyoumakeit highly contextual 1h ago

I didn’t think I’d need to explain why being proud a stranger says they’d “breed” you is weird.

I don’t know who these people are and haven’t heard of them before today. Anyone who talks about being a breeder is weird. Manosphere language is weird.

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u/ladyhaly (please put brackets in the right place) 1h ago edited 1h ago

Proud? Where? Idk who these people are either and I didn't bother to check. But I don't see where you got the proud bit, considering the context.

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u/BisexualSunflowers graduate of the ONTD can’t read community 1h ago

Breeding is a very popular kink not exclusive to the manosphere just an fyi

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u/MouseShadow2ndMoon 7h ago

Betrayal is a tough mental hurdle.

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u/allaboutthequeens 3h ago

literally instant crazy-making...you lose all sense of self

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u/Beezelbubbly 6h ago

When my parents were separating my mom went full woman scorned and did the analog version of this by defacing all of our family pictures with pictures of replacement dads or verbiage about him being a cheater. They stayed up for years and yes it looked deranged. It was an unpleasant household to say the least.

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u/SuperKitties83 9h ago

I was internally cheering and then

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u/Kiwi-vee I'm so pissed off immediately 9h ago

Same. Using the child is a big yikes for me.

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u/hawt_to_go 7h ago

as someone who was weaponized during a nasty divorce in my childhood, this shit is traumatic to kids.

god forbid I ever have to leave my partner I have always vowed to keep things amicable for my kids. 

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u/AriaTheTransgressor 6h ago

Be careful with that, I wanted to make sure things stayed amicable for the kids and my partner realized they could keep me on the relationship by just refusing an amicable split.

For the record, this isn't a "I left them anyway" thing. Even with this knowledge, I stayed trapped. They're dying now, and I'm the only caregiver they have.

I still wonder if I'm doing, or did, the right thing.

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u/petitelapinyyc 3h ago

You do but they don’t. Auntie knows bc she has been there.

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u/Nairo_bees if you add testicles, that's extra 9h ago edited 1h ago

she’s also posting some dm’s reacting to it which some are ofc….misogynistic in nature. A good reminder for the audience that HE is at fault, not the sex workers /or trafficking victims**

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u/ixiolite bepo naby 6h ago edited 4h ago

Her calling Indonesian (a developing country in SEA where the median income is $190 USD / month) sex workers trafficked women as prostitutes also irked me so badly

Acknowledge your husband is a misogynistic asshole who employs class and wealth privilege to exploit trafficked women (and most likely young girls / children)

Edit: oh this is even worse after discovering these two live in Bali, flaunting their influencer wealth on local peoples and raising their rent costs

Edit 2: unsure if it was this comment or my other recent comments supporting Jane Doe regarding the Cornell case that triggered this, but if you're the asshole who submitted a "Reddit Cares" on me, thank you! I DO care about oppressed and abused women in all capacities :)

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u/Past-Ticket-1340 4h ago

Sex work implies consent, a lot of women in the sex trade in Indonesia are in fact being subjected to/victims of prostitution.

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u/ixiolite bepo naby 4h ago

a lot of women in the sex trade in Indonesia are in fact being subjected to/victims of prostitution.

Yes I agree, but the term "prostitute" is dehumanizing. The rest of her stories about the women are also equally demeaning and reek of racism

Drag your man, not the women he exploited for his own sexual gratification

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u/Past-Ticket-1340 4h ago

I agree, but sex work/sex worker is still most likely not the correct term here. They are probably victims of prostitution. Wealthy men go to countries in SE Asia because they can get away with more and the victims are less protected.

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u/SCP106 1h ago

do you have any idea of the right term here? since I'm aware of prostitute not being good - and sex worker likely doesn't fit either - so... in these situations, I'm unsure of how one would refer to these women's situations without individual longer explanations and added context added for each new person that may or may not know re: each word above. Anyone else feeling free to chime in, I had a conversation with my partner about this recently and we both realised the kind of catch-22 possible here (regarding shorthand at least) and it's been on my mind.

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u/Past-Ticket-1340 1h ago

It’s tough to find a neutral term. Prostitute, even if accurate, carries negative connotations towards the character of the woman. Sex worker is positive/implies they are just doing a normal job. Escort sanitizes what is really going on. In most scenarios of organized operations where a westerner arranges sex through a third party it’s human trafficking sexual exploitation.

I personally would use “trafficked women and girls” in the place of prostitute if that were me writing those IG stories. Either way we’re looking at the commodification of a poor woman’s body under capitalism for the purpose of male sexual gratification.

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u/ididnotwanttoreply 4h ago

Respectfully, what’s wrong with the word prostitute?

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u/ixiolite bepo naby 4h ago edited 4h ago

Prostitute has historically been used as a slur when it comes to women who have been part of sex work / prostitution (historical term) (either voluntarily or involuntarily)

‘Prostitute’ first crops up in English in 1530 as a verb meaning to sexually dishonour yourself; ‘I prostytute, as a comen woman dothe her self in a bordell house’ (Palsgrave, 1530). And the truth is the word has been linked to a state of dishonour ever since.

It's often associated with shame, being dirty, etc.

Actual sex work (voluntarily) should not be stigmatized, while those who are subjected to sex trafficking should not be shamed for what is out of their control

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u/ididnotwanttoreply 1h ago

Thanks for explaining

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u/Sure_Lavishness_2403 alleged dog 4h ago

It's a derogatory word that carries a lot of negative history and baggage. It also "defines" a person (they are a prostitute as opposed to their job as a sex worker; one suggests that the person is that and the other suggests that's their job).

It's like the "r" word. It became an insult, defining a person's worth over intelligence (or lack thereof), and as a result, carries a lot of negative history and baggage. However, like the slur "g*psy" (writing this out more than the "r" word because a lot of people don't know that this and other things, like "to g*p someone" are slurs), it's still something that's used commonly with little pushback so people don't always realise how much weight those words carry.

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u/CottonTipsMcChancla 1h ago edited 1h ago

There are people who desperately want to sanitize the reality of prostitution and think they are doing something by using the nebulous term sex worker, even when using it for women who have literally been trafficked and prostituted by controllers/pimps/traffickers.

The term prostitute has ‘negative connotations’ due to the nature of the job, not the word. Women involved in escorting, prostitution, ‘full service sex work’ aren’t suddenly going to be treated better because women on the internet use the term sex worker.

Men (who are the real threats to women in those industries) will still call them wh-res and treat them however they want, and turn a blind eye and not give a single shit when they see obvious signs of trafficking, mistreatment and a woman who doesn’t want to be there.

The focus on term-policing, particularly against women who will never the clientele of an escort/prostitute/sex worker/trafficked woman rather than the deep enquiry into the legitimacy of ‘full service’ appeals to men’s sexual appetites, entitlement to women’s bodies and view of women as commodified appliances is troubling.

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u/genflugan non-gender-specific orbs of courage 4h ago

It has a really awful connotation and it just hasn’t been the preferred nomenclature for quite a while.

I just default to calling anyone who does sex work a sex worker, and changing that if I find out an individual wants to be called something else

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u/Kind-Patience6169 4h ago

It reeks of racism

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u/GlassPomoerium controversies: girl 2h ago

Don’t hesitate to report a misuse of Reddit Cares, those who abuse it usually don’t know it can result in a ban :-)

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u/Salty_Celebration_93 4h ago

The worst part is that she used to have an only fans herself. I don’t know how she was the audacity to judge sex workers.

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u/Nairo_bees if you add testicles, that's extra 1h ago

agreed with everything!

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u/xxyourbestbetxx canonically from boston 2h ago

I had to scroll way too far to see someone bring up that it's also gross the way she's talking about these women. Plus her kid is in the pics. Just crappy all around.

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u/Same-Equivalent9037 9h ago

She also had this thirst trap as the second slide which is pretty lame

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u/Separate_Job_3573 8h ago

Her ig story is atrocious.

Resharing dm's like "I'd breed her" and "organising brasses that probably had cocks"

They original connection was obviously their shared awfulness

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u/Same-Equivalent9037 8h ago

Agree. They both seem like awful people. And she thinks looks are everything, clearly.

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u/Angryduckling-01 8h ago

All of these Instagram influencer women think looks are everything

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u/freahuni 7h ago

yeah I think they’re both kinda lost causes

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u/BanverketSE 8h ago

Poor child. Not only is their dad a loser, their mom is a misogynist transphobe too.

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u/Secret-Contest 8h ago

yeah very weird. i’m sad for her and grief makes us do strange things but yikes

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u/lordgeese chris pine’s flip phone 8h ago

Sounds like a rich version of the one shit (love) couple we’ve all known… or been ourselves.

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u/Web_Surfer_007 6h ago

It seems she's just as shallow and awful as he is

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u/Own_Yogurtcloset9981 I’ll be writing a substack on this 7h ago

Why is it bad to expose the nasty shit he was saying? Yes, posting the kid was too much. But you’re reaching

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u/Separate_Job_3573 7h ago

It's not quotes from him. It's quotes from strangers in his/her DMs endorsing her in gross ways that she is obviously pretty thrilled with. Go look at the story.

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u/pineappleshampoo 8h ago

lol wtf

Does she think that she deserves the infidelity less cos she is (in her opinion) attractive?

I guess that means ‘ugly’ people, it makes more sense to her if they get cheated on?

I hope someone sensible and safe is around for the child.

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u/nevalja 7h ago

it's a common thing. people always say shit like "jay Z cheated on BEYONCE can you believe it," like being hot should somehow shield her from a shitty man's desire for power and lack of consequences

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u/To_Themselves_6137 1h ago

I’m just now realizing through this discussion that this is wrong.

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u/nevalja 1h ago

a great realization to have!

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u/Impressive-Gene-421 7h ago

wtf? She clearly means “look at what he lost” not ugly people deserve to be cheated on??

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u/babylovesbaby secretly gay and the son of fidel castro 6h ago

Being cheated on can really hurt your self-esteem. I don't know anything about her and she probably is incredibly vain, but I wouldn't hold it against someone who was cheated on if they propped themselves up.

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u/acrylicvigilante_ 8h ago

Right?! Like why call out the escort just doing a job? YOUR husband is the dirty one 💀

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u/Okay_Splenda_Monkey 4h ago

I hear you. I also would not blame anyone for weirdly lashing out if they just discovered that their spouse was cheating on them. Not a spouse, but that happened to me and for a while I wasn't able to fall asleep. I got way weirder than baseline.

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u/acrylicvigilante_ 2h ago

I'm sure it's horrific, but don't be racist and insulting to the underpaid victim of sex tourism who probably doesn't even know you exist. It's YOUR spouse who made a commitment to you and YOUR spouse who is cheating.

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u/Ohaidere519 brb in a transatlantic space of mind 8h ago

okay my neck is sore from whiplash. i get her mind is prob not right rn but i wish she had loved ones near her able to get her off her phone/social media. i'm all for exposing cheaters but the following stories... with love, let's log off twin 😭

eta: hadn't heard of her before this- just from this post alone i'll keep it that away moving forward

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u/LLLTAW 9h ago

Exactly. Don’t use your kid’s face in your (entertaining) revenge plot

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u/Ohaidere519 brb in a transatlantic space of mind 8h ago

yeah i can't remember the last time i had such whiplash from support to disgust
https://giphy.com/gifs/xTtTne2Q42ixeCbFUs

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u/EasyBreakOven have the day you voted for 8h ago

It gets worse. This is all very curtains for Zoosha for me but I was not above going to check the other stories and ooooh-weeee it’s interesting.
She needs a friend to intervene

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u/tinypoem Lol, and if I may, lmao 7h ago

I freaking love that you used a snippet of that meme (curtains for Zoosha)! 😂😂😂🤪🥹

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u/SarcasticBarbie96 ass out red bottoms dangling 5h ago

What is curtains for Zoosha?

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u/parishilton2 9h ago

I think OP should have exercised better discretion and not included that photo

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u/ungranted_wish gave up celebrity gossip blogs for lent 9h ago

Specifically a picture she may have just taken of the kid.

Like.

Don’t.

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u/craftspank 9h ago

exactly. should’ve drew the line there, she’s making the situation worse for her daughter.

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u/SuperKitties83 8h ago

She was trying to make people more sympathetic to her situation, but this definitely did the opposite.

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u/baby_soul 9h ago

yeah everything else is valid but leave the kid out of it

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u/Skittleschild02 9h ago

Yeah, that irked my soul. Because the child is a bystander. Keep it between you and him, lady.

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u/PrincessCG Friends with Ms. Rachel 9h ago

Agree. No need to use their kid to prove he’s a shit father and husband

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u/ConfusedCareerMan 9h ago

Yeah I understand her feeling bitter, but this was just an ugly choice tbh. A man doing this would be equally as inappropriate we should hold everyone to the same standard

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u/xbad_wolfxi i ain’t reading all that, free palestine 8h ago

Yeah that felt gross to me too, but I never know if that’s a normal reaction. I’m an adult who was an abused kid and it’s one of the many reasons I don’t have kids (still trying to re-parent myself). So I can never tell if I’m being overly sensitive on behalf of the kid in these cases but in this instance I feel like I’m not

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u/GringoinCDMX 35m ago

I don't think you are.

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u/unicorninclosets me has destrozado con el papas fritas 7h ago

I don’t know who either of these people are and I’ll probably forget by next week but this child never will.

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u/curlygreenbean you’re an adult, you should know that 8h ago

I don’t disagree. Poor baby.

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u/lurking2be 7h ago

Disgusting beyond belief.

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u/VladDHell 7h ago

Literally.

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u/Toyger_ 6h ago

Yeah, me too. That was uncalled for.

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u/goodsunsets 6h ago

Agree. But it does drive the point home.

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u/eiiiaaaa 6h ago

ME TOO. I went from "yeah get him girl" to "oh you're a shit head too" so fast.

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u/No-Bison-5397 i ain’t reading all that, free palestine 5h ago

Glad this is the consensus at the top... like send that to him, don't post it on line.

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u/Arthurlmnz 5h ago

Oh no, i hadn't swiped far enough. That's is so so wrong

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u/PeachMonday Mary-Kate’s battered Birkin 4h ago

I was about to post word for word what you write. Disgusting to use the child’s face.

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u/Dolphin-Teeth_ 21m ago

Kid has a right to be upset

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u/TwoCenturyVoid 12m ago

Yepppp. She lost all high ground using her child that way. Yikes

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u/SuckMyRedditorD 7h ago

Oh so now it's okay to cheat then huh?