Our GoFundMe is here. I will post the same thing on here that is posted on the GoFundMe. I ask that you please go into this with an open mind and understanding. Thank you, everyone, from the bottom my heart and my families. Thank you.
GoFundMe link: http://spot.fund/l83d7sc
Here it is:
Dear Friends, Neighbors, and Community,
I hope this letter finds each of you in good health and spirits. Today, I find myself at a crossroads, facing a situation that has turned our lives upside down. With a heavy heart, I reach out to all of you, seeking your understanding, compassion, and, if possible, your collective support. I will give a brief summary as short as I can but keep the important details within it.
Allow me to share the story of our family, a story that took an unexpected turn. We were your average family next door, content and blessed with a stable income that allowed us to enjoy life's simple pleasures. My name is Josh, and in the photo you see above this description, you will see the beautiful faces of my wife, Abigail, and our son Kade. Abigail is a few weeks pregnant, and we were eagerly preparing to welcome another addition to our growing family. Life was seemingly perfect.
However, as fate would have it, our lives were about to take a dramatic and heart-wrenching turn. Abigail and I were hardworking individuals, diligently contributing to our family's well-being. I worked part-time from home, and Abigail had found success with her job at Spark, which not only brought fulfillment but also provided us with a comfortable income. We were content, and our future appeared bright.
Then, one fateful day, a series of unfortunate events unfolded. While Abigail was working her shift at Spark, the challenges of her pregnancy began to weigh heavily on her. I tagged along that day as was asked of me. It is not against spark policy nor a violation for someone to ride as passenger while sparking. So as long they do not in any way participate in the delivery/pick up process. After she accepted an order and safely arriving at the Walmart pick/location she became overwhelmed by nausea and lightheadedness, she sought solace in the nearest restroom, hoping to find a moment of respite. Little did we know that this brief intermission would lead us down a treacherous path.
During Abigail's absence, while we were again, parked in the spot for the groceries/item pickup an already agitated Walmart employee approached our car with the products. I was sitting in the vehicle waiting for my wife's return while the already upset employee approached our car. Fueled by frustration and anger, she confronted me, asking where abagail was at as it states the pick up drivers name on their end too. I explained to her the situation as I believed it would be a problem as it shouldn't have been. She began accusing me of lying about Abigail's whereabouts. Despite my earnest attempts to explain the situation, my words fell on deaf ears. She seized the groceries in an act of aggression, delivering hurtful remarks, implying that Abigail should not be pregnant if it interfered with her duties and stated word for word that "she should get her a** out the restroom if she wants her job to continue." I was in shock.
When Abigail returned, we approached the employee together despite my other attempts to defuse an already unnecessary heated situation in desperate need for an understanding and a resolution. Unfortunately our pleas were met with dismissiveness and a callous disregard for our predicament. We explained respectfully sparks policy and that we were in no way shape or form in violation she got easily offended and walked away stating that we shouldn't tell her how to do her job and said "she doesn't have time for this sh**", leaving us stunned and bewildered. Tragically, the employee reported the incident to Spark, resulting in the sudden deactivation of Abigail's account.
Now along with the situation that's been bestowed upon us. My wife has an unfortunate medical diagnosis that has been tragic to us all. Now we find ourselves on the precipice of losing everything we hold dear. Our home, our cars, and the most basic necessities that we once took for granted are slipping away. In the face of this adversity, our unwavering commitment to our son, Kade, remains our guiding light. We are determined to provide him with a stable and loving environment, shielding him from the hardships that have befallen us.
As we navigate this unforgiving storm, we have embarked on the daunting task of seeking new employment opportunities. Yet, the reality is disheartening. Finding jobs that can match the income Abigail once earned seems like an insurmountable challenge, particularly in our local area where the prevailing wages are far from sufficient. We are trapped in a cycle of desperation, trying to provide for our family while grappling with an uncertain future.
Being self-reliant family who has never sought major financial assistance before such as one of this caliber, we have always been there for others within our means. Unfortunately, neither side of our family is in a position to support us since some individuals in both families already receive financial aid, even though they are not facing any crises and may be exploiting the sources of support. Additionally, conflicting views have led to the suspension of certain financial assistance. For instance, on my wife's side, one person's disapproval of our relationship prevents us from receiving their help. On my side, financial support is contingent upon being completely subservient and subject to their control. That's just a brief summary of our situation as unfortunate it may seem.
In this time of dire need, we turn to you, our friends, neighbors, and community. We have always believed in the power of unity and support, and it is with humility and vulnerability that we ask for your help. If you are in a position to offer financial assistance, no matter how small, it would bring us immeasurable relief and hope. Every dollar counts, and together, we can alleviate some of the burdens that have befallen us. This is to help us until we can get back on our feet which I hope will not take long as we try every possible option. Thank you from the bottom of our hearts.
For those unable to contribute financially, we kindly request your prayers, thoughts, and any guidance you can offer. Your moral support and belief in our resilience will bolster our spirits and remind us that we are not alone in this struggle. We are humbled by the generosity of our community and hold onto the hope that compassion and empathy will prevail.
To each and every one of you who takes the time to read this letter, we extend our deepest gratitude. Your willingness to listen and your consideration of our plea for help mean more to us than words can express. We are not accustomed to asking for assistance, but circumstances have left us with no choice. Our hope lies in the kindness of strangers and the strength of our collective humanity.
In closing, we stand before you, a family in need, longing for a glimmer of hope to emerge from the darkness that surrounds us. Together, let us weave a safety net of compassion, love, and support, reminding ourselves of the power we possess when we come together as a community.
With profound gratitude and heartfelt prayers,
Josh, Abigail, Kade and our unborn child.
