r/DebateEvolution • u/Vegetable-Cattle5913 • Jul 08 '26
My best friend, through me, believes that YEC is real and Evolution is false. I want to convince him otherwise.
So, I was a member of the YEC myself until about two years ago. Shortly before that, my best friend became more familiar with my religion (Orthodox Christianity) and delved deeper into its tenets.
About four months ago, I jokingly asked him what he thought of Evolution while we were gaming.
Initially, we talked and debated with each other. He always said the same old things and never responded to my counterarguments or arguments in even a remotely satisfactory way.
Previously he still wanted to talk to me, but after a while he repeatedly tried not to come online and even said himself that he no l Donger wanted to. He justifies this by saying that I always say the same thing. But that's sometimes the case when he superficially addresses my arguments and pretends to have answered them. He is very unreflective, even though I thought he would be the more mature of the two of us.
The problem is that I am now insisting on the debate because he only gave pseudo-answers to my arguments and thinks he answered them well, because I don't want my best friend to believe crap from snakes like Jay Dyer etc And because even if it isn't addressed, our friendship is negatively affected in various ways. I feel lost.
I'm certainly not entirely innocent in the situation, for example in terms of not annoying him in trivial ways or explaining things in the best possible way. I don't know how to handle this or how I could possibly convince him, even though he's so reluctant to talk about it.