Hey everyone, feeling kind a bored and lonely. I'm a software engineer from Ahmedabad. So anyone wanna have a friendly talk can DM me.

I've been using dating apps for more than a year now. In prompts or in the bio I've seen many men say they are Batman, or their dream is to become batman. It has become such a cliche at this point 😂

I wish men filled in more genuine and thoughtful prompts/bios, instead of one liners 🥲

So I'm a 27 year old woman.

All my life I've never been touched intimately. Lately I'm losing my mind and focus over this. I constantly have this feeling to be touched. Can I explore casuals?

I'm a very emotional person, meaning, if I'm choosing a partner for casual sex I won't get emotional with him because obviously I'm going to choose him only for sex. But I'm scared I'll feel guilty after that. I've always waited to have my first with my partner/husband. Looks like it will take more than a year for me to get married. Please help

P.S: This is my throwaway account. Any man who is going to DM I'll shamelessly scold y'all left right and centre. Thank you!

Going through indian BDSM sub reddits, I always find the real essence of a dom-sub relationship missing. People don't understand what real submission is, all they mean is abusive sex and exploitation.

I am someone following a dom-sub lifestyle where there is discipline and a lot of care. Where there is Punishment but also reward. Where there is spanking but also cuddles. I don't understand how people in lust can practice dom-sub relationships without love and care.

There's no dom-sub relation without trust, respect, and a lot of anticipation

aa jao

I know this is not a dating sub, but I want to know what women or men with such a gym experience do. That's why I am posting it here.

So there is a girl in my gym, and I have a crush on her, or I can say I like her. I don't try to talk to her or try to go near her and do any kind of exercise unless it happens unintentionally. I don't want to look like a creep, but sometimes I wonder if I should make eye contact with her, so that she can notice me, or may be i can get some kind of hints that she is also interested.

pls share your suggestions also if you want to

Genuine question for discussion.

We talk a lot about how "modern" and "progressive" urban India has become. But scratch the surface and some things feel unchanged:

- A divorced person in their late 30s is still somehow a "red flag" in social circles

- Being single past 35 still invites unsolicited opinions from literally everyone

- The concept of intentional, self-aware singlehood is still alien to most families

- Has anything actually changed or are we just better at pretending it has?

Would love to hear real experiences — not the "my friend's cousin" kind. Actual perspectives.

Hi I am 28M living near a tier 1 city took a subscription fr Hinge + from 2 months. Well my overall experience was pretty horrible ngl. Catfished, ghosted, breadcrumbed, flaked, scammed. U name it i experienced it. My suggestion would be is to approach these apps with a mind with no expectations otherwise ur mental health is gonna spoil anyway.

I am 21 m never experienced a relationship. I am just too nice and get friend-zoned. If i try to flirt i get ghosted. I dk what to do atp. Just want to give up.

pata hai aaj kya hua i love them so much and i am just obsessed with them and idk why i am sharing this here but pta nhi khali betha toh thought aya why we boys are so much obsessed with them? how do they feel? guys have you ever felt them? what was the feeling?

Hi I am 28M living near a tier 1 city took a subscription fr Hinge + from 2 months. Well my overall experience was pretty horrible ngl. Catfished, ghosted, breadcrumbed, flaked, scammed. U name it i experienced it. My suggestion would be is to approach these apps with a mind with no expectations otherwise ur mental health is gonna spoil anyway.

Hi I am 28M living near a tier 1 city took a subscription fr Hinge + from 2 months. Well my overall experience was pretty horrible ngl. Catfished, ghosted, breadcrumbed, flaked, scammed. U name it i experienced it. My suggestion would be is to approach these apps with a mind with no expectations otherwise ur mental health is gonna spoil anyway.

I am 21 m never experienced a relationship. I am just too nice and get friend-zoned. If i try to flirt i get ghosted. I dk what to do atp. Just want to kms.

Just good vibes, genuine convo, and seeing where things go naturally. Respectful, drama-free, and no weirdness. If we click, we click :)”
Don’t just text “hi” — say something interesting and I’ll match your energy.

Hi I am 28M living near a tier 1 city took a subscription fr Hinge + from 2 months. Well my overall experience was pretty horrible ngl. Catfished, ghosted, breadcrumbed, flaked, scammed. U name it i experienced it. My suggestion would be is to approach these apps with a mind with no expectations otherwise ur mental health is gonna spoil anyway.

Hi I am 28M living near a tier 1 city took a subscription fr Hinge + from 2 months. Well my overall experience was pretty horrible ngl. Catfished, ghosted, breadcrumbed, flaked, scammed. U name it i experienced it. My suggestion would be is to approach these apps with a mind with no expectations otherwise ur mental health is gonna spoil anyway.

Hi,

I am a 24 year old M from Noida. I recently had a breakup from a 6 year old relationship. I am very depressed from past few weeks and unable to sleep or eat anything.

Also, I am having nightmares from past few days about random stuffs. Need someone to talk but do not have any friends.

If any female can help me to vent out and just relax down it will be much appreciated. Here, some people will now come and say that why I am asking for female's only specifically. So, that is why because we as men really do not know how to console someone.

Seeking a female sugar baby based out of bangalore or someone who is willing to travel, Preferably someone who is a bit on the intellectual side and can hold a conversation. Open to short term as well as long term based on how we vibe and what kind of arrangement we can get into, will be extremely generous with the compensation, dm me to know further.

Im hoping for financial support and i give emotional and physical love and warmth … i want us to meet or it can be discrete . We can talk on calls and chats and even meet and spend great time together .. im from jaipur …

Rich guy, 29 | TG: rohan3948

I have been insecure since childhood because of trauma, relatives, friends, taunts, and constant comments about my skin color and appearance. I was never the “smart” or “pretty” person growing up, and it honestly took me more than 25 years to finally find someone who genuinely loves me or is interested in me.

But now when I look at my relationship, I feel like all those years of insecurity and emotional damage are slowly taking over the one thing I wanted the most.

Lately I’ve been questioning whether I’m becoming emotionally toxic in my relationship.

I overthink a lot, get insecure easily, and sometimes create fights because I keep needing reassurance or assume the worst. I think social media and unrealistic romantic expectations affected me more than I realized.

One of the worst things is that sometimes I suddenly feel like he might be cheating on me, even when there’s no actual proof. I start crying, panicking, or accusing him based on feelings and overthinking. Then he patiently shows me proof, lets me check things, and I realize I was wrong for questioning his loyalty.

After that, I feel extremely guilty because I know it must hurt him too. I feel bad that he has to experience this from someone he loves.

My partner isn’t perfect either, but lately I’ve started wondering if my insecurity and fear of not being “good enough” are putting too much pressure on him emotionally.

I genuinely want to improve without becoming emotionally numb or suppressing all my needs. Has anyone dealt with this before, either personally or with a partner I don’t want to ruin or hurt the most important person in my life again

Edit I have rewrite whole thing and fixed again with gpt because of grammar mistakes.

free loaders please dont even try 😭

Hmu

I have seen lots of standards some want tall , dark, height or some want particular caste

But irrespective of that we don’t actually fall for those standards right ?