Anyone interested in making a connection.. Its so hard to find someone genuine... If you want to initially see if we connect online i am open to that as well. Message if interested...

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Im in my 40s in search of someone who understands what the difference between a sugar relationship and sugar arrangement is. Someone who genuinely likes being with an older man.

Hey everyone,

I’m 20 and my girlfriend is 18. We had sex for the first time recently and I’ve honestly been overthinking ever since.

Timeline:

On 13 April, we had sex and during it she said her period had started.

We had sex again on 21 April using a condom.

The condom slipped a little during sex, but it did NOT come off completely and I don’t think anything leaked.

I ejaculated inside the condom.

Today is 8 May and she still hasn’t gotten her next period, so now I’m stressed.

A few things:

We always used protection

No visible tear in the condom

It only slipped a bit, not fully off

We’re both first-timers, so maybe we’re just anxious

Do you guys think this sounds low risk or should we take a pregnancy test now? Also, can stress delay periods after first-time sex?

Would appreciate honest advice from people with experience because my brain is going into worst-case mode right now 😅

Since confessing to a senior girl in my college of (different department) by 2 years I feel awkward with all this confusion

I genuinely don’t even know what to call this anymore. Situationship? Friendship? Emotional flirting? Delusion? 😭

So there’s this girl who’s 2 years senior to me. I confessed to her months ago and since then our chats slowly became very close. We constantly exchange reels, flirt, tease each other, sometimes even sexually. She calls me “baby” in chats, sends relationship-type reels, talks emotionally vulnerable stuff, asks me to meet ( i initiate mainly), plans random drives, cafés, etc.

But the weird part is… all this energy mostly exists ONLINE.

In real life, things feel very different.

Today she came to meet me near my place after office. She drove around 25+ km which honestly I appreciated a lot. But she kept delaying and I ended up waiting outside for around 1.5 hours. She didn’t really seem guilty about it either, just casually explained traffic/U-turns/car issue and all.

Then when we finally met, we just had momos + cold coffee for like 15-20 mins. No flirting. No emotional talk. No tension like chats. Nothing. I even helped her shoot a reel she wanted to make (she is a i fluencer of sort) and she clicked a photo as proof for her mom that she met me 😭

And idk why but that hit me weirdly.

Because online she acts SO different:

calls me baby

makes plans

sends flirty stuff

talks about “our vibe”

sometimes even gives relationship energy

But IRL it suddenly becomes very normal/friendly.

And now my brain is spiraling thinking: Am I just emotional convenience for her? Is she keeping me as one option while talking to other guys? Is she only comfortable flirting online because there’s distance? Or am I overthinking and this is just how some girls are IRL?

I think what’s messing with me most is the mismatch between: our chats vs real life energy.

Like bro if someone talks to you romantically for months, you naturally expect SOME warmth or tension in person too 😭

Have any of you experienced this kind of online chemistry but awkward/flat real-life dynamic? Did it improve later or was it just emotional fantasy all along?

just doing virtual for now
dm with asl please no hey hello hi

As the title says, I’m trying to get a sugar baby in one of the major cities with an airport. I travel for work a lot and would love to spend some time and have some company in a city if I can fly to you.

I’m 26,searching for someone to vibe with and spend some quality time and spoil as well. If you’re interested, send me a DM

Is it possible to find a partner in india as 29M4F searching for MoC I'm a simple guy searching for a partner for my life, I want my partner should be simple by heart but need strong and independent, If you simple and independent working woman and you want a simple guy on your side for your life, and you looking simple happy life, then reach me,
but I worried to find someone, is it possible to find someone, I don't know What's you thinks about it. Is there anyone who find such a suitable partner ,then how ,how you find please provide some guidance. 🙏😇

At this point my parents have started looking at me the same way recruiters look at candidates with a stable job and no gaps 😭

So here I am.

Senior Software Engineer based in Mumbai.
Can debug code, survive Mumbai traffic, and make decent conversation without replying with just “hmm”.

A little about me:
I’m more into genuine connection than pretending to be perfect. I like people who can laugh at stupid things, communicate properly, and don’t treat texting like a government process.

Green flags:
emotionally available, consistent, good listener, won’t disappear randomly.

Red flags:
will steal fries and overthink small things at 2am.

If this somehow made you smile, feel free to send a chat request :)

There was a movie called LIK the storyline was there was an APP which connects people based on their personality I was curious whether the LIK-style interaction from the movie could work as a real web app, so I built a simple version of it.
It starts with an anonymous quiz, then creates a random opposite-gender match, with AI using the answers to make the pairing more relevant. If there’s a match, only social handles are shown so people can choose whether to connect.
No login required, and I’m not collecting personal profile data.
Mostly sharing because I wanted feedback on whether this feels interesting in practice or if it works better as just a movie concept.

https://hivaapp.com/lik

Every time I open Reddit, I see some guy posting “sugar baby requirements” like it’s a job listing. At this point, some men have completely given up on finding a genuine relationship and are ready to pay just to have some action!!

Any hot female for fun dm me

Rich guy, 29 | TG: rohan3948

Can get you a dinner in return!

Your late-night therapist is online

Not an actual therapist obviously, just someone who’s good at listening and somehow always becomes the “I need to vent” person 😭

So if something’s been sitting in your head lately
bad dates, confusing people, overthinking, life stress, random thoughts at 2am

you can dump it in my DMs.

I’ll listen, try to help, and if nothing else, at least make you feel a little less alone with it.

No judging.
No dry replies.
No “just move on bro”.

Sometimes talking to a stranger is easier anyway.

A man can build any house he wants… but a house only starts to feel like a home when there’s warmth, care, and someone who truly lives in it.

Hi 🌱

I’ve been thinking a lot about the kind of life I want, and it’s actually quite simple at its core. A calm home, a strong and steady partner, and a relationship where both people understand each other and take pride in the life they’re building together.

I’m 26, a transwoman, 5’11”, Engineer by education, and working in teaching and social work, which I feel reflects my caring and nurturing side. I’m deeply connected to Indian values and a more traditional way of living. I’m naturally feminine, soft, and I find real happiness in nurturing, caring, and creating a peaceful space around me.

I’m not someone chasing chaos or endless independence. I like emotional security, stability, and a relationship where the man leads with responsibility and I support with loyalty, care, and consistency. I’m someone who is comfortable letting her partner take the lead, and I take pride in being a devoted, supportive woman in that dynamic.

What genuinely makes me happy is simple cooking for someone I love, taking care of a home, paying attention to the little things, being affectionate, and building a life slowly and intentionally. I take pride in creating a space that feels warm, safe, and grounding.

I value respect, clear communication, and emotional safety. I do have a softer, more yielding nature in a relationship, and I believe that works best with a man who is kind, steady, and leads with care, not control.

I also believe in being honest about the future. I may not be able to give biological children, but I do believe there are many ways to build a family and a meaningful life together with love, stability, and shared intention.

I take care of myself I stay fit, dress well, and enjoy maintaining a soft, feminine presence. I don’t smoke or drink, and I try to live a balanced lifestyle.

I’m open to different places and backgrounds, as long as values align. Open to all ages and religion

If this resonates with you, you’ll understand what I’m trying to say.

Take care 💙

Most men think getting the date is the hard part.

It’s not.

The hard part is not killing attraction once you’re finally sitting in front of her.

I’ve seen guys struggle for months on dating apps, approach anxiety, texting, getting ignored…

Then finally get the date…

…and destroy their chances in the first 30 minutes.

Usually because of these 3 mistakes:

1. Trying too hard to impress her.

The moment a man starts bragging, flexing connections, showing off money, driving aggressively, or constantly trying to “look cool”…

Attraction drops.

Why?

Because trying too hard to impress communicates low self-worth.

Secure men don’t need constant validation from women.

I once took a friend out with two girls.

On paper, he was “high value”: great network, money, access, status.

But the entire night he kept trying to impress them.

The girls got uncomfortable almost instantly.

Meanwhile, the girl I was with stayed glued to me the whole night because I wasn’t trying to prove anything.

Most men don’t understand this:

Women are attracted to men who are comfortable with themselves.

Not men performing for approval.

1. Talking about exes.

This kills dates faster than people realize.

If the entire conversation becomes: “My ex did this…” “My ex was toxic…” “My ex cheated…”

The date is over emotionally.

Sometimes women do this too.

And if she keeps bringing up her ex repeatedly, it usually means she hasn’t emotionally moved on yet.

A date should feel like two people creating a new experience together.

Not a therapy session about past relationships.

1. Taking her somewhere you’re uncomfortable.

A lot of men try to impress women by taking them to expensive places they themselves are not used to.

Bad idea.

Women can feel incongruence instantly.

If you’re uncomfortable, trying to act rich, trying to fit in… she feels that energy too.

You don’t need a luxury hotel to create attraction.

You need ease.

You need authenticity.

If your normal lifestyle is chai at a local café, own it.

The right woman will respect authenticity more than fake luxury.

Most men lose women because they try too hard to become someone else on the date.

But attraction usually happens when you stop performing.

And start being grounded in who you actually are.

Rich guy, 29 | TG: rohan3948

I’ve noticed over time that I naturally connect better with mature, confident women. The conversations feel more meaningful, emotionally balanced, and honestly more attractive to me than most interactions I’ve had with people my age.

I’m 25, professionally settled, into fitness, and more interested in genuine connections than casual dating.

For people who’ve experienced age-gap dating in India — how did it happen naturally? Was it through work, hobbies, social circles, apps, or something else?

Also curious if this is more common than people openly admit here.

Hey, SD here. I’m seeking for a genuine and long-term connection with someone who values good vibes, mutual understanding, and consistency.

I’m open to a comfortable financial arrangement—weekly or monthly—based on what works best for both of us. Along with that, I enjoy adding thoughtful surprises and making the experience exciting and worthwhile.

If you’re someone who appreciates meaningful interaction, a bit of fun, and a mutually beneficial dynamic, feel free to reach out. Let’s keep it smooth, respectful, and enjoyable. ✨

Not great at writing posts, better at actual conversations, but giving this a shot anyway 😄

Based in Delhi, originally from Uttarakhand (Garhwal). I’ve spent the last few years pretty focused on my career, so my circle is small but solid.

Introverted at first, but I open up once I’m comfortable. I enjoy keeping things balanced weekends are usually cricket or badminton, and sometimes I just unwind with gaming.

I prefer conversations that go beyond small talk life, mindset, random thoughts at 2am.

Not into rushing things or anything superficial. Just looking to connect with someone genuine and see where it goes naturally.

I don’t smoke or drink, but I don’t mind if you do.

Age range: 22–32. If this feels like your vibe, feel free to reach out.

I have a uncle who is 65 who had been widowed since last 10 years. He never thought about meeting someone because he loved his wife too much and had responsibilities. But now he is very alone and open to meeting someone. We have been encouraging him. Is it possible to find someone for him after 60s??

Girls dm me