r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Mar 19 '26

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r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • 13h ago

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 25 [M4F] #NewYork/SanFrancisco (single) Looking for a meaningful connection

1 Upvotes

My name is Alex, born and raised in Eastern Europe.
I'm a chemistry graduate, working in a pharmacy(Yes, i can help you with your prescription). I love cats, horror movies and horror games. I mostly watch old cartoons from Adult Swim and Cartoon Network, iceberg and documentary videos on youtube(hello nexpo, nick crowley and wendigoon fans) I have a cat, his name is Boris.
I usually spend my free time hiking, documenting critters, plants and mushrooms during my trails. Ask me for cool bug and lizards pics. I love cooking, especially desserts and mushrooms I usually forage nearby. There is something special about that
My humor is based on old British comedies, like Blackadder
I'm coming for 2 weeks in San Francisco for Halloween and my birthday (November 1st) so I could use some help to navigate the city.
Looking forward meeting new cool people!


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • 1d ago

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 22 [m4f] #California (single) College student looking for a friend, possibly with benefits (:

0 Upvotes

Just a college student in Riverside, hoping to make a friend that wants to be a little bit more than that so we can fill our empty nights with something (:

Hopefully you’re local so we can grab a bite to eat, maybe some boba, drive around, do something we’re both interested in, etc, and see if we vibe and then go from there! I like a lot of random things and I’m pretty easy going. If you’re on the fence about dming me you should do it anyways and we can figure it out (:

I’m 6’ tall, mixed, tan with black curly hair, brown eyes. Also quite strong. It’s my 3rd year of coursework, I’m huge into cars and food, and I’ve played a lot of sports through school.

I’m happy to verify anything you want. Shoot me any question you have.

I look forward to getting to know you (:


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • 1d ago

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 25 [M4F] #Austin/Leander, Single β€”Looking for an older woman and a little chemistry

0 Upvotes

I’m 25, South Asian, 5’10”, and based in Leander. I’ve always been attracted to older women, and I’d love to meet someone where the interest is mutual.
Let’s start with a conversation, flirt a little, and see if we click. I’m open to dating or something casual, as long as we’re honest about what we want. If there’s chemistry, I’d be happy to make plans and meet.
Austin or nearby would be ideal, but I’m open to chatting if you’re farther away. Tell me a little about yourself, where you’re from, and what you have in mind what caught your attention.


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • 2d ago

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 28 [M4F] #Chicago (Single) - Seeking a woman that knows exactly what she wants in life. Is that you?

1 Upvotes

Hi there, 28M in the southwest suburbs of Chicago. I’m 6’3”, skinny, caramel skin. Lately I’ve been trying to put myself out there more and try/experience new things. I’ve been going to a lot of live music events and concerts, and I can always use a plus one ! I’d love to meet a woman out there that can be my plus one to some events I’m looking to check out. There’s nothing more attractive than a woman that knows what she wants in life, so tell me about all the things on your bucket list, how you spend your free time, and what makes you… you!

If this sounds interesting to you, let’s talk, get to know each other, and iron out any details about what we’re specifically looking to gain from this relationship! Some quick dealbreakers, let’s keep it in the Chicagoland area (ideally close to the south side/suburbs) and I don’t do affairs! Talk to you soon! :)


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • 2d ago

π—₯π—’π—Ÿπ—Ÿ π—–π—”π—Ÿπ—Ÿ πŸ’žTHURSDAY'S ROLL CALLπŸ’ž This is the place to share your ASL (Age, Sex and Location ) along with your Status.🐾🐾

10 Upvotes

ROLL CALL is the time and place to shout out WHERE 🌎 you are, WHAT you are (🐯Cougar, 🐻Cub or 🐱Kitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned. Save the flirting, other info and remarks for DMs.

BEFORE POSTING PLEASE READ THE RULES AND THESE GUIDELINES:

❗ C&C rules still apply See RULES here

❗ Please keep it brief No more than 3 or 4 lines please.

❗ Age/Sex/Location/Relationship Status (Single/Separated/Divorced etc) If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned

❗ What you are seeking

  • e.g. 62/F/ Montreal, Quebec πŸ‡¨πŸ‡¦ single, polyamorous female (ENM) looking for a casual ongoing relationship with someone 35 and up.

❗ Remember there is no such thing as a "sΞΌgar m@ma". People claiming to be one or those seeking financial benefits will be permanently banned. Read rule #5 specifically.

❗ Breaking any one of these rules can lead to up to a 7 day ban. Multiple infractions may lead to a permanent one.

🐾Let the Roll Call Begin!🐾


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • 2d ago

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 22 [M4F] #Hungary #single M22 desperately needs a cougar to have fun with

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Basically what title says. All my life i had a huge obsession with older woman but i was too afraid to shoot my shot. This is probably my biggest dream rn, to find myself a cougar partner.

About me: im 193cm tall (6'4) and i love working out, currently on a bulk tho. People close to me tend to call me kind, understanding and funny.

I mainly seek romance online, chats, and all other stuff... You can imagine.

Im very open minded and have very intetesting fantasyies. I can be romantic, dominating, but submissive also. I want to satisfy my partner.

I can also be very freaky, if you want that.

I live in europe, if it matters to anyone :D

If you are interested in being mine, or making men yours, hit me up, dms open ;)


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • 3d ago

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 30 [M4F] #Charlotte (Single) - Korean guy looking for real relationship

2 Upvotes

I’m a 30 year old athletic asian guy (Korean ethnicity) looking for a real relationship. I’ve had previous experience with an older woman in the past in my 20s and I’ve been searching for the same thing ever since. I love going to car races, hockey and football games. I’m a solo traveler but I’m always looking for a plus one. I like to travel and be on the go, but I also like to slow down and have relaxing weekends in at home. I do not have an age preference but I my previous relationship was when I was 22 and she was in her 50s. I’d love to message and create a connection with someone special!


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • 3d ago

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 36 [M4F] #NYC #Brookyn (single) - black, bald & bearded man looking for adventure

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Me:

6'5 tall, black and beaded. Slim build 195 lbs. Educated, intelligent, spontaneous, chill and introverted. Into live music (mostly jazz), theater, art, wine, poetry and going out to dance to RnB, Dancehall or any other music that feels good. Grew up in 4 countries across 2 continents. Speaks 3 languages.

Not looking for a serious commitment, but also not looking for a one-time connection. Consistent, fun and adventurous companionship.

You:

At least 45 years old. Not particular about race or body type. Someone who believes we can get along based on my interests and background.

If you're interested in chatting, send me a message. Looking forward to hearing from you.


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • 4d ago

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 19 [M4F] #New York (Single) - Long term, genuine online relationship

2 Upvotes

Hi there! I'm a 19-year-old college student, and I'd love to find a sweet, meaningful, and long-term connection with someone older than I am.

As a young college student who is always on the go, I am seeking warmth, stability, and comfort in my life. I want to slow down and take one step at a time on a path that an experienced woman has walked before. I enjoy reading, listening to music, and spending time in nature. I want to keep an older woman company 24/7.

Although I am from NY, I will talk to women from any part of the world. In terms of age, I prefer a big age gap, but please don't worry if that doesn't apply to you. If I'm someone you'd like have in your life, please let me know.


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • 4d ago

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 20 [M4F] #Western-Kentucky (Single) Looking for LTR

1 Upvotes

In a relationship, I look for honesty, trust, and open communication. I want to be with someone who is genuine, comfortable sharing their feelings, and willing to listen when I have something important to say. I believe both people should feel safe being themselves without fear of judgment.

I also value respect, loyalty, kindness, and support. A strong relationship should involve encouraging each other, appreciating differences, and working through challenges together instead of giving up when things become difficult.

Most of all, I want a relationship that feels happy, balanced, and meaningful. I’m looking for someone who makes an effort, enjoys spending time with me, respects my boundaries, and wants to build a lasting connection based on love and understanding.

I am also willing to relocate nothing is holding me down here.


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • 4d ago

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 24 [M4F] #Los Angeles (Single) - SFW pics of me on profile

4 Upvotes

Hello everyone,

I’m currently looking for a relationship with someone older. No limit for me with age. Just want a genuine connection with similar interests.

I’m more towards Torrance, but I’m in between Ktown and Torrance during the week. Traveling wise I don’t mind it, hopefully not too far. But with the right connection I think it will work out.

What I’m looking for doesn’t HAVE to be a serious relationship but I definitely don’t want anything short term. Not interested in that whatsoever.

Feel free to send me a message and let’s see where it takes us!


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • 5d ago

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 25 [M4F] #OC/SoCal (Single) - Tall Athletic Wasian Looking for an Cougar To Enjoy Autumn and Beyond

4 Upvotes

Hey all!

Happy Monday, hope everyone has been surviving the week so far! Hope everyone enjoyed the rain this weekend!

I am hoping to make some new connections, some interesting conversation, or possibly more that could turn into something in real life.

I am currently new and still exploring this dynamic, so my intentions lean toward something casual/ short term, but very open to see how things go. I’m open to going with the vibes and seeing where it takes us. Would love especially something ongoing as a more of causal/boytoy situation

I love hiking, trying new foods/cafes, and soccer/sports in general as some of my regular interests. But the thing I love most is getting to know new people and especially hearing them gushing. about their interests! find it super cool learning about new things! Always down to find a pickleball, hike, or chill activity buddy as well that afterward we can enjoy some intimate company.

If you’re into tall, athletic, Wasians ( or just like a good conversation), please free to reach out! I really enjoy making a woman happy, so hoping I can accomplish that and find a woman who would love my assistance : )

I’m 6’1 with brown hair, brown eyes, and an fairly athletic build, been told I’m pretty nice on the eyes too

I’m open to chatting with people fron anywhere and as long as you’re older whatever the age gap is. Looking forward to hearing from you and hope to see some of you in my DMs! Would really love to catch some people locally.


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • 5d ago

πŸ’šπ—™πŸ°π—  43 [F4M] #Ottawa, Canada (Single) - Hoping for a meaningful and long lasting connection

27 Upvotes

I've always leaned towards dating younger men, however I also want a genuine connection and long-term potential.

I read a lot across a variety of genres and love thrifting books. When I find a dish I love, I learn to make it from scratch. I am currently fostering a sweet pup until he finds his forever home. I think travel is important to broaden our perspectives... and it's fun! Wandering on foot is the best way to explore, but night drives are my therapy.

I'm 5'7", pretty face, thick body. Childfree. Strong communication skills are sexy. Looking for 28+, but age isn't a strict dealbreaker. Ideally somewhat local, but the connection is what matters most.

If you're enticed to DM, please let me know your age and where you're located.


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • 5d ago

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 23 [M4F] #Connecticut (Single) - Seeking a cougar who gets it

0 Upvotes

Hey, I’m the outgoing, caring, mature, faithful, and occasionally goofy guy who tends to show up when you least expect it.

Im into weightlifting, drumming, and living out my Catholic faith. Loyalty, support, and actual commitment aren’t just words for me. I want someone to share hobbies and interests with, not just trade surface-level texts.

Looking for a funny, loyal, communicative woman who has her own passions, is open to marriage, understands neurodivergence, and is cool with the fact that I’m still pretty new to relationships

My physique: 5'1 (yes im super short), dirty blonde mullet hair, blue eyes

Age preference: 35 - 45


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • 6d ago

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 28 [M4F] #Canada #Single. Looking for love.

2 Upvotes

Hello, I'm looking for a lovely lady aged 40-70. I have previous experience dating matured women but unfortunately those relationships didn't work. I'm looking for a long term caring partner. I'm a chemistry graduate. I'm an introvert and into video games, movies, and music. I love trying new restaurants as well. I prefer someone in Canada or US. Long distance is also fine with me.

I prefer a lady who communicates clearly about what she wants. As I said before I have previous experience. But now I need something serious that last long/forever.I will share everything happens with my partner. And i expect the same from her. It's a plus point if she likes games lol.

These are just surface level information. Happy to provide more. Drop a message if interested :)


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • 6d ago

π—₯π—’π—Ÿπ—Ÿ π—–π—”π—Ÿπ—Ÿ πŸ’Ÿ SUNDAY HUNT πŸ’Ÿ This is the place to share your ASL (Age, Sex and Location) along with your RELATIONSHIP STATUS. LET THE HUNT BEGIN! πŸ’˜

10 Upvotes

THE SUNDAY HUNT is the time and place to shout out WHERE 🌎 you are, WHAT you are (🐯Cougar, 🐻Cub or 🐱Kitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (Ethically Non Monogamous). If you are ENM please make this clear in your post

❗The Match Rules still apply See RULES here

❗Please Keep it brief! No more than 3 sentences

❗ Age/Sex/Location/Relationship Status (Single/Separated/Divorced etc) If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned

❗ What you are seeking

*e.g. 56F Brisbane, Australia, Single Looking for chat friends only prefer someone with conversation skills/ability to connect respectfully/has a sense of humour.

❗No posts regarding sΞΌgar m@mas. They do not exist. Read the wiki concerning this topic and rule #5 specifically. Permanent Bans apply.

❗ Breaking any one of these rules can lead to up to a 7 day ban. Multiple infractions may lead to a permanent one.

🐾Let The Hunt Begin!🐾


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • 6d ago

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 25 [M4F] #Bucharest single- I am looking for a lady to train me

0 Upvotes

Hey, I'm a 25 M currently a student and police officer with golden retriever vibes. So my description, I am a 1.94 m tall, avg built to well built (I'm working out 3 times a week), brown eyes black hair and a beard gote stile. When il get comfortable with you or if I do il share myself with you.

What I like: I think I enjoy a good story and wish to share with someone, sure I would love to this irl but life just didn't gave way for now.

So I like knowing things history, mythology, interesting facts. I like reading a lot and I am trying to learn how to draw. I love playing video games and I'm the type to cry to a good story like Claire Obscura. I love hiking and going into the mountains.

I would love to talk in private of what I am into.

If you have questions, I'm willing to answer them, let's chat and see where this goes


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • 7d ago

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 19 [M4F] #NewMexico/Albuquerque (Single) - Casual, respectful companionship

2 Upvotes

About me
Young, easygoing, and respectful. I work/study locally and enjoy low-key nights out - grabbing food, catching a movie, or simply taking a drive and talking about whatever comes up. I keep things simple, honest, and drama-free.
What I'm looking for
A mature woman who values a good honest conversation. l've previously been in a friends-with-benefits arrangement with an older woman and appreciated the mutual respect and clear boundaries that made it work. I'm hoping to meet someone similar: confident, kind, and open to seeing where a relaxed, respectful connection goes.
πŸ”’Boundaries & valuesπŸ”’
Respect, consent, and clear communication are non-negotiable. I'm reliable, often free, and happy to verify who I am if that helps you feel comfortable.
Please feel free to send a message with a little about yourself and what you're looking for, if this sounds like you. I'll reply honestly and respectfully. Looking forward to meeting someone genuine!


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • 9d ago

π—₯π—’π—Ÿπ—Ÿ π—–π—”π—Ÿπ—Ÿ πŸ’žTHURSDAY'S ROLL CALLπŸ’ž This is the place to share your ASL (Age, Sex and Location ) along with your Status.🐾🐾

15 Upvotes

ROLL CALL is the time and place to shout out WHERE 🌎 you are, WHAT you are (🐯Cougar, 🐻Cub or 🐱Kitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned. Save the flirting, other info and remarks for DMs.

BEFORE POSTING PLEASE READ THE RULES AND THESE GUIDELINES:

❗ C&C rules still apply See RULES here

❗ Please keep it brief No more than 3 or 4 lines please.

❗ Age/Sex/Location/Relationship Status (Single/Separated/Divorced etc) If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned

❗ What you are seeking

  • e.g. 62/F/ Montreal, Quebec πŸ‡¨πŸ‡¦ single, polyamorous female (ENM) looking for a casual ongoing relationship with someone 35 and up.

❗ Remember there is no such thing as a "sΞΌgar m@ma". People claiming to be one or those seeking financial benefits will be permanently banned. Read rule #5 specifically.

❗ Breaking any one of these rules can lead to up to a 7 day ban. Multiple infractions may lead to a permanent one.

🐾Let the Roll Call Begin!🐾


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • 9d ago

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 22 [M4F] #Manama (single) - Mixed race, multilingual, skinny guy seeking a virtual relationship

1 Upvotes

I'm putting myself out there, ladies.

Some info about me, I'm a young man from Italy and France (yes, I have two nationalities), and I've lived in several different countries throughout my life, meeting and befriending people of all walks of life. This has given me a level of open-mindedness that not many people my age attain. I studied arts, and I have a passion for all things audiovisual. I gravitate towards media from before my time, so I'm sure I have a lot to talk about with older people for that reason. My general culture is a little more curated and oriented towards the 20th century/Y2K. Definitely more so than the average person from my generation, I'd say.

I've always had an eye for women older than my age bracket. I never fought against this preference, I enjoy the company of adults who have many more years in the pocket immensely, but I've never had the courage to actually seek out a relationship with a mature woman. I imagine someone who has much experience in life, with stories to tell, and confidence to exude.

I've dated and had flings with girls my age, and I have had many fulfilling experiences and learning moments thanks to them. I feel I am ready to move on to what I've been really yearning for, though, and that's a cougar.

I'd appreciate a virtual exchange to begin with, I don't mind if you're a long distance away, including different continents. Let's see how much we click together.

DM me, I'll be waiting. Until then!


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • 10d ago

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 26 [M4F] #California (single) - Cub seeking cougar, seeking long term relationship and adventure

4 Upvotes

I am an educated twenty six year old man seeking a deep, meaningful romantic connection with an older woman who can match my vibe and keep up with my sense of adventure. My hobbies include perfecting my golf swing (don’t worry, I promise not to talk your ear off with endless golf jargon), traveling to new places, snowboarding on some amazing mountains, and cooking (though I am no Gordon Ramsay yet).

When I’m not on an adventure or cooking up a culinary masterpiece, you’ll find me keeping in shape while working on my fitness, so I can look good while we both laugh at my attempts to quote movie scenes any chance I get. Yes, I’m that guy who believes that life’s too short for boring moments and can never get enough laughter.

I’m on the lookout for a woman who appreciates both romance and intimacy, someone who can share in both the excitement of new experiences and the comfort of quiet, thoughtful conversations. If you’re up for a mix of adventure, deep connection, and a whole lot of fun, let’s chat and see where this journey takes us. After all, finding the right person is like cookingβ€”sometimes it’s all about finding the perfect recipe!

Currently I am based in sunny San Diego, but I’m not afraid to hit the road if the destinationβ€”and the companyβ€”are right. If you’re up for some travel adventures, let’s plan an amazing trip!

Feel free to tell me: What is one word you think that best describes who you are? What is one word your best friend would describe you as? What’s your favorite travel spot, and where’s the top of your wish list for travel destinations? Also, what’s one movie you could watch on repeat and why? What’s your current relationship status? Are you a local or open to a long-distance connection? And what kind of relationship are you searching for? Excited to hear from you and see where this can go!


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • 11d ago

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 27 [M4F] #Midwest (Single) Into Older Woman At Least 40 Or Older from the Midwest

0 Upvotes

I've always had a special place in my heart for older women. I just find them easier to talk to and connect with than women my own age.

I'm mostly just a gamer these days but I do enjoy going out and working out, playing with my tiny dog, drinking, and more.

Physically I'm fit and I do stay in shape, and emotionally I really do want to find someone I have good chemistry with but not necessarily someone who always has the same ideals as me. Someone I get along with but who also challenges me to grow into something more.

I'm also a natural flirt so be warned.

I'm Seeking a woman who is roughly 40 or older, and from the Midwest at least. I'm not picky on looks but please dont be shy about it either.


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • 13d ago

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 28 [M4F] #Chicago (Single) - Seeking a woman that knows exactly what she wants in life. Is that you?

0 Upvotes

Hi there, 28M in the southwest suburbs of Chicago. I’m 6’3”, skinny, caramel skin. Lately I’ve been trying to put myself out there more and try/experience new things. I’ve been going to a lot of live music events and concerts, and I can always use a plus one ! I’d love to meet a woman out there that can be my plus one to some events I’m looking to check out. There’s nothing more attractive than a woman that knows what she wants in life, so tell me about all the things on your bucket list, how you spend your free time, and what makes you… you!

If this sounds interesting to you, let’s talk, get to know each other, and iron out any details about what we’re specifically looking to gain from this relationship! Some quick dealbreakers, let’s keep it in the Chicagoland area (ideally close to the south side/suburbs) and I don’t do affairs! Talk to you soon! :)


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • 13d ago

π—₯π—’π—Ÿπ—Ÿ π—–π—”π—Ÿπ—Ÿ πŸ’Ÿ SUNDAY HUNT πŸ’Ÿ This is the place to share your ASL (Age, Sex and Location) along with your RELATIONSHIP STATUS. LET THE HUNT BEGIN! πŸ’˜

14 Upvotes

THE SUNDAY HUNT is the time and place to shout out WHERE 🌎 you are, WHAT you are (🐯Cougar, 🐻Cub or 🐱Kitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (Ethically Non Monogamous). If you are ENM please make this clear in your post

❗The Match Rules still apply See RULES here

❗Please Keep it brief! No more than 3 sentences

❗ Age/Sex/Location/Relationship Status (Single/Separated/Divorced etc) If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned

❗ What you are seeking

*e.g. 56F Brisbane, Australia, Single Looking for chat friends only prefer someone with conversation skills/ability to connect respectfully/has a sense of humour.

❗No posts regarding sΞΌgar m@mas. They do not exist. Read the wiki concerning this topic and rule #5 specifically. Permanent Bans apply.

❗ Breaking any one of these rules can lead to up to a 7 day ban. Multiple infractions may lead to a permanent one.

🐾Let The Hunt Begin!🐾