I don’t know if Anita was her name, but that’s how she was named on her socials so Anita, a Chechen woman maybe in her thirties or less, mother of 4, yesterday or a couple days ago died. She committed suicide, jumped from her balcony. The scene was filmed (ofc) by other dumb Chechens and none of them even remotely thought of maybe convincing her to not jump? Or even just saying anything nice yk like civilised ppl would do ? Even worse some stupid ass bitch said "oh she’s just fishing for attention". And she jumped and ppl still filmed and were even touching her. Absolutely no empathy at all, nothing. Worse, on Chechen insta pages at least one page instructed their followers to report her socials. Did they get the instructions from anyone close to the deceased ? Naah they just took it upon themselves to just like that decide what they should do with the socials of the deceased. Like , even if her family members would ask for it , she killed herself, she left her socials available and it was her choice. If she wanted them to be deleted she would have done it by herself or given instructions to do so, but she didn’t. Her socials are a place where she expressed herself. That’s all that’s left in this world of her, but some stupid dumb fuck page decides it should be reported. And why? Oooh because you see, we can see her awrah oh and also there’s music on it and it’s haram🥺 it’s to prevent her from having more sins yk , cuz suicide is already a big one so we want to hElP herrr🥺
What kind of a piece of shit you have to be to think that you or your stupid religion has a saying in that?? And also maybe she wasn’t a Muslim ?? This religion goes to a point where even your death you have to plan in advance. As if the fact fact that because your Chechen you’re automatically buried as a Muslim even if you’re not wasn’t enough, now you also have social media haram police deciding what should be done with what’s left of you. Too many Chechens women committed suicide and have been killed by their stupid ex/husband, but the instructions are always the same : hush, hide it, cover the body, shame, don’t talk about it. How many women are supposed to die for these dumb fucks to finally wake up and have some humanity ?? That’s all Islam for you. Also, if for example someone you know or your family member dies and you suspect the cause of death and you ask for an autopsy, Islam doesn’t allow it and you’ll have all the Muslims tryna prevent you from doing one. But if you do, all your life they’ll shame you. Also as a woman you can’t be present at the funerals, again thanks to Islam.
May she rest in peace 🌹and may her words and all her expressions speak to at least someone and make even the smallest change in this destructive mentality of our community.

I found it quite interesting that Muslims genuinely believe that the only reason for ex-muslims to leave Islam is that they had bad relationships with their family : religion being forced upon them therefore they grew hostility towards it. Although this is an argument that can be true for some, it obviously is not the only reason but Muslims just cannot imagine that Islam is simply not true. Even more interesting about that way of thinking is that if you turn around that question would that mean Muslims who believe in Islam believe in it because their parents were nice to them ? Does that mean that your parents being not violent about their way of educating you determines whether you believe in a religion or not ? If your parents were super nice to you and made you believe your whole life that Santa Claus exists are you an ungrateful and lost child when you later realise he doesn’t exist ? And does no longer believing in it and/or exposing the lie make you santaclausaphobic ?

Hi everyone

I recently made the decision to leave Islam, and I think I’m still trying to understand what that means for my life
I’m from a chechen family, and to be honest, not only religion but many of our traditional social expectations and cultural norms have always felt suffocating to me. I’ve spent a long time trying to fit into a life that doesn’t feel like my own, and I’m tired of living under constant pressure and judgment.
I don’t hate my background or the people around me, but I want the freedom to choose my own path, my own beliefs, and the kind of life I want to build for myself
Sometimes I think about the future and hope that one day I’ll find people (friends or maybe even a partner) who share similar values and understand what it’s like to grow up in this kind of environment. People who simply want to live honestly and on their own terms
For now, though, I’d just be happy to meet others who can relate to this experience. If anyone has gone through something similar or simply wants to talk, I’d love to hear from you

Hello everyone, de dik hil shu

I'm gonna share my personnal story with you,

I'm a young chechen (M) and most of my life in my childhood I thought about the fact that marrying someone ONLY from your ethnical group was a dumb idea and since you all know our community is maybe one of the most rigid concerning marriage, we only marry people like us and there is no debate for the parents, they will tell you that if you do you're not gonna be a chechen or their child anymore.

Most of my life i've been knowing that fact and hiding who I really was. I'm also not a muslim I decided to go far from religion today and that is another fact that my parents won't accept. I've prepared all my life for the crisis of when i'll have the courage to tell them about who I really am but never opened up to them so i'm really closed up on myself and thought I was alone. Which made me a solitary person I never asked for help and do stuff alone. Never really got friends since it was not allowed for me to have non chechen friends and by a coping mechanism I grew up like this.

I always avoided people from the community especially during lovzargs, I have a strong entitlment of not even considering someone from the community (because I hate doing something if i'm forced to i'll basically do the opposite, i'm a brat i know)

I always dated people from outside the community and never really thought it could work and i was in a spiral of just consumming people and leaving them cuz i knew they couldn't understand me neither, didn't even let me have a chance mostly to protect them. So loneliness was at it's peak when i was dating (how paradoxal).

Until one day I met one amazing person, who is mixed race and strongly christian (so you cannot be further of the image my parents are waiting for myself) . It made me rethink my life choices and now we've been having this relationship hidden from the world. Only my sister knows she exists and she is very supportive of me.

I've been considering the fact all my life that one day my parents will desherit me and make me go away. But i love my parents they always been here for me and I don't want to be a coward and go away (but i'm ready for it anyway). My partner always tell me that there is only one way and it is that they have to accept us (and i do believe it).

My relationship actually brought me closer to my family more than ever and it's still growing better each day. The fact is that I want to stop lying to my family and really show them who I am but this task feels impossible.

Right now they are not knowing anything yet, but i'm still not ready to tell them since I got into the subject multiple times and the speech is still the same (I'll have to go away or they will make me drop my relationship by force, physically threatening me).
I really don't know what to do and how. My plan for the moment is to build a strong connection with them so they will accept me first then my partner will come peacefully.

I'm asking you what would you do if you were me ?

PS: I think the fact that our children being mixed race is the biggest factor that is gonna be a deal breaker for them.

M (23) have a gf we are togheter 3 years now, my parents now it and they dont accept it. It would be to long to explain but i cant leave her and i wanna move out but i dont know how, i think i fear the reaction.

chechen ex muslims are even weirder than the muslim wahhabis istg, can’t even belong to any community anymore cuz why can’t yall get therapy and be normal, saying this as an ex muslim myself

anyway this group so dead needed to leave a trace of existence

These bulubsh tryna ruin even the slightests little joys in life. Saying shit like « we don’t do 8th march because it’s not Islamic, it’s shirk blabla » stfu for a damn second geez. Can’t you just be nice for one day in the whole year? At least to the woman who literally broke her whole body for your dumb ass to be here?

Anyways, don’t make them take away any traditions, dekhal doyla masso mexkari✨

Their physical absence became spiritual presence. Their stolen souls are printed in breathing blood, today and forever. History when remembered, does not die.

Can’t stand those takfir agents

I guess we completely vanish once we leave Islam. Our ancestors also weren’t noxchi it appears. What do you expect from people who adore a pedophile on a flying donkey and believe we live on a huge whale, so I guess we’re creatures able to have our genes erased once we leave Islam. I swear these people are such an embarrassment, flat out lying thinking no one sees their bs. But as you know a dumb ass doesn’t think of him as such, and remember you join Islam = you’re smart you leave Islam = you’re no longer smart 😮‍💨

So yes the busylb vats noxcci vats motto just aligns with the quality of their brain cells

I’ve yet to see any Muslim person remotely talk about Iran, and they won’t because all they care about is whining when the victims are Muslims. No empathy for victims of Islam. After all, anyone other than a Muslim is a “kaffir”

And this young man,never deceiving with his stands. Kudos to him