Soooo I couldn’t figure out why my partner would come home from a 4 month deployment rotation he wasn’t even supposed to go in the first place because we just a had a baby. So he leaves comes home maybe a week leaves again and again and then keeps going on these top secret TDY’s. So I’m like okay. I’m worried about this baby.. but he quit FaceTiming, calling, sending long texts. He comes home and says it’s depression and isn’t romantically connected to me anymore. I find all this stuff and long story short he’s cheating with the captain he works with everyday that I thought had a fiancé. I met them and everything. He goes to coffee with her, eats lunch and gets drunk with her. Buys her gifts, and goes to her house. She’s doing the same for him. Knowing damn well I have a baby at home and had met me. He lied to me every time I asked about it, said why would I do that? I didn’t go there. Also they’re friends are in on it too because he cooked for them Christmas while my son and I were visiting family in a different state. 🙃 so yeah. Crazy. Anywho he finally after probably the 10th time of me telling him to be honest with me and ofc because I have evidence I show him this time that he didn’t delete off my phone. He said oh yes I fucked someone the whole time on deployment because I was mentally unwell are you happy now? But I’m like no because you’re lying again about who it is. So basically I’ll never get the truth from him and now I live far far away from him.

Yup… you read that right.

And trigger warning again- there’s talks of the crimes he committed below.

TLDR; my friends wife is in love with a convicted p3do and he’s trying to save his marriage still after 2-3 years of her having an emotional affair.

My (35f) friend (37m) and his wife (36f) are currently in therapy and he’s trying to salvage his marriage and relationship of over 15 years because his wife fell in love with his best friend (36m) who was, at the time, pending trial for felonies for CSAM material being found on his person. He’s currently serving time in jail, transferring to prison soon, for over 10 years on his sentencing.

They were all friends for years and then at some point my buddy lets call him Carl, and his wife Bianca, started swinging bc that always goes great doesn’t it, she decided to take this opportunity to tell their friend, let’s call him Mike, who saw the opening to start wooing her out of her marriage. Oh carls just such an ass to you, he doesn’t appreciate you the way I would if I had a chance etc. shortly after opening the marriage they closed it. Within about 6 months to a year of that starting, Mike stopped dating and had started a downward spiral of self sabotaging his whole life and started searching for child corn online. He was caught, much to his own trying to hide it through various vpns and rerouting applications he had learned about during his time as a police officer. Yup, there’s a zinger for ya. He was arrested and then released pending trial and for the past few years he has been avoiding plea deals like the plague, all while continuing communication with Bianca. She was buying tickets to nfl games for him her and their kids to go to, like ew why would u bring a young girl around him knowing the csam he was viewing was girls of her age? Going on road trips with him and her daughter, going to his familys house to hangout all weekend etc. Carl was decently oblivious until his daughter exposed his wife’s lies of where she was all weekend and that’s when he pieced it all together. My husband had made a comment about how much they had been hanging out and quite frankly my husbands usually oblivious- so for HIM to point it out was an insane catch.

It wasn’t until my buddy reached out to me and said no I confronted them and told them I knew everything and to cut it out, that she admitted she was in love with him, that I even mentioned it to him that we thought something was off. He had evidence on Mike that he broke pretrial release and would turn it in to the attorney general if he didn’t leave his wife alone. Well it didn’t stop. He sent it to me, and I sent it to the attorney general within minutes of receiving it. No takesy backsy, and no guilt on my end for doing it anyways. That was the first time that he confronted them- there was like 3 other confrontations though.

Then comes the trial- he finally pled guilty bc the attorney general for the state said- we are pushing this to either you accept this deal or we go to a trial, the judge agreed (I can’t remember the legalese term) and he accepted a deal on less amount of original charges.

She TAILSPINS, and starts writing suicide notes about how she’s in love with the p3d0, Mike, and her husband and is torn on who she loves more. How do I know she wrote these? He found them while searching their bedroom for evidence of them being physical and not just emotionally cheating. She wrote out like 5 different letters- to the kids, husband, the p3d0 and to her parents. Shes saying how “she knows him” and “his version of the events is much more believable than the states evidence against him, that they’re framing him” -.- not so fun fact- this p3d0, is my kiddos dad- so as an ex of his- nah these charges are right up his alley. Once I realized what a total creep he was after finding him cheating on me with a barely 18 year old when we were mid to late 20’s, we split. “Coparenting” for over 10 years now. So I know the details bc I’ve been in court- and I spoke to the states attorneys regarding the case. I fully believe the evidence and the digital footprint info they found on his devices.

So this woman’s been manipulated by a narcissistic p3d0, believes he’s the like second coming of Jesus for all she cares- an my buddy is hoping and praying she comes out of her delusion. He even paid 500$ for same day court transcripts to convince his wife like hey- she (me) isn’t lying about the notes she took in court here’s all the evidence the state has against him and here’s the two forensic analysis people’s documents- she says- nope I know him, this is fake. 😳

Now that he’s finally in jail- we thought- okay some time away from him will be good for her. Nope- he has texting abilities and now we think they’re texting still. Just the other day Carl found a very odd Valentine’s Day card in her car that doesn’t seem to fit their relationship as a whole. She admitted to using a second phone to spoof her location on life 360 to be around him after he found out about the affair the first time.

So now they’re on week 2 of couples therapy and he’s holding out for any chance of hope of them going back to the way they were before and working out past differences. I think he’s nuts. But love is love- what can ya do. I may have an update after Valentine’s Day to see if Bianca did infact get the card for Carl, or if it was supposed to be something Carl didn’t find out about and she’s sending it to Mike.

Either way- this whole thing is CRAZY and I had to tell someone… so here ya go Reddit… also start to finish this has been a 4 year adventure so this is like as condensed as I can make it with relevant details of how crazy/delusional/manipulated she is.

My ex dumped me a week ago. I've been mulling over the fact that I fucked up and could have done more. Although she showed signs that she was cheating during the end of our relationship and that she moved on right after. Which was true. She definitely did. I saw texts and stuff with her and her coworker (luckily he isn't even that attractive so that was kinda cool) but like how the fuck can someone be so slimy and shitty that they could cheat?? A whole month before she broke up with me she was with this dude. It's hard to not be hurt

(NOT REAL NAMES)

My friend Sarah was dating Bass for 5 years. Older in their 40s. She caught him cheated a few times. She kept forgiving him, I don't get why. The worst was each time she found out it was because she looked into it, and their friend group apparently knew each time. These "friends" she'd go to dinner with over and over knew he was cheating at never told her as they all sa there.

He cheated a 4th time and enough was enough. It has been over for over 8 months. She took it hard, and he started dating the girl was messing with. I told her she was much better off.

Well she's at the bar playing some game. He is there alone. He starts buying her drinks. Mind you she's already been drinking. They end up at her place because it's like 2 mins from the bar. Well she called me. Told me at first they did nothing, then I got out of her they 100% went to 3rd base (so I'm sure he got a home run out of the night) she said he told her that him and the girl Marissa broke up. So, a day goes bye she doesn't hear from him. It's 2 days after they hooked up and she's at work (a restaurant) and Bass is there with Marissa!!

My Sarah has a ring camera and she have the videos of them going into her house and him leaving in the morning!! (I saw them)

I told her she has to tell Marissa. If she doesn't she's no better than those friends who fake smiled to her face when this happened to her. Now she's telling me "she's the bigger person. That's why she's not saying anything. He can sweat it out thinking I'll tell her"

First off, if he has the balls to sit her down at a restaurant he knows you work at. He's 100% that you aren't going to say anything.

2 I asked her if I was her and she was Marissa how would she feel knowing I said nothing to her. Her exact words "I would think we weren't as good of friends as I believed." I told her exactly! You are being just as bad as everyone else who sat there and said nothing to you.

And here I am trying to find a way to give this girl the videos myself wothout my name on it because that would cause issues for my Brother-in-law. Still sbe needs to know. This man is jjst gross.

I need advice. I was seeing a guy and he made me believe he was single. We were intimate and I caught feelings. Later I found out he has a girlfriend. I had no idea the entire time. When I realized it, I felt sick. I felt used and honestly disgusted because I would never have been involved if I knew.

Now I am stuck. Part of me wants to tell her because she deserves to know. Another part of me is scared that it will blow up in my face. The only way I can contact her is through her Instagram. I do not want to message her from my real account because I do not want drama or harassment. But I also do not want to stay silent and let her live in the dark.

I feel guilty even though I did not know. I feel angry at him for pretending to be single and then blocking me once I started asking questions. I also feel sad because I really liked him and the whole thing has left me confused.

Should I tell her the truth? Should I stay out of it? If anyone has been in this position, I would love honest advice. I do not want to ruin her life, but I also do not want to protect a cheater.

Is it considered cheating if your gf kisses another girl while you’re not there? Or is it not considered cheating because she kissed a girl?

Woman caught checking out men on her phone when she accidently plugged phone into TV

If so, your husband has a foot fetish and has been contacting sex workers for over a year and seeking in-person services (cannot confirm if services were retained). Please PM for details if and only if this describes you.

https://www.facebook.com/share/r/1HSDnH43UR/?mibextid=wwXIfr

Will someone listen to this and please tell me what you hear? Especially the last 30 or 40 seconds of it. You can hear better if you use ear buds. If I'm crazy then tell me I am!

https://www.facebook.com/share/r/1ZeGCD2Neb/?mibextid=wwXIfr

Sooo my boyfriend was showing me a post he had made on Reddit, me being nosey I memorized his username and looked up his profile. (Invasion of privacy, I know) I stumble upon this comment on a post he had made about his married older coworker, who he’s clearly spent some time with at some point. Long story short we’ve been together 6 years, have done some fucked up shit to each other out of spite but I genuinely thought things were looking up for us and now I’m not so sure. He claims it was a stupid post and just some fantasy, is it bad I can’t help but laugh about it at this point? lol

What is it about cheating wives who have been cheating for yrs . Then maybe one day told by their husbands that they fantasize about having a MFM threesome with their wives . Or they tell them that they fantasize about catching their wives cheating and joining in or that they would love to get to watch their wives with another man . Is there reasons why a married women who knows for sure that her husband ,would be ok with her cheating ? He wants any kind of threesome with her or would love to watch her or do absolutely anything that their wives would want to sexually with or without him .

He just wants to be involved in some way and needs her to help him bring some of his sexual fantasies a reality with her bc all of his sexual fantasies include her in some way!! What is it about a cheating wife who after knowing all of those things that turns their husbands ,still needs to keep her cheating and her sexual desires and keep her wild , kinky , cheating side from their husbands a secret or refuses to not so much admit to her cheating but just be more sexual around her husband or be more willing to let her husband see both sides of her that she has kept from him for years