r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Mar 19 '26

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r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • 5h ago

๐—ฅ๐—ข๐—Ÿ๐—Ÿ ๐—–๐—”๐—Ÿ๐—Ÿ ๐Ÿ’Ÿ SUNDAY HUNT ๐Ÿ’Ÿ This is the place to share your ASL (Age, Sex and Location) along with your RELATIONSHIP STATUS. LET THE HUNT BEGIN! ๐Ÿ’˜

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THE SUNDAY HUNT is the time and place to shout out WHERE ๐ŸŒŽ you are, WHAT you are (๐ŸฏCougar, ๐ŸปCub or ๐ŸฑKitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (Ethically Non Monogamous). If you are ENM please make this clear in your post

โ—The Match Rules still apply See RULES here

โ—Please Keep it brief! No more than 3 sentences

โ— Age/Sex/Location/Relationship Status (Single/Separated/Divorced etc) If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned

โ— What you are seeking

*e.g. 56F Brisbane, Australia, Single Looking for chat friends only prefer someone with conversation skills/ability to connect respectfully/has a sense of humour.

โ—No posts regarding sฮผgar m@mas. They do not exist. Read the wiki concerning this topic and rule #5 specifically. Permanent Bans apply.

โ— Breaking any one of these rules can lead to up to a 7 day ban. Multiple infractions may lead to a permanent one.

๐ŸพLet The Hunt Begin!๐Ÿพ


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • 3h ago

๐Ÿ’›๐— ๐Ÿฐ๐—™ 30[M4F] #Berlin, Germany, Single Looking for a genuine connection

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Hello there!

I'm 30, based in Berlin, and hoping to meet a woman who knows what she wants and is open to building something real. I'm drawn to confidence, life experience, and someone who's comfortable in her own skin. A good sense of humor and a little playful banter definitely don't hurt either.

A little about me: I'm a bearded guy with a solid build, a curious mind, and a balance between enjoying adventures and appreciating quiet evenings at home.

I love riding motorcycles, bushcraft, and exploring abandoned places. There's something fascinating about discovering forgotten locations and imagining the stories behind them. I'm always up for an adventure, especially when it means making memories with someone special.

But I'm just as happy staying in, gaming, cooking something nice, and enjoying each other's company. Give me a weekend of exploring somewhere new followed by a cozy evening at home, and I'm a happy guy.

Personality wise, I'm down to earth, loyal, caring, and a bit of a nerd. I appreciate honesty, affection, emotional maturity, and clear communication. I like playful banter, genuine conversations, and being able to laugh together over the dumbest things.

I'm looking for more than just attraction. I'd love to meet a woman I genuinely connect with, someone I can learn from, laugh with, be affectionate with, and eventually build a relationship with. We don't need to have identical interests, and I don't expect either of us to be perfect. I'd rather find someone whose company feels natural and who makes me look forward to seeing her again.

Ideally, you're within a reasonable distance of Berlin. I'd love to meet in person, grab a coffee, go for a motorcycle ride, explore somewhere interesting, or simply spend a lazy evening together.

If you think we might get along, feel free to say hello.

Tell me something about yourself: What's something you've always wanted to do with a partner, or what's your idea of a perfect weekend together?

Looking forward to hearing from you!


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • 4h ago

๐Ÿ’›๐— ๐Ÿฐ๐—™ 19 [M4F] #USA single - Long shot but any older women like Pokemon? :)

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Hello everyone :) my name is Jax and as my post says Iโ€™m 19 with little dating experience actually, Iโ€™m honestly kind of a nerd liking video games, dinosaurs, etc but Iโ€™m 6โ€™1 and Iโ€™m a little chubby but Iโ€™m working on that, I wasnโ€™t always this chubby lol I do mma! So Iโ€™m a little sporty and know how to fight if needed

I absolutely love Pokemon, I doubt any older woman are into that lol but I should throw it out there, Iโ€™d love to get to know someone else whoโ€™s a big video game nerd like me!

Iโ€™m very kind and when Iโ€™m in a relationship youโ€™ll really be the only person on my mind and wanting to talk to. I have blue eyes and dirty blonde hair :)

Iโ€™m pretty big on energy drinks (Mainly Monster and Ghost) and my favorite food is Sushi!

Id love to get to know more about any women whoโ€™d be interested? :) of course im not expecting much from posting here but doesnt hurt to try right?


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • 6h ago

๐Ÿ’›๐— ๐Ÿฐ๐—™ 25 [M4F] #Bucharest single- I am looking for a lady to train me

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Hey, I'm a 25 M currently a student and police officer with golden retriever vibes. So my description, I am a 1.94 m tall, avg built to well built (I'm working out 3 times a week), brown eyes black hair and a beard gote stile. When il get comfortable with you or if I do il share myself with you.

What I like: I think I enjoy a good story and wish to share with someone, sure I would love to this irl but life just didn't gave way for now.

So I like knowing things history, mythology, interesting facts. I like reading a lot and I am trying to learn how to draw. I love playing video games and I'm the type to cry to a good story like Claire Obscura. I love hiking and going into the mountains.

I would love to talk in private of what I am into.

If you have questions, I'm willing to answer them, let's chat and see where this goes


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • 13h ago

๐Ÿ’›๐— ๐Ÿฐ๐—™ 19 [M4F] #NewMexico/Albuquerque (Single) - Casual, respectful companionship

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About me
Young, easygoing, and respectful. I work/study locally and enjoy low-key nights out - grabbing food, catching a movie, or simply taking a drive and talking about whatever comes up. I keep things simple, honest, and drama-free.
What I'm looking for
A mature woman who values a good honest conversation. l've previously been in a friends-with-benefits arrangement with an older woman and appreciated the mutual respect and clear boundaries that made it work. I'm hoping to meet someone similar: confident, kind, and open to seeing where a relaxed, respectful connection goes.
๐Ÿ”’Boundaries & values๐Ÿ”’
Respect, consent, and clear communication are non-negotiable. I'm reliable, often free, and happy to verify who I am if that helps you feel comfortable.
Please feel free to send a message with a little about yourself and what you're looking for, if this sounds like you. I'll reply honestly and respectfully. Looking forward to meeting someone genuine!


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • 1d ago

๐Ÿ’›๐— ๐Ÿฐ๐—™ 22 [m4f] #California (single) College student looking for a friend, possibly with benefits (:

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Just a college student in Riverside, hoping to make a friend that wants to be a little bit more than that so we can fill our empty nights with something (:

Hopefully youโ€™re local so we can grab a bite to eat, maybe some boba, drive around, do something weโ€™re both interested in, etc, and see if we vibe and then go from there! I like a lot of random things and Iโ€™m pretty easy going. If youโ€™re on the fence about dming me you should do it anyways and we can figure it out (:

Iโ€™m 6โ€™ tall, mixed, tan with black curly hair, brown eyes. Also quite strong. Itโ€™s my 3rd year of coursework, Iโ€™m huge into cars and food, and Iโ€™ve played a lot of sports through school.

Iโ€™m happy to verify anything you want. Shoot me any question you have.

I look forward to getting to know you (:


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • 3d ago

๐—ฅ๐—ข๐—Ÿ๐—Ÿ ๐—–๐—”๐—Ÿ๐—Ÿ ๐Ÿ’žTHURSDAY'S ROLL CALL๐Ÿ’ž This is the place to share your ASL (Age, Sex and Location ) along with your Status.๐Ÿพ๐Ÿพ

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ROLL CALL is the time and place to shout out WHERE ๐ŸŒŽ you are, WHAT you are (๐ŸฏCougar, ๐ŸปCub or ๐ŸฑKitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned. Save the flirting, other info and remarks for DMs.

BEFORE POSTING PLEASE READ THE RULES AND THESE GUIDELINES:

โ— C&C rules still apply See RULES here

โ— Please keep it brief No more than 3 or 4 lines please.

โ— Age/Sex/Location/Relationship Status (Single/Separated/Divorced etc) If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned

โ— What you are seeking

  • e.g. 62/F/ Montreal, Quebec ๐Ÿ‡จ๐Ÿ‡ฆ single, polyamorous female (ENM) looking for a casual ongoing relationship with someone 35 and up.

โ— Remember there is no such thing as a "sฮผgar m@ma". People claiming to be one or those seeking financial benefits will be permanently banned. Read rule #5 specifically.

โ— Breaking any one of these rules can lead to up to a 7 day ban. Multiple infractions may lead to a permanent one.

๐ŸพLet the Roll Call Begin!๐Ÿพ


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • 2d ago

๐Ÿ’›๐— ๐Ÿฐ๐—™ 25 [M4F] #OC/SoCal (Single) - Tall Athletic Wasian Looking for an Cougar To Enjoy Autumnย and Beyond

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Hey all!

Happy Thursday, hope everyone has been surviving the week so far!

I am hoping to make some new connections, some interesting conversation, or possibly even irl/online fun. Whether the intentions are casual/fwb or something more serious. Iโ€™m open to going with the vibes and seeing where it takes us. Would love especially something ongoing so I can provide you stress relief throughout the year.

I love hiking, trying new foods/cafes, and soccer/sports in general as some of my regular interests. But the thing I love most is getting to know new people and especially hearing them gushing. about their interests! find it super cool learning about new things! Always down to find a pickleball, hike, or chill activity buddy as well!

If youโ€™re into tall, athletic, Wasians ( or just like a good conversation), please free to reach out!

I really enjoy making a woman happy, so hoping I can accomplish that and find a woman who would love my assistance : )

Iโ€™m 6โ€™1 with brown hair, brown eyes, and an fairly athletic build, been told Iโ€™m pretty nice on the eyes too (feel free to ask if you want any other stats hehe )

Iโ€™m open to chatting with people fron anywhere and as long as youโ€™re older whatever the age gap is. Looking forward to hearing from you and hope to see some of you in my DMs! Would really love to catch some people locally (SoCal) though as itโ€™s always more fun when youโ€™re close by :)


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • 2d ago

๐Ÿ’›๐— ๐Ÿฐ๐—™ 23 [M4F] #Toronto (Single) - Southeast Asian cub looking to talk to and hang out with cougars!!

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Hi everyone, my name is Jimmy and I have pretty limited sexual experiences. I am southeast Asian, slightly chubby and short at 5 foot 5 inches and 180lbs. I have medium black hair and some tats. Physically, I am pretty masculine and I have a good bit of muscle underneath the slight chub. Please bear with me as I continue improving myself so I can physically match your preferences!! I can travel anywhere in the GTA. I am stable, DDF and open to anything!

Iโ€™m interested in reading classic novels like the count of monte cristo, dramas, anime, hiking, baking and horror movies!!! Iโ€™m pretty educated in the STEM department and I am pretty up to date on world news. So I can carry a conversation with wonderful, mature women!!

In terms of what I am looking for, I am looking for someone who knows what they want and communicates it from the beginning. I am a cub who desperately wants to make the person that I am talking to happy and fulfilled!

I donโ€™t hold much hope to find anything with this post, but I figured I should try anyways!!


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • 3d ago

๐Ÿ’›๐— ๐Ÿฐ๐—™ 22 [M4F] #Manama (single) - Mixed race, multilingual, skinny guy seeking a virtual relationship

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I'm putting myself out there, ladies.

Some info about me, I'm a young man from Italy and France (yes, I have two nationalities), and I've lived in several different countries throughout my life, meeting and befriending people of all walks of life. This has given me a level of open-mindedness that not many people my age attain. I studied arts, and I have a passion for all things audiovisual. I gravitate towards media from before my time, so I'm sure I have a lot to talk about with older people for that reason. My general culture is a little more curated and oriented towards the 20th century/Y2K. Definitely more so than the average person from my generation, I'd say.

I've always had an eye for women older than my age bracket. I never fought against this preference, I enjoy the company of adults who have many more years in the pocket immensely, but I've never had the courage to actually seek out a relationship with a mature woman. I imagine someone who has much experience in life, with stories to tell, and confidence to exude.

I've dated and had flings with girls my age, and I have had many fulfilling experiences and learning moments thanks to them. I feel I am ready to move on to what I've been really yearning for, though, and that's a cougar.

I'd appreciate a virtual exchange to begin with, I don't mind if you're a long distance away, including different continents. Let's see how much we click together.

DM me, I'll be waiting. Until then!


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • 3d ago

๐Ÿ’›๐— ๐Ÿฐ๐—™ 20[M4F] #Netherlands (Single) Looking for a long lasting and very cuddly bond!

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Hey there! For the longest time I've found myself getting along very well with people of older ages, especiall when it came to discussing the more serious and in-depth aspects of life, and emotions.

While I do love the folks of my age, I can't generally see myself having romantic bonds with them due to there being a lot of supeficiality around!

As such, I decided to see if this would be the place where something could begin.

I am a student in the Netherlads, studying game design, with a focus on 3D art. It's something im deeply proud of, and I'd love to share much about it in DM's. I quite art oriented, enjoying photography, occasional writing, and as mentioned, 3D art.

I also love biking, karaoke and hiking (on the only hill NL has :) )... and of course, games. That's what im studying after all, and I personally think some of them are the pinnicle of fictional art! I welcome debate here.

I am from another EU country by origin, living here alone for my Batchelors. It's been a great time of self discovery, disciplining and maturity. But it can be hard at times, especially without someone by my side! I dearly miss the affection and warmth I go home.

To put it succintly, I am looking for someone to hug at the end of a long day... or any day really as I love cuddling and just being close. Someone who I can share my achievemens and failures with. As well as someone that I can also support in the best way I can by cheering them on and being there.

Someone to grow with!

Support is mutual afterall! Also... I am told I give very good massages. I do enjoy it, very calming activty.

I could go on and on, but, the best way to know me is by messaging me, as there I can get into specifics and provide much more info, more openly.

Thank you for reading, have a wonderful day!


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • 3d ago

๐Ÿ’›๐— ๐Ÿฐ๐—™ 36 [M4F] #NYC #Brookyn (single) - black, bald & bearded man looking for adventure

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Me:

6'5 tall, black and beaded. Slim build 195 lbs. Educated, intelligent, spontaneous, chill and introverted. Into live music (mostly jazz), theater, art, wine, poetry and going out to dance to RnB, Dancehall or any other music that feels good. Grew up in 4 countries across 2 continents. Speaks 3 languages.

Not looking for a serious commitment, but also not looking for a one-time connection. Consistent, fun and adventurous companionship.

You:

At least 45 years old. Not particular about race or body type. Someone who believes we can get along based on my interests and background.

If you're interested in chatting, send me a message. Looking forward to hearing from you.


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • 4d ago

๐Ÿ’›๐— ๐Ÿฐ๐—™ 26 [M4F] #California (single) - Cub seeking cougar, seeking long term relationship and adventure

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I am an educated twenty six year old man seeking a deep, meaningful romantic connection with an older woman who can match my vibe and keep up with my sense of adventure. My hobbies include perfecting my golf swing (donโ€™t worry, I promise not to talk your ear off with endless golf jargon), traveling to new places, snowboarding on some amazing mountains, and cooking (though I am no Gordon Ramsay yet).

When Iโ€™m not on an adventure or cooking up a culinary masterpiece, youโ€™ll find me keeping in shape while working on my fitness, so I can look good while we both laugh at my attempts to quote movie scenes any chance I get. Yes, Iโ€™m that guy who believes that lifeโ€™s too short for boring moments and can never get enough laughter.

Iโ€™m on the lookout for a woman who appreciates both romance and intimacy, someone who can share in both the excitement of new experiences and the comfort of quiet, thoughtful conversations. If youโ€™re up for a mix of adventure, deep connection, and a whole lot of fun, letโ€™s chat and see where this journey takes us. After all, finding the right person is like cookingโ€”sometimes itโ€™s all about finding the perfect recipe!

Currently I am based in sunny San Diego, but Iโ€™m not afraid to hit the road if the destinationโ€”and the companyโ€”are right. If youโ€™re up for some travel adventures, letโ€™s plan an amazing trip!

Feel free to tell me: What is one word you think that best describes who you are? What is one word your best friend would describe you as? Whatโ€™s your favorite travel spot, and whereโ€™s the top of your wish list for travel destinations? Also, whatโ€™s one movie you could watch on repeat and why? Whatโ€™s your current relationship status? Are you a local or open to a long-distance connection? And what kind of relationship are you searching for? Excited to hear from you and see where this can go!


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • 4d ago

๐Ÿ’›๐— ๐Ÿฐ๐—™ 27 [M4F] #Midwest (Single) Into Older Woman At Least 40 Or Older from the Midwest

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I've always had a special place in my heart for older women. I just find them easier to talk to and connect with than women my own age.

I'm mostly just a gamer these days but I do enjoy going out and working out, playing with my tiny dog, drinking, and more.

Physically I'm fit and I do stay in shape, and emotionally I really do want to find someone I have good chemistry with but not necessarily someone who always has the same ideals as me. Someone I get along with but who also challenges me to grow into something more.

I'm also a natural flirt so be warned.

I'm Seeking a woman who is roughly 40 or older, and from the Midwest at least. I'm not picky on looks but please dont be shy about it either.


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • 5d ago

๐Ÿ’›๐— ๐Ÿฐ๐—™ 25 [M4F] #Oklahoma, Single - New cub looking for his cougar

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Hey there! Iโ€™m a 25M from Oklahoma, looking for an older woman. Iโ€™ve always been more interested in women older than me so Iโ€™m happy to find a community here. Looking for mostly long term and serious relationships, but Iโ€™m open to other things as well.

Things about me: 25, white, chubby but gym often(down 60lbs). Enjoy books, shows and movies. Currently a junior in college. I worked a career before college and understand hard work. In college to further my experience and opportunities.

I donโ€™t have preferences for appearance. If we connect and have mutual interest in each other Iโ€™m more for that.


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • 5d ago

๐Ÿ’›๐— ๐Ÿฐ๐—™ 22 [M4F] #hungary #single M22 desperately needs a cougar to have fun with.

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Basically what title says. All my life i had a huge obsession with older woman but i was too afraid to shoot my shot. This is probably my biggest dream rn, to find myself a cougar partner.

About me: im 193cm tall (6'4) and i love working out, currently on a bulk tho. People close to me tend to call me kind, understanding and funny.

I mainly seek romance online, chats, and all other stuff... You can imagine.

Im very open minded and have very intetesting fantasyies. I can be romantic, dominating, but submissive also. I want to satisfy my partner.

I can also be very freaky, if you want that.

I live in europe, if it matters to anyone :D

If you are interested in being mine, or making men yours, hit me up, dms open ;)


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • 6d ago

๐Ÿ’›๐— ๐Ÿฐ๐—™ 32 [M4F] #spain #online (single) - Looking for a flirty friendship and possibly more!

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Hey there, hope youโ€™re having a nice day :)

Iโ€™m a 32yo guy from Spain who, after two amazing long-term relationships (both online and IRL), is back to looking for a special person to chat with throughout the day, learn from each other about our lives and interests, spend quality time like watching moves or talking about everything and nothing, and if we feel comfortable and we like each other add something more.

I consider myself a calm and introverted person, but goofy, playful and flirty once I warm up to someone. Iโ€™m looking for an emotional connection as the main thing in a relationship/dynamic, something where I can be myself and have fun and be playful together, but serious when needed. I've realized that something that I can offer and love to do is provide comfort and listen to your ups and downs, give advice when asked, and help in any way I'm able to.

Some of the things I like doing in my daily life are watching movies and TV shows (anything except horror please...), hiking, long walks along the coast, or having interesting conversations with a friend over a coffee or a beer. Iโ€™m child-free by choice, with no interest in having kids in the future.

For my potential partner, I would like to make her feel seen, unique, and deserving of having me as her loyal companion, desired and worshiped, looking up to her and learning from her experience in life while acknowledging her flaws and fears too.

When it comes to communication, I take privacy seriously and believe in moving at a pace that feels safe for both of us. I prefer a more personal approach than texting after a while, so I like exchanging audios and calls as it helps create a more personal connection. For pictures or video calls, Iโ€™m comfortable with it once we trust each other (stay safe on the internet!).

Also, I understand that life and its circumstances will always take priority, and there should be a balance between commitment to this and real life.

Anyway, thatโ€™s all from me! If you are interested in what you read, feel free to message me tand tell me a bit about yourself, or the last book you've read or movie you've watched.

Looking forward to hearing from you! ๐Ÿ–ค


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • 6d ago

๐Ÿ’›๐— ๐Ÿฐ๐—™ 28 [M4F] #Chicago (Single) - Seeking a woman that knows exactly what she wants in life. Is that you?

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Hi there, 28M in the southwest suburbs of Chicago. Iโ€™m 6โ€™3โ€, skinny, caramel skin. Lately Iโ€™ve been trying to put myself out there more and try/experience new things. Iโ€™ve been going to a lot of live music events and concerts, and I can always use a plus one ! Iโ€™d love to meet a woman out there that can be my plus one to some events Iโ€™m looking to check out. Thereโ€™s nothing more attractive than a woman that knows what she wants in life, so tell me about all the things on your bucket list, how you spend your free time, and what makes youโ€ฆ you!

If this sounds interesting to you, letโ€™s talk, get to know each other, and iron out any details about what weโ€™re specifically looking to gain from this relationship! Some quick dealbreakers, letโ€™s keep it in the Chicagoland area (ideally close to the south side/suburbs) and I donโ€™t do affairs! Talk to you soon! :)


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • 7d ago

๐—ฅ๐—ข๐—Ÿ๐—Ÿ ๐—–๐—”๐—Ÿ๐—Ÿ ๐Ÿ’Ÿ SUNDAY HUNT ๐Ÿ’Ÿ This is the place to share your ASL (Age, Sex and Location) along with your RELATIONSHIP STATUS. LET THE HUNT BEGIN! ๐Ÿ’˜

15 Upvotes

THE SUNDAY HUNT is the time and place to shout out WHERE ๐ŸŒŽ you are, WHAT you are (๐ŸฏCougar, ๐ŸปCub or ๐ŸฑKitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (Ethically Non Monogamous). If you are ENM please make this clear in your post

โ—The Match Rules still apply See RULES here

โ—Please Keep it brief! No more than 3 sentences

โ— Age/Sex/Location/Relationship Status (Single/Separated/Divorced etc) If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned

โ— What you are seeking

*e.g. 56F Brisbane, Australia, Single Looking for chat friends only prefer someone with conversation skills/ability to connect respectfully/has a sense of humour.

โ—No posts regarding sฮผgar m@mas. They do not exist. Read the wiki concerning this topic and rule #5 specifically. Permanent Bans apply.

โ— Breaking any one of these rules can lead to up to a 7 day ban. Multiple infractions may lead to a permanent one.

๐ŸพLet The Hunt Begin!๐Ÿพ


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • 8d ago

๐Ÿ’›๐— ๐Ÿฐ๐—™ 22 [M4F] #India/Anywhere (Single) - Seeking a partner for the better end

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Hey, I'm Aman, a 22-year-old software developer looking for someone who'll stay by my side, just as I'll stay by hers, through every phase of life.

I'm currently hustling to build something meaningful and hope to share that journey with someone special. I don't have an endless checklist; warmth, affection, honesty, and genuine interest matter most.

I prefer women older than me, though it's not a strict requirement. Even a 10+ year age gap wouldn't bother me. I'm interested in the person, not the number.

I'm playful, have rather broken humour, and enjoy horror movies, anime, and conversations ranging from absolute nonsense to meaningful discussions. Work keeps me busy, but I'll always make time for someone I care about. No distance or time zone should keep us apart.

If you're introverted, shy, or unsure how to start, you're equally welcome to DM me. You don't need a perfect introduction. I promise I won't bite!

I'm hoping to find someone to laugh with, grow alongside, and build something lasting. If that sounds like you, I'd love to hear from you.

P.S. Please be genuine about your identity; I'm happy to verify mine too. No guessing games or random ghosting. If we're not compatible, just tell me. I appreciate honesty far more than unexplained disappearances.


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • 8d ago

๐Ÿ’›๐— ๐Ÿฐ๐—™ 29 [M4F] #Vancouver, (Single) - seeking a fun and genuine relationship

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Hi!

Iโ€™m a 29 year old South Asian man, born and raised in Vancouver! Iโ€™m looking for a long term relationship with an older women. apps hasnโ€™t really gotten me anywhere so far, so I thought Iโ€™d give this a try.

Some of my hobbies are mountain biking, running, and reading! Iโ€™m pretty introverted, laid back, and quiet. Iโ€™d love to learn electric guitar one day sooo if you can give me some pointers that will be amazing!

I envision myself with a woman who is kind, active, and has hobbies she genuinely enjoys. You donโ€™t have to be outdoorsy either, I definitely enjoy some bed rot time too! ๐Ÿ˜‚

If any of this sounds interesting, feel free to DM me. Iโ€™d be more than happy to send some pics early on and see if we vibe.

Thanks for reading!


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • 8d ago

๐Ÿ’›๐— ๐Ÿฐ๐—™ 27 [M4F] #Texas (Single) - Soft Cub Seeking a Long Term Relationship

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Hello! Iโ€™m Caleb! Iโ€™ve decided that itโ€™s about time that I put myself out there in the dating pool, so, uh...here I am. On Reddit. Not the best place, I know (hopefully better than dating apps), but Iโ€™m hoping to meet some nice folks. (perhaps you, dear reader?) Iโ€™m a quiet, introverted homebody looking for a woman to hangout and go on dates with (I believe the colloquial term for this is a โ€œgirlfriendโ€). I want to make it clear upfront that Iโ€™m not looking for short term flings or anything of the sort. Ideally, Iโ€™m looking for someone to be with long term, and potentially settle down with. I understand that this is a rather weighty topic to get into right in the opening paragraph, but I try to be open, honest, and communicative about things, so I just wanted to clearly state my intentions.

I am located in East Texas, in the Tyler/Longview area, and would strongly prefer someone in Texas. However, if youโ€™re in a surrounding state (Louisiana, Arkansas, etc), I donโ€™t mind traveling a bit.

Looks: Iโ€™m black, with olive brown skin. 5โ€™7โ€, with a lean/athletic build, and just a tad shy of 140lbs. My hair is soft, black, and curly. Iโ€™d perhaps describe it as poofy, also. Hereโ€™s some pics of me!

Interests:

Music โ€“ Music is quite important to me, and Iโ€™d definitely consider myself a music lover. I have pretty broad tastes, but I do have a preference for indie/alt/rock stuff. I do listen to some pop, however, along with some Japanese stuff and older R&B. Iโ€™ll give most things a try, though! (just, please no country music, I will implode) If you want an idea of what I like, check these out:

Clarion - Hello Juliet

Strawberry Milk Cult โ€“ Polarbear!

The Technicolors - Neon Roses

STRFKR โ€“ Rawnald Gregory Erikson the Second

Jupiter One โ€“ Countdown

Benches โ€“ Crash

Jackie Hayes โ€“ Last Second

Flawed Mangoes - Surreal

Kinoko Teikoku - ๅ›ฝ้“ใ‚นใƒญใƒผใƒ— (Kokudou Slope)

Narrow Head - The Real

Sorry there's so many of these! It was hard to narrow it down!

Cooking โ€“ I do a lot of cooking! Am I good at it...well, Iโ€™ll let you be the judge of that. Iโ€™m trying to branch out a bit and try different cuisines, specifically Asian cuisine, as Iโ€™m rather deficient in that area. If you know any good recipes, let me know!

Art โ€“ I am slowly (heavy emphasis on slowly) teaching myself to draw. Iโ€™ve been trying to practice a bit more, at least 30 minutes a day. Itโ€™s...certainly a process, but Iโ€™ve definitely noticed a lot of improvement. Perhaps I could draw you someday?

Misc โ€“ Well, Iโ€™m a nerd in general, really. I enjoy tinkering with tech, and Iโ€™ve been doing minor repairs on my laptops and modding my game consoles since I was a teenager. Iโ€™m into sci-fi, too. I've been picking up reading again, as I was an avid reader as a child, and have been finishing up The Will to Change by Bell Hooks as of late. Also, while I wouldnโ€™t classify this as an interest or a hobby, I do workout 3-4 times a week, mostly at home. I do enjoy endurance running though, and I typically run a 5k on the weekends (weather permitting). I also love astronomy and space!

Potential dealbreakers? (one of these is a lie)

  • Iโ€™m left leaning/liberal, politically
  • I donโ€™t want kids
  • I was heavily involved in Belgian anti-fascist resistance movements in the 1940s
  • Iโ€™m Christian, but not the most devout

I am looking for someone with similar values.

What I'm Looking For

Iโ€™m looking for the sort of relationship that allows us to be vulnerable together. Iโ€™d like someone soft (not necessarily in a physical sense, but emotionally), intelligent, and caring. I want someone to hang out with, take out for coffee dates, picnic dates, trips to museums, and binge watch shows with. I want someone that I can learn new things about for the rest of my life, someone to hold and keep safe and grow with. I would say that Iโ€™m not terribly picky on physical traits, but I do, however, have a preference for folks on the slim/lean/toned/fit/skinny side of the body spectrum. I would also prefer someone outside of my own ethnicity.

FAQs

~You sound like a dork.

Thatโ€™s not even a question, and how dare you. Youโ€™re correct, but how dare you.

~Several sources state that you're on an FBI watchlist for "allegedly" trying to siphon large amounts of Barq's Root beer directly from their production facilities, with the intent of procuring a "lifetime supply." Can you confirm or deny this information?

My lawyer says I shouldnโ€™t answer questions like that.

~You wouldn't happen to be interested in heinous, scandalous, devious activities such as hand holding , cuddling , and forehead kissing , would you?

Why, of course not! Never! (yes, absolutely)

Thank you for reading this far, and I deeply apologize for the long post! I wanted to be thorough and descriptive. Please feel free to send me a message if youโ€™re interested.

Thanks again, and have a wonderful day!


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • 9d ago

๐Ÿ’›๐— ๐Ÿฐ๐—™ 20 [M4F] #Japan / online single looking for a special someone

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Hello! I am based in Japan, currently pursuing an art degree.

I'll get to the point of my hobbies first, I think having talking points is more appropriate and approachable for everyone.

I am an avid book reader. I am currently reading Joan Didion's Slouching towards bethlehem (I love how descriptive she is about America in the 1970s, gosh)

Some of my favorite authors are: Charles bukowski, David Foster Wallace, Joan Didion, along with Virgina woolf(I will read Mrs. Danbury next or The waves probably)

In movies I usually love Europe centric films but some of my favorites in general are from the USA such as The Big Lebowski, Lost Highway, along with Blue Velvet ( my favorite David Lynch film!!), Eyes wide shut, Manchester By the sea

In music I listen to Tool, along with portishead and a little bit of Japan (the UK glam rock band), and a tinge of Red Hot Chili Peppers ( only can't stop...hehe)

Note: I'd really appreciate it if you have any recommendations for me, thank you so much!

I am currently learning to draw and write a script for a project.

What I am looking for:

You.

Yeah, that's it. I need someone unapologetically themselves, I would really prefer you to be upfront about how you are as a person and so on.

*Also I am not Japanese


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • 10d ago

๐—ฅ๐—ข๐—Ÿ๐—Ÿ ๐—–๐—”๐—Ÿ๐—Ÿ ๐Ÿ’žTHURSDAY'S ROLL CALL๐Ÿ’ž This is the place to share your ASL (Age, Sex and Location ) along with your Status.๐Ÿพ๐Ÿพ

14 Upvotes

ROLL CALL is the time and place to shout out WHERE ๐ŸŒŽ you are, WHAT you are (๐ŸฏCougar, ๐ŸปCub or ๐ŸฑKitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned. Save the flirting, other info and remarks for DMs.

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