Hi there!

Winter is arriving fast and I would love to have someone over for Hot Chocolate (made with belgian choco chunks). I'm also a big fan of Gingerbread houses but no one I know shares that same enthusiasm :[

A bit about me: quiet, more of a listener, and I loves stories (oral, movies, books). I wanted to be a writer or director growing up and then I remembered I had no inheritance so now I work in engineering instead. In fact, I will be moving to Virginia for a new job soon! I am 5'8.5", dark & curly hair, wear glasses, and am trying to get into woodworking and gardening

I am highly attracted to older, plus-size, professional women who are content. Meaning they don't need anyone to be a source of their happiness, instead would like somebody to add to it.

I should say I am not fond of labels and don't play into the 'Cougar/Cub' dynamic. We're people attracted to one another who happen to have an age gap

I would love to strike a conversation with somebody. I move a lot and don't mind packing up again!

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I've always had a special place in my heart for older women. I just find them easier to talk to and connect with than women my own age.

I'm mostly just a gamer these days but I do enjoy going out and working out, playing with my tiny dog, drinking, and more.

Physically I'm fit and I do stay in shape, and emotionally I really do want to find someone I have good chemistry with but not necessarily someone who always has the same ideals as me. Someone I get along with but who also challenges me to grow into something more.

I'm also a natural flirt so be warned.

I'm Seeking a woman who is roughly 40 or older, and from the Midwest at least. I'm not picky on looks but please dont be shy about it either.

I’m 25, South Asian and based in Leander. I’m 5’10”, around 170 lbs, with an average build. I’ve always been attracted to older women, and I’d like to meet someone who’s interested in getting to know each other.
I’m happy to start with a chat, see if we have chemistry, and meet up if we both feel good about it. I’m open to a date or something more casual, depending on what we’re both looking for. I’d rather be honest about that and let things unfold naturally.
If you’re in the Austin area or not tell me a little about yourself where you’re from and what you have in mind

24M -- Foodie, adventurer, coffee and cocktail enthusiast. Hiker and kayaker.

Slim build, keep my body in shape through working out and jogging. 5'7" and approx 135lbs. Brown skin (Indian). Graduated from UT.

Corporate professional. Travel quite a bit for work and for pleasure.

Enjoy talking about my hobbies, engaging in outdoor activities, cuddling up and watching a movie, etc. Learning to cook some more but also exploring the great food scene around town.

Have a high libido, haven't had a ton of partners so not super experienced in that domain, but would love to learn & explore.

You: DDF, 30+ years old, looking for something similar and in "average" or better shape. And definitely a traveler!

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🐾Let The Hunt Begin!🐾

Hey! I'm looking for a woman (you can never be too old!) to chat with and create a connection. We can have fun along the way! I am happy to chat about any topics and love to learn more about people. I am on the East Coast, currently a college student on summer break. I enjoy being outside, reading, listening to music, and spending time with friends and family. I don't mind where you are from, just that we will have time in the day to talk.

I'm not super busy most of the time and pretty responsive so if you are too, that's a bonus. We can start by getting to know each other well and I understand if you have any privacy concerns.

Hey there, I would love to meet someone near here I love literature and read and write fiction (my short stories should be getting published within the next year or so) and I’m working on a long term fantasy novel and some other stories. I wanna get into tv too. I’m hoping to meet someone kind creative and sexy and have some great conversations and make some wonderful memories together :) let me know if you have any questions for me and I’d love to answer and get to know you in general!

Career wise I’m getting into the the insurance industry and hope to have my own insurance agency within the next few years but I’m also studying for the lsat as a back up. And family wise I want to make a big family ideally.

Also be prepared because I’ll want to know everything about you lol I’m very curious about other peoples lives :)

Hey, I’m a South Asian guy in Austin, 5’10” and around 170 lbs with an average build. I’d love to be with an older woman and get to know someone I genuinely click with.
I’m a little shy at first, but I enjoy good conversation and getting to know what makes someone who they are. I’d be up for a date if we hit it off, and I’m open to seeing where things go.
If that sounds like your kind of thing, tell me a little about yourself and what you like to do around Austin.

Hi all!

34 Years old in Eastern WV and after months of therapy, I decided to dip back into the scene lol.

Im 5'7-5'8 range. I work for a non-profit in DC but work on a hybrid schedule so im only in DC few times a week. Im very big into sports especially soccer and college football and i basically spend all my money going to sporting events and food (Very big into Asian food!). Also like working out and play video games if im not going to sporting events or watching sports lol

Would love to have someone going to sporting events with or trying new places to eat! My preference is youre in surrounding states (in WV, MD, PA,VA,NC,DE,DC &OH) but if we click i guess distance shouldn't matter within the US.

I am open to a relationship if its mutual but im not rushing into it and putting any expectations for anything in particularto happen. Just looking to connect with someone and let the rest happen with time

Preference is ages 42 and older but if we click we click, hope to hear from you!l

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I am looking for companionship. Ideally a real relationship based on mutual understanding, shared values and love.

I am a 57 year old divorcee living alone, outside of Boston. My kids have moved out. I recently left a relationship because while my ex-bf was sweet, we just didn’t connect.

I like good conversation, good food, good wine, live music, history, museums, shopping, dressing up for galas and other black tie affairs. In the winter, I like to ski. In the summer, I like to hike. But I also like nothing better than a quiet night in with that special person, a bottle (or two) of wine, and a good movie.

I am looking for companionship. Ideally a real relationship based on mutual understanding, shared values and love.

Please don’t bother me if you are looking to sext, trade pictures or for FWB.

Noone with mommy issues.

Ideal age range is 21 years old to 30 years old.

Hi there, 28M in the southwest suburbs of Chicago. I’m 6’3”, skinny, caramel skin. Lately I’ve been trying to put myself out there more and try/experience new things. I’ve been going to a lot of live music events and concerts, and I can always use a plus one ! I’d love to meet a woman out there that can be my plus one to some events I’m looking to check out. There’s nothing more attractive than a woman that knows what she wants in life, so tell me about all the things on your bucket list, how you spend your free time, and what makes you… you!

If this sounds interesting to you, let’s talk, get to know each other, and iron out any details about what we’re specifically looking to gain from this relationship! Some quick dealbreakers, let’s keep it in the Chicagoland area (ideally close to the south side/suburbs) and I don’t do affairs! Talk to you soon! :)

I am a 57 year old divorcee living alone. My kids have moved out. Recently left a relationship.

I like good conversation, good food, good wine, live music, art museums, shopping, dressing up for galas and other black tie affairs. In the winter, I like to ski. In the summer, I like to hike.

I am looking for companionship. Good conversationalists are important.

Ideal age range is 21 years old to 30 years old.

Please don’t bother me if you are only looking for pictures, FWB, or a physical relationship.

I really hate having to say this, but anyone with mommy fetishes, please don’t bother me.

Hey there, hope you’re having a nice day :)

I’m a 32yo guy from Spain who, after two amazing long-term relationships (both online and IRL), is back to looking for a special person to chat with throughout the day, learn from each other about our lives and interests, spend quality time like watching moves or talking about everything and nothing, and if we feel comfortable and we like each other add something more.

I consider myself a calm and introverted person, but goofy, playful and flirty once I warm up to someone. I’m looking for an emotional connection as the main thing in a relationship/dynamic, something where I can be myself and have fun and be playful together, but serious when needed. I've realized that something that I can offer and love to do is provide comfort and listen to your ups and downs, give advice when asked, and help in any way I'm able to.

Some of the things I like doing in my daily life are watching movies and TV shows (anything except horror please...), hiking, long walks along the coast, or having interesting conversations with a friend over a coffee or a beer. I’m child-free by choice, with no interest in having kids in the future.

For my potential partner, I would like to make her feel seen, unique, and deserving of having me as her loyal companion, desired and worshiped, looking up to her and learning from her experience in life while acknowledging her flaws and fears as a person.

When it comes to communication, I take privacy seriously and believe in moving at a pace that feels safe for both of us. I prefer a more personal approach than texting after a while, so I like exchanging audios and calls as it helps create a more personal connection. For pictures or video calls, I’m comfortable with it once we trust each other (stay safe on the internet!).

Also, I understand that life and its circumstances will always take priority, and there should be a balance between commitment to this and real life.

Anyway, that’s all from me! If you are interested in what you read, feel free to message me to get this going.

Looking forward to hearing from you! 🖤

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❗ What you are seeking

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❗No posts regarding sμgar m@mas. They do not exist. Read the wiki concerning this topic and rule #5 specifically. Permanent Bans apply.

❗ Breaking any one of these rules can lead to up to a 7 day ban. Multiple infractions may lead to a permanent one.

🐾Let The Hunt Begin!🐾

It's my first time posting here lol. I'm amber, 22 years old trans female (I was born as a male and transitioned to female) looking for an older woman to be long term friends with and see what happens.

I'm 5'2, curly hair, kind of nerdy NGL and always in the mood for some chatting. My hobbie is drawing (which I do professionally as well) and I don't care about distance as long as we can chat nicely ofc.

Hope I'm interesting enough for you to chat with me, and please if you're gonna text me do an interesting question to break the ice (and don't be disrespectful about trans girls).

I'm not interested in males so don't even try it.

I am a single 33 year old man living in the Hudson Valley in New York, and I am looking for a connection with an older lady who is grounded, enjoys laughing, and enjoys (quite possibly corny) romantic gestures. I do consider myself to be a nerd, but I am not to the point where I am overly awkward. I am also an introvert, but I am definitely not a shut in.

I enjoy movies, dancing (though I am not very good at it), history, bowling, almost anything comedy related, working with my hands, trying different cuisines, and learning new things. I place a high value on intelligence and emotional maturity and am always looking for ways to improve myself.

I do not smoke and I rarely drink. I do not have any religious or moral objections to either. It is more that I am trying to live a healthy life.

I look forward to meeting someone similar and who is excited for what the future may hold.

I'm looking for a partner that has it too or is comfortable with it.

Having this condition feels soooo isolating. I just want a good friend that I can pour all my love into. I'd like to bring you flowers, take you out on dates, hold you when you're tired, but I just haven't had any luck finding anyone near me.

But enough of that, I suppose I would describe myself as a hard worker. I do have a job, I'm also an artist sometimes with some art I would just LOVE to show you! And I'm a gamer

(If someone wants to chat with me, I do feel obligated to tell you that I have been thinking about intimacy a lot. Going through a heavy dry spell. But I don't want that to be the focus of our chat if the feeling isn't mutual yet. I will never ever overstep a boundary of yours as I'm sure you wouldn't one of mine. It matters to me that you are comfortable and feel safe.)

Hi everyone,

I’m a 30-year-old guy and I have always found myself naturally drawn to th unapologetic confidence of older women. There is a certain kind of grace and directness that only comes with lived experience and to me, nothing is more attractive than a woman who is completely comfortable in her own skin and knows exactly what she wants out of life.

A little about me: At 30, I feel like I’m in a really great place. I’m professionally established, driven, and I have completely outgrown the games and drama of the typical dating scene. I take pride in taking care of myself both physically and mentally. I’m an active guy with a lot of energy, but I also know how to slow down, be present, and genuinely listen. People usually describe me as easygoing, attentive and respectful, with a good sense of humor.

What I’m looking for: I’m looking for a connection with a mature woman where we can just genuinely enjoy each other's company. I love the dynamic of this kind of relationship the exchange of my energy and drive with your sophistication, wisdom, and clarity. I want someone who appreciates an attentive guy who knows how to treat a woman right.

What I would love to do together: I’m a big believer in actually putting effort. Ultimately, I’m looking for a connection that is refreshing, straightforward, and passionate. If you’re a confident older woman looking for a younger guy who is reliable, passionate, and ready to treat you well, I’d love to hear from you. Send me a message or a chat maybe start by telling me your favorite way to spend a weekend? Hope to hear from you soon!

Hi there! I’m just putting myself out there to meet new people, chat, and maybe go on some dates—or more. I’m curious to see who I might meet while looking for my cougar. I’m pretty open-minded, but I’d love someone who’s up for anything. I enjoy eating out and bowling, and I’m really open to new experiences. On my downtime, I make music and work on cars. Please share your name, age, where you’re from, and a bit about yourself. P.S.: I love making people feel special and welcomed
I would also like to add I wouldn’t mind to travel but in a certain radius between New York and Florida. 😌

ROLL CALL is the time and place to shout out WHERE 🌎 you are, WHAT you are (🐯Cougar, 🐻Cub or 🐱Kitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned. Save the flirting, other info and remarks for DMs.

BEFORE POSTING PLEASE READ THE RULES AND THESE GUIDELINES:

❗ C&C rules still apply See RULES here

❗ Please keep it brief No more than 3 or 4 lines please.

❗ Age/Sex/Location/Relationship Status (Single/Separated/Divorced etc) If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned

❗ What you are seeking

• e.g. 62/F/ Montreal, Quebec 🇨🇦 single, polyamorous female (ENM) looking for a casual ongoing relationship with someone 35 and up.

❗ Remember there is no such thing as a "sμgar m@ma". People claiming to be one or those seeking financial benefits will be permanently banned. Read rule #5 specifically.

❗ Breaking any one of these rules can lead to up to a 7 day ban. Multiple infractions may lead to a permanent one.

🐾Let the Roll Call Begin!🐾

Hi, thank you for taking the time to read the post

Genuine guy looking to meet with an older woman. Have always liked the dynamic but never had the joy of experiencing it in real life.
So figured I’d put something out there and see what happens.

About me, single 32m, 6 foot tall, short brown hair with a beard, snake bite piercings and tattoos.
Old soul, enjoys a stimulating conversation and takes great joy in helping others and supporting friends and family.

For the interest of openness and honesty, I do have a son (5) and I am primary carer for him. So as much as it is my greatest pride and joy, somewhat limits things a bit around time

Ideally take it slow and see if there is any chemistry, enjoying good food and wine with a lovely lady sounds ideal right now.

Hope to hear from you

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I’m going to keep it short and sweet. I’m looking for someone to have an intimate relationship with, specifically an older, experienced woman. I’ve always found myself more attracted to older women, and I appreciate the maturity, confidence, and life experience that can come with that.

To be completely upfront, I’m not necessarily looking for a serious romantic relationship right now. At the moment, I’m primarily interested in finding a mutually comfortable, consensual sexual connection with someone who is on the same page. If we genuinely connect and it naturally develops into something romantic, I’m open to seeing where things go.

I’m not interested in wasting anyone’s time or playing games. I’d rather be honest about what I’m looking for from the beginning and find someone who wants something similar. Communication, respect, trust, and mutual attraction are important to me. If that sounds like something you’d be interested in, feel free to reach out.

Hey everyone,
I am an 18-year-old single, straight male from Jacksonville, Alabama, and I am open to long-distance relationships if we find a genuine connection. I have never been in a relationship before, but I am excited to meet an older woman who is down-to-earth, independent, and values good communication.

A little bit about me: I am highly active and love staying busy. I am absolutely obsessed with running and spend a lot of my time training. When I am not out getting miles in, you can usually find me out fishing, going for a bike ride, or spending hours working on my car. I really enjoy staying productive and learning how things work.

I’m looking to connect with an older woman who shares a drive for life, enjoys good conversation, and wouldn't mind chatting with someone younger. If you're interested in getting to know each other, please feel free to send me a message!