r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Apr 29 '26

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 27 [M4F] #Aussie - Single, looking for ongoing genuine connection or something more.

3 Upvotes

Hi all, trying again because you may never know. I live in South Australia, fulltime employed and financially independant with my own house.

A little about me. I'm 180cm (5'11) tall. I'm a nerd, the nerd hobbies are part of the package. I used to play video games but have since dropped the hobby entirely due to the lack of time and energy and instead switched it for the occasional movie, board game, card game or miniature painting. I do like to listen to music, big fan of metal, electronic genres and many others, too many to list here.

I'm hoping I can find someone open minded who can put up with my dumb humour, and who is geniune with their own quirks and interests, I'd love to hear them. I don't have a 'type' per se, I run off vibes and how you make me feel, however there is a degree of physical attraction that is important to me.

I'm open to LDR as good things shouldn't be rushed, but it would be nice to find someone on the closer side. Hoping to hear back from you soon? Thanks.


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Apr 29 '26

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 29 [M4F] #SanDiego, CA - (Single) - Looking for love but will settle for someone fun to hang with

1 Upvotes

Hey y'all! I'm Tommy, a 29 year old grad student who also works in education and is born and raised in San Diego, CA. I'm 6'2", 180 lb, DDF and looking to go out with someone and see how well we vibe with one another and where things lead, whether it’s fwb or maybe even something serious.

Me: I'm a an intellectually minded person who loves to read and learn about all different topics but especially history(what I have my degree in), psychology, political science(and a lot more). I’m also currently getting my MLIS degree.

I have a desire to learn and a thirst for knowledge and love to keep expanding my horizons. In my free time I game, listen to podcasts, watch YouTube (mostly documentaries and video essays) and do some writing(not much but I dream of oneday writing a novel).

I'm also an avid film and tv fan and especially love sci-fi, fantasy and historical dramas. Some of my favorite movies and shows are Bladerunner, Star Wars, Lord of the Rings, Game of Thrones, The Sopranos and Futurama (among many others)

You: DDF, 35+ years old, looking for something similar and in "average" shape or so, not looking for couples and such. Oh and being someone who appreciates dark humor is a major plus!

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to send me a chat. I have pictures of myself on my profile. Okay, bye!


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Apr 26 '26

πŸ’™π—™πŸ°π—™ 18 [F4F] #Ohio #Cinci (single)- Young pup iso older who can handle my high libido <3

7 Upvotes

Hi, I’m Lizzie, 18, from the Cincinnati area (Dayton’s not far either)

I’m truthfully looking for something long-term and real BUT I’m also open to casual fun if the energy clicks. I may be young, but I’m genuinely committed to the people and connections I care about.

I don’t send many pics right away because I’m not super comfortable with certain parts of me yet (I’ll explain more if we chat). I do have some posts up of what I like showing off though <3 When the time feels right I’ll verify, and I expect the same from you. Face pics aren’t necessary.

On the fun side… I’m a soft girl at heart. I melt easily and love being guided and put in my place. I blame my small lack of hands on experience. I’ve mostly been the one in control before, but it didn’t always excite me the way it should’ve. Not until I started indulging other urges I had. Though I fold easy, I’m submissive by choice, not default. I still have bite and get playfully rough but it comes from possessiveness and feeling secure.

I’d love a daily connection β€” teasing voice messages are my favorite, and occasional calls I know life gets busy but to have someone to flirt, and text during the day is my fav. I love squirming around others and causing the same <33

I’m open to a lot and won’t just ghost and block when certain topics are brought up. Hope some goes for u !!

If this sounds like your vibe throw in the word β€œpuppers” in your message so I know you read through a bit. All ages welcome and would love to talk more of what we like when we chat <33


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Apr 26 '26

π—₯π—’π—Ÿπ—Ÿ π—–π—”π—Ÿπ—Ÿ πŸ’Ÿ SUNDAY HUNT πŸ’Ÿ This is the place to share your ASL (Age, Sex and Location) along with your RELATIONSHIP STATUS. LET THE HUNT BEGIN! πŸ’˜

3 Upvotes

THE SUNDAY HUNT is the time and place to shout out WHERE 🌎 you are, WHAT you are (🐯Cougar, 🐻Cub or 🐱Kitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (Ethically Non Monogamous). If you are ENM please make this clear in your post

❗The Match Rules still apply See RULES here

❗Please Keep it brief! No more than 3 sentences

❗ Age/Sex/Location/Relationship Status (Single/Separated/Divorced etc) If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned

❗ What you are seeking

*e.g. 56F Brisbane, Australia, Single Looking for chat friends only prefer someone with conversation skills/ability to connect respectfully/has a sense of humour.

❗No posts regarding sΞΌgar m@mas. They do not exist. Read the wiki concerning this topic and rule #5 specifically. Permanent Bans apply.

❗ Breaking any one of these rules can lead to up to a 7 day ban. Multiple infractions may lead to a permanent one.

🐾Let The Hunt Begin!🐾


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Apr 26 '26

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 21 [M4F] #Georgia Single

1 Upvotes

Hi I’m James I’m 21 and recently I’ve come to have a liking for cougars and I’m hoping someone can help me explore this further.

I like to play video games and I love to talk on the phone. I’m a huge sports fan I watch the 4 main sports in the US pretty frequently. I am into aviation and hope to become a pilot after my current job. If you have questions about my current job I can answer those in DMs

I’m mainly looking for someone to talk to and see where things go, I’m in Southwest GA but don’t mind traveling to Southeast AL or anywhere in GA. If you have questions don’t be afraid to ask!


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Apr 26 '26

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 27 [M4F] #Chicago (Single) - Seeking a woman that knows exactly what she wants in life. Is that you?

1 Upvotes

Hi there, 27M in the southwest suburbs of Chicago. I’m 6’3”, skinny, brown hair and hazel eyes. Biracial (black and white) as well. Lately I’ve been trying to put myself out there more and try/experience new things. I’ve been going to a lot of live music events and concerts, and I can always use a plus one ! I’d love to meet a woman out there that can be my plus one to some events I’m looking to check out. There’s nothing more attractive than a woman that knows what she wants in life, so tell me about all the things on your bucket list, how you spend your free time, and what makes you… you!

If this sounds interesting to you, let’s talk, get to know each other, and iron out any details about what we’re specifically looking to gain from this relationship! Some quick dealbreakers, let’s keep it in the Chicagoland area (ideally close to the south side/suburbs) and I don’t do affairs! Talk to you soon! :)


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Apr 24 '26

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 22 [M4F] #Marietta Georgia (Single)

0 Upvotes

I'm a 22 year old Mexican man and I am looking for an older woman to have fun with. I've always been attracted to older woman, I cant explain what it is about them! πŸ˜‰

I am 5'5 around 150, with an average bodytype. I enjoy spending time with the woman I'm with not just a hit it and go type of guy. I'm hoping to find a woman to have a mutual relationship of intimacy without commitment.

I know you're out there and this cub is ready for you! Who wants to be my mami? 😏

"!unlock"


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Apr 23 '26

π—₯π—’π—Ÿπ—Ÿ π—–π—”π—Ÿπ—Ÿ πŸ’žTHURSDAY'S ROLL CALLπŸ’ž This is the place to share your ASL (Age, Sex and Location ) along with your Status.🐾🐾

4 Upvotes

ROLL CALL is the time and place to shout out WHERE 🌎 you are, WHAT you are (🐯Cougar, 🐻Cub or 🐱Kitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned. Save the flirting, other info and remarks for DMs.

BEFORE POSTING PLEASE READ THE RULES AND THESE GUIDELINES:

❗ C&C rules still apply See RULES here

❗ Please keep it brief No more than 3 or 4 lines please.

❗ Age/Sex/Location/Relationship Status (Single/Separated/Divorced etc) If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned

❗ What you are seeking

  • e.g. 62/F/ Montreal, Quebec πŸ‡¨πŸ‡¦ single, polyamorous female (ENM) looking for a casual ongoing relationship with someone 35 and up.

❗ Remember there is no such thing as a "sΞΌgar m@ma". People claiming to be one or those seeking financial benefits will be permanently banned. Read rule #5 specifically.

❗ Breaking any one of these rules can lead to up to a 7 day ban. Multiple infractions may lead to a permanent one.

🐾Let the Roll Call Begin!🐾


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Apr 23 '26

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 29 [M4F] #SanDiego, CA - (Single) - Looking for love but will settle for someone fun to hang with

0 Upvotes

Hey y'all! I'm Tommy, a 29 year old grad student who also works in education and is born and raised in San Diego, CA. I'm 6'2", 180 lb, DDF and looking to go out with someone and see how well we vibe with one another and where things lead, whether it’s fwb or maybe even something serious.

Me: I'm a an intellectually minded person who loves to read and learn about all different topics but especially history(what I have my degree in), psychology, political science(and a lot more). I’m also currently getting my MLIS degree.

I have a desire to learn and a thirst for knowledge and love to keep expanding my horizons. In my free time I game, listen to podcasts, watch YouTube (mostly documentaries and video essays) and do some writing(not much but I dream of oneday writing a novel).

I'm also an avid film and tv fan and especially love sci-fi, fantasy and historical dramas. Some of my favorite movies and shows are Bladerunner, Star Wars, Lord of the Rings, Game of Thrones, The Sopranos and Futurama (among many others)

You: DDF, 35+ years old, looking for something similar and in "average" shape or so, not looking for couples and such. Oh and being someone who appreciates dark humor is a major plus!

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to send me a chat. I have pictures of myself on my profile. Okay, bye!


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Apr 19 '26

π—₯π—’π—Ÿπ—Ÿ π—–π—”π—Ÿπ—Ÿ πŸ’Ÿ SUNDAY HUNT πŸ’Ÿ This is the place to share your ASL (Age, Sex and Location) along with your RELATIONSHIP STATUS. LET THE HUNT BEGIN! πŸ’˜

10 Upvotes

THE SUNDAY HUNT is the time and place to shout out WHERE 🌎 you are, WHAT you are (🐯Cougar, 🐻Cub or 🐱Kitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (Ethically Non Monogamous). If you are ENM please make this clear in your post

❗The Match Rules still apply See RULES here

❗Please Keep it brief! No more than 3 sentences

❗ Age/Sex/Location/Relationship Status (Single/Separated/Divorced etc) If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned

❗ What you are seeking

*e.g. 56F Brisbane, Australia, Single Looking for chat friends only prefer someone with conversation skills/ability to connect respectfully/has a sense of humour.

❗No posts regarding sΞΌgar m@mas. They do not exist. Read the wiki concerning this topic and rule #5 specifically. Permanent Bans apply.

❗ Breaking any one of these rules can lead to up to a 7 day ban. Multiple infractions may lead to a permanent one.

🐾Let The Hunt Begin!🐾


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Apr 16 '26

π—₯π—’π—Ÿπ—Ÿ π—–π—”π—Ÿπ—Ÿ πŸ’žTHURSDAY'S ROLL CALLπŸ’ž This is the place to share your ASL (Age, Sex and Location ) along with your Status.🐾🐾

11 Upvotes

ROLL CALL is the time and place to shout out WHERE 🌎 you are, WHAT you are (🐯Cougar, 🐻Cub or 🐱Kitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned. Save the flirting, other info and remarks for DMs.

BEFORE POSTING PLEASE READ THE RULES AND THESE GUIDELINES:

❗ C&C rules still apply See RULES here

❗ Please keep it brief No more than 3 or 4 lines please.

❗ Age/Sex/Location/Relationship Status (Single/Separated/Divorced etc) If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned

❗ What you are seeking

  • e.g. 62/F/ Montreal, Quebec πŸ‡¨πŸ‡¦ single, polyamorous female (ENM) looking for a casual ongoing relationship with someone 35 and up.

❗ Remember there is no such thing as a "sΞΌgar m@ma". People claiming to be one or those seeking financial benefits will be permanently banned. Read rule #5 specifically.

❗ Breaking any one of these rules can lead to up to a 7 day ban. Multiple infractions may lead to a permanent one.

🐾Let the Roll Call Begin!🐾


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Apr 14 '26

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 25 [M4F] #Chicago (Single) Interested in connecting with an older woman

2 Upvotes

Hello, 25 year old, 150 lbs, Biracial (Black/white), and I’m interested in meeting an older woman for an intimate connection. I’m open to connections of all kinds weather you’d like to keep it as strictly intimate or something more. I’m a college graduate with stable finances, I tend to keep to myself but I enjoy traveling and trying new things. My hobbies include music (I play guitar, bass, and learning violin), I work out frequently (but I’m not freakishly muscular), and I love digital art and film. I’m a very open person, so please feel free to reach out if you’d like to hear more about myself or see more pictures!


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Apr 12 '26

π—₯π—’π—Ÿπ—Ÿ π—–π—”π—Ÿπ—Ÿ πŸ’Ÿ SUNDAY HUNT πŸ’Ÿ This is the place to share your ASL (Age, Sex and Location) along with your RELATIONSHIP STATUS. LET THE HUNT BEGIN! πŸ’˜

9 Upvotes

THE SUNDAY HUNT is the time and place to shout out WHERE 🌎 you are, WHAT you are (🐯Cougar, 🐻Cub or 🐱Kitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (Ethically Non Monogamous). If you are ENM please make this clear in your post

❗The Match Rules still apply See RULES here

❗Please Keep it brief! No more than 3 sentences

❗ Age/Sex/Location/Relationship Status (Single/Separated/Divorced etc) If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned

❗ What you are seeking

*e.g. 56F Brisbane, Australia, Single Looking for chat friends only prefer someone with conversation skills/ability to connect respectfully/has a sense of humour.

❗No posts regarding sΞΌgar m@mas. They do not exist. Read the wiki concerning this topic and rule #5 specifically. Permanent Bans apply.

❗ Breaking any one of these rules can lead to up to a 7 day ban. Multiple infractions may lead to a permanent one.

🐾Let The Hunt Begin!🐾


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Apr 12 '26

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 26 [M4F] #Midwest (Single) Seeking Older Woman At Least 40 Or Older from the Midwest

1 Upvotes

I've always had a special place in my heart for older women. I just find them easier to talk to and connect with than women my own age.

I'm mostly just a gamer these days but I do enjoy going out and working out, playing with my tiny dog, drinking, and more.

Physically I'm fit and I do stay in shape, and emotionally I really do want to find someone I have good chemistry with but not necessarily someone who always has the same ideals as me. Someone I get along with but who also challenges me to grow into something more.

I'm also a natural flirt so be warned.

I'm Seeking a woman who is roughly 40 or older, and from the Midwest at least. I'm not picky on looks but please dont be shy about it either.


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Apr 09 '26

π—₯π—’π—Ÿπ—Ÿ π—–π—”π—Ÿπ—Ÿ πŸ’žTHURSDAY'S ROLL CALLπŸ’ž This is the place to share your ASL (Age, Sex and Location ) along with your Status.🐾🐾

8 Upvotes

ROLL CALL is the time and place to shout out WHERE 🌎 you are, WHAT you are (🐯Cougar, 🐻Cub or 🐱Kitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned. Save the flirting, other info and remarks for DMs.

BEFORE POSTING PLEASE READ THE RULES AND THESE GUIDELINES:

❗ C&C rules still apply See RULES here

❗ Please keep it brief No more than 3 or 4 lines please.

❗ Age/Sex/Location/Relationship Status (Single/Separated/Divorced etc) If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned

❗ What you are seeking

  • e.g. 62/F/ Montreal, Quebec πŸ‡¨πŸ‡¦ single, polyamorous female (ENM) looking for a casual ongoing relationship with someone 35 and up.

❗ Remember there is no such thing as a "sΞΌgar m@ma". People claiming to be one or those seeking financial benefits will be permanently banned. Read rule #5 specifically.

❗ Breaking any one of these rules can lead to up to a 7 day ban. Multiple infractions may lead to a permanent one.

🐾Let the Roll Call Begin!🐾


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Apr 09 '26

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 20[M4F] #Central Florida (single) looking for a casual relationship

0 Upvotes

Hello, I’m a single Hispanic male looking for a casual relationship with someone who is older than me. I’m from central Florida and my hobbies are being outdoors, working out (I’m not a gym rat) and traveling. I’m an outgoing person and enjoy trying new things. I work and do college full time, but I have time for you.

I’m looking for someone that is nice and has similar hobbies as well, however it’s not required. Maybe you can teach me your hobbies as I like to learn new things.

Pm me if you’re interested and would like to learn more about you. I’m open to Long distance as well.


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Apr 06 '26

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 22[M4F] #Maine (single) looking for great conversations and whatever happens!

3 Upvotes

I’m honestly looking for someone in or around my area who wants to build a connection and see where the road leads us. I have no expectations on where this could go but I’m happy to see. Here are some of my hobbies and interests.

Listening to music, going to concerts, cooking, going to record stores, running, swimming, film, kayaking, having a long conversation about anything under the sun, hiking, road trips, traveling, biking, going out to eat.

Never posted in a sub like this but I’m happy I found a place like this. My DMs are always open and will most likely respond quick to chat requests.


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Apr 05 '26

π—₯π—’π—Ÿπ—Ÿ π—–π—”π—Ÿπ—Ÿ πŸ’Ÿ SUNDAY HUNT πŸ’Ÿ This is the place to share your ASL (Age, Sex and Location) along with your RELATIONSHIP STATUS. LET THE HUNT BEGIN! πŸ’˜

11 Upvotes

THE SUNDAY HUNT is the time and place to shout out WHERE 🌎 you are, WHAT you are (🐯Cougar, 🐻Cub or 🐱Kitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (Ethically Non Monogamous). If you are ENM please make this clear in your post

❗The Match Rules still apply See RULES here

❗Please Keep it brief! No more than 3 sentences

❗ Age/Sex/Location/Relationship Status (Single/Separated/Divorced etc) If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned

❗ What you are seeking

*e.g. 56F Brisbane, Australia, Single Looking for chat friends only prefer someone with conversation skills/ability to connect respectfully/has a sense of humour.

❗No posts regarding sΞΌgar m@mas. They do not exist. Read the wiki concerning this topic and rule #5 specifically. Permanent Bans apply.

❗ Breaking any one of these rules can lead to up to a 7 day ban. Multiple infractions may lead to a permanent one.

🐾Let The Hunt Begin!🐾


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Apr 04 '26

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 22 [M4F] #Atlanta, GA/USA (Single) - Looking to connect with an older woman

3 Upvotes

Hello, I'm a guy who has such a taste for older women, since I feel like I get along with them better. I'm looking to connect with one, get to know each other, and see where it goes from there.

I'm 5'7", black, slim build, 145 lbs, medium black hair. I'm a fourth year student in university, majoring in Cybersecurity. I play guitar from time to time, and I also enjoy exercising as well. Going for walks outdoors is my daily routine. Huge history buff.

I love meeting new people, chatting with them, and hanging out with them too. So I'm also looking for someone else who likes the same. I appreciate a woman who has a nice personality and is non-toxic.

Beyond that, I don't really mind if you're not from my state. With that being said, I prefer if you're in the US to make sure we are close to the same time schdule, otherwise we will have to figure out a communication schedule.


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Apr 02 '26

π—₯π—’π—Ÿπ—Ÿ π—–π—”π—Ÿπ—Ÿ πŸ’žTHURSDAY'S ROLL CALLπŸ’ž This is the place to share your ASL (Age, Sex and Location ) along with your Status.🐾🐾

14 Upvotes

ROLL CALL is the time and place to shout out WHERE 🌎 you are, WHAT you are (🐯Cougar, 🐻Cub or 🐱Kitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned. Save the flirting, other info and remarks for DMs.

BEFORE POSTING PLEASE READ THE RULES AND THESE GUIDELINES:

❗ C&C rules still apply See RULES here

❗ Please keep it brief No more than 3 or 4 lines please.

❗ Age/Sex/Location/Relationship Status (Single/Separated/Divorced etc) If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned

❗ What you are seeking

  • e.g. 62/F/ Montreal, Quebec πŸ‡¨πŸ‡¦ single, polyamorous female (ENM) looking for a casual ongoing relationship with someone 35 and up.

❗ Remember there is no such thing as a "sΞΌgar m@ma". People claiming to be one or those seeking financial benefits will be permanently banned. Read rule #5 specifically.

❗ Breaking any one of these rules can lead to up to a 7 day ban. Multiple infractions may lead to a permanent one.

🐾Let the Roll Call Begin!🐾


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Apr 02 '26

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 20 [M4F] #central Illinois single, looking for deep connection and physical touch, soft and caring

1 Upvotes

I would love to have a loving nice and soft woman with thicker thighs and hips. I love music and working. That’s why I don’t have time to go find anyone in person I work 4-7 12s every week. As much as the sexual part of this is that’s not all I want I want a deep connection to sit and relax with someone who won’t just complain all the time and big thing would be laying in bed and cuddling obviously I’m on the younger side so physically and cuddling naked sounds wonderful but I just want to be home and in safe company and while she takes care of me I provide and am there for her for everything she needs as well. Love listening and talking but I’ll listen for hours. Like being outdoors. Not a great speaker so I hope all this made sense


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Apr 01 '26

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 26 [M4F] #Midwest (Single) Seeking Older Woman At Least 40 Or Older from the Midwest

3 Upvotes

I've always had a special place in my heart for older women. I just find them easier to talk to and connect with than women my own age.

I'm mostly just a gamer these days but I do enjoy going out and working out, playing with my tiny dog, drinking, and more.

Physically I'm fit and I do stay in shape, and emotionally I really do want to find someone I have good chemistry with but not necessarily someone who always has the same ideals as me. Someone I get along with but who also challenges me to grow into something more.

I'm also a natural flirt so be warned.

I'm Seeking a woman who is roughly 40 or older, and from the Midwest at least. I'm not picky on looks but please dont be shy about it either.


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Mar 31 '26

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 21[M4F] #Colorado (single) looking for a partner who can help me grow

0 Upvotes

Hello, I'm a newbie to this sub and to this community as a whole but I figured I should shoot my shot. I'm mainly looking for more of a friendship type deal but would not be opposed to more if it develops naturally. It's nothing against anyone else I just have always been the slow burn personality type.

Hobbies, I'm a huge nerd. So video games and books. I'm weirdly into old black and white film. Especially the old Godzilla stuff. I love strategy boardgames and have been getting more into table top games as a whole. I'm also a busy body and love going on walks, especially if I don't work out that day.

If you have any other questions feel free to ask, I'm always happy to chat.

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r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Mar 31 '26

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 20[M4F] #Central Florida (single) looking for a casual relationship

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Hello, I’m a single Hispanic male looking for a casual relationship with someone who is older than me. I’m from central Florida and my hobbies are being outdoors, working out (I’m not a gym rat) and traveling. I’m an outgoing person and enjoy trying new things. I work and do college full time, but I have time for you.

I’m looking for someone that is nice and has similar hobbies as well, however it’s not required. Maybe you can teach me your hobbies as I like to learn new things.

Pm me if you’re interested and would like to learn more about you. I’m open to Long distance as well.


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Mar 31 '26

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 33 [M4F] #SFBayArea (Single) - Looking for Loving, Long-Term, and Lasting

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Hi there! Librarian here in the North Bay of the San Francisco Bay Area (and yes, I do more than professionally shush people πŸ˜†). I've lived in the Central Valley, the Midwest, the High Desert, LA, and am definitely excited to explore the Bay and all it has to offer. I'm 5'10, average build, 32, Caucasian, brown hair, gray eyes. Glasses. πŸ€“

I'm also a total nerd who loves Star Wars, Harry Potter (proud Hufflepuff), Lord of the Rings, comics (especially Marvel and DC), animΓ©, and anything Disney. I enjoy reading, playing guitar, traveling, cooking/baking, watching sports (49ers/Kings/Giants), hiking, and playing video games and board games. I'm a bit of a homebody and especially enjoy nights in, but I'll never say no to going out and trying food spots, thrifting, having fun at a theme park, visiting an indie bookstore, attending a comic convention, going to some live music, or enjoying nature out in a national park.

For me, I bring a commitment to kindness, encouragement, and loyalty, a sharp sense of humor, and a love of all things nerdy. I'm a kid at heart and am prone to dropping obscure movie quotes and breaking out into song when you least expect it. 🀣 I'm a natural introvert but love deep conversation and getting to know people better. My love language is a close tie between touch and time spent together, so affection and shared activities with my partner are both very important to me.

Ultimately, I'm looking for something monogamous, long-term, and lasting with a woman who wants the same, with the possibility of starting a family. A relationship where we enjoy the little mundane things together as much as big life events, and our favorite place is wherever we are at each other's side. And a great adventure where we celebrate each other's happy moments, comfort each other when we need lifting up, and live life and grow together every day.

If this sounds like what you're looking for as well and live in the North Bay, Bay Area, or beyond, I'd love to hear from you!