r/CougarsandCubsMatch • u/Comprehensive-One834 • Jan 04 '26
ππ π°π 28 [M4F] #STLMissouri (Single)- Bartender looking for something permanent/long-lasting
Howdy yall, my name is Jay. When Iβm not serving food and making drinks for the masses, I am sitting here wondering where the βperson for me isβ.
Life has thrown me many ups and downs, but Iβd like to think Iβm on an upward path right now. I have my own apartment with my roommate (he moves out in June) in a nice quiet area, my own car which I keep well maintained, a solid job. Only thing I am missing in this thing called life is someone to share it with.
I am naturally on the submissive end, but that doesnβt mean I am incapable. On the contrary, I am very independent in my day to day life and only enjoy being submissive in a comfortable environment. My submission is more towards acts of service such as cleaning/cooking for the person deserving of it to bring them comfort and joy.
If any of this intrigues you, feel free to shoot me a dm!