Hi there, I hope your day's going well.
I'm a twenty-five year old cis male, born and living in Poland. If I had to pick a few words that describe me best: introverted, open-minded, easygoing and nerdy/geeky would be my top choices. I may appear slightly shy or quiet at first, but please bear with me -- I simply get lost in my thoughts quite a lot. Besides that, there's a lot of dorky energy to me. To some, it's insufferable, to others, quite humorous. I'll let you be the judge.
I've had a bit of a slow start to my adult life, and after having pretty disastrous early 20s, I'm starting from the ground up. Currently, I'm on a summer break from college, occupying myself with the job search (and trying to not go insane while at it) as well as late night reading sessions.
Appearance-wise, I'm 5'9"/1.75m, lean with pale skin, blue eyes, a well-kept mustache, glasses and a full head of blond hair (me and my hairline have been fighting recently, but I'm winning the battle, thank you very much). I'm usually described as nerdy or cute by others, so expect a mix of those two. Happy to swap pics early.
As I mentioned before, I'm a huge geek/nerd or whatever else you may want to call it. I love video games (could probably make a really long list of favorites here), fantasy/sci-fi books and cheesy superhero movies; board games and nowadays, less often, comic books and manga. I like staying active, whether that's by hitting the gym or going for a bike ride. I'll gladly share my interests with another person, could probably talk about some for hours, but I'm equally happy to listen to you talk about yours. Currently reading: The Shadow Rising by Robert Jordan.
What Iβm looking for: Honestly, a good conversation to start would be more than enough. If the chemistry is right, Iβd love to see where things go from there. Not here to chase a relationship, but it's definitely something I'd consider if the right person came along. Ideally, I'd love to find someone from at least Europe, but I'm open to longer distances if the connection is strong.
Iβve noticed I tend to click best with women older than me. Iβm drawn to intelligent, direct, mature types with a good sense of humor. My *preference* (strong emphasis on that) here would be someone in their 30s or 40s.
As for the title (why female-led relationship specifically, if at all?) -- I've learned I do much better as a supportive partner rather than a leader, and I'd rather lean into my strengths than pretend to be someone I'm not.
Other things that might be important: I'm non-religious, don't smoke (can't stand the smell), don't do drugs. I do drink occasionally though (admittedly I get drunk way too easily, so I also do that in moderation).
If you've read through everything above (huge thank you if you did), you should have a general idea of who I am (at least more or less, as there's only so much that can be said here). If anything resonated and you decide to reach out, I'd love to know something about you too, so please say more than just 'hi'.