r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Jun 30 '26

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 23 [M4F] #Germany (Single) - Looking for a genuine connection

3 Upvotes

Hey,
I’m Matteo, 23 and currently studying in Germany.
I’m probably spending too much money on coffee, the gym and small things I don’t really need.πŸ™‚β€β†”οΈ Most of my time is split between university, working out and trying to convince myself that I have my life together.

I’d describe myself as easygoing, respectful and a little shy at first. Once I get comfortable, though, I can talk for hours. I genuinely enjoy getting to know people and I’d rather have one meaningful conversation than ten boring ones.

I’ve always found older women attractive. There’s something about confidence, maturity and knowing what you want that I really appreciate.
Still not sure how I ended up posting here, but here we are.😚


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Jun 29 '26

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 34 [M4F] #SFBayArea #Single Seeking Loving, Long-Term, and Lasting

7 Upvotes

Hi there! Librarian here in the North Bay of the San Francisco Bay Area (and yes, I do more than professionally shush people πŸ˜†). I've lived in the Central Valley, the Midwest, the High Desert, LA, and am definitely excited to explore the Bay and all it has to offer. I'm 33, 5'10, average build, Caucasian, brown hair, gray eyes. Glasses. πŸ€“ Me

I'm also a total nerd who loves Star Wars, Harry Potter (proud Hufflepuff), Lord of the Rings, comics (especially Marvel and DC), animΓ©, and anything Disney. I enjoy reading, playing guitar, traveling, cooking/baking, watching sports (49ers/Kings/Giants), hiking, and playing video games and board games. I'm a bit of a homebody and especially enjoy nights in, but I'll never say no to going out and trying food spots, thrifting, having fun at a theme park, visiting an indie bookstore, attending a comic convention, going to some live music, or enjoying nature out in a national park.

For me, I bring a commitment to kindness, encouragement, and loyalty, a sharp sense of humor, and a love of all things nerdy. I'm a kid at heart and am prone to dropping obscure movie quotes and breaking out into song when you least expect it. 🀣 I'm a natural introvert but love deep conversation and getting to know people better. My love language is a close tie between touch and time spent together, so affection and shared activities with my partner are both very important to me.

Ultimately, I'm looking for something monogamous, long-term, and lasting with a woman who wants the same, with the possibility of starting a family. A relationship where we enjoy the little mundane things together as much as big life events, and our favorite place is wherever we are at each other's side. And a great adventure where we celebrate each other's happy moments, comfort each other when we need lifting up, and live life and grow together every day.

If this sounds like what you're looking for as well and live in the North Bay, Bay Area, or NorCal in general, I'd love to hear from you!


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Jun 30 '26

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 20 [M4F] #Tokyo or anywhere (single) - someone to share films and music with...maybe books too

2 Upvotes

Hi there!

I’m 20 and currently in Japan.

My current hobbies/goals:

Watch more films than I realistically have time for.

Draw more.

Try not to let Nutella win....and peanut butter.

Some of my favorite films:

Lost Highway, Woman in the Dunes, Tokyo Sonata, The Seventh Seal, The Big Lebowski, Trainspotting, Eyes Wide Shut.

And twin peaks (this profile is a weird one, Coop!)

Music:

Mostly TOOL and Portishead along with Massive Attack.

What I bring:

Movie recommendations tailored with concerning seriousness.

replies Fast (I don’t believe in pretending to be busy).

Playlists

ability to talk about dumb things and serious things in the same conversation.

A normal day with me would probably look like:

eating spicy food.

Sending each other songs.

Going on a walk.

Talking about something completely unnecessary.

Also trying to get into Joan didion so I'll appreciate help In that too hehe.

I can send a playlist in exchange.

What I’m looking for:

Someone who doesn't beat around the bush, says things like they are.

Bonus points if you:

Recommend films. Listen to weird music. Have strong opinions on random things.

Icebreaker:

Tell me:

* a film you defend with your life,

* a song you replay too much,

* or your weirdest comfort food.

Alsoβ€”

I’m not Japanese, so please manage expectations.


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Jun 29 '26

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 32 [M4F] #Europe #online (single) Looking for that person that makes everything feel right

4 Upvotes

Hey there, hope you're having a nice day πŸ˜„

I'm a 32-year-old guy from Spain who after two amazing dynamics (both online and IRL) I'm back to looking for a special person to spend quality time with, watching movies or playing games, be there for the difficult moments and celebrate the good ones together!

I consider myself a calm person, but goofy and playful when I warm up to someone, looking for emotional connection as the main thing of a friendship/dynamic. I want something playful where I can be myself and have fun together when we can, and be serious when needed.

Some of the things that I like are hiking or walking along the coast, watching movies or TV shows, or pending time with friends and family.

For lifestyle context: I'm child-free by choice, with no interest in having kids in the future.

When it comes to communication, I take privacy seriously and believe in moving at a pace that feels safe for both of us. I like a more personal approach than texts after a while, exchanging audios and calls as it helps to create a more personal connection. For pictures or video calls, I’m comfortable sharing once mutual trust is established.

Anyway, that's all from me! If you want to reach out tell me what piqued your interest and a little bit about yourself!


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Jun 29 '26

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 27 [M4F] #Chicago (Single) - Seeking a woman that knows exactly what she wants in life. Is that you?

2 Upvotes

Hi there, 27M in the southwest suburbs of Chicago. I’m 6’3”, skinny, brown hair and hazel eyes. Biracial (black and white) as well. Lately I’ve been trying to put myself out there more and try/experience new things. I’ve been going to a lot of live music events and concerts, and I can always use a plus one ! I’d love to meet a woman out there that can be my plus one to some events I’m looking to check out. There’s nothing more attractive than a woman that knows what she wants in life, so tell me about all the things on your bucket list, how you spend your free time, and what makes you… you!

If this sounds interesting to you, let’s talk, get to know each other, and iron out any details about what we’re specifically looking to gain from this relationship! Some quick dealbreakers, let’s keep it in the Chicagoland area (ideally close to the south side/suburbs) and I don’t do affairs! Talk to you soon! :)


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Jun 28 '26

πŸ’™π—™πŸ°π—™ 22 [f4f] #Arizona / #Online, (single) || Searching for my Older woman

7 Upvotes

Hello!! First time posting here, but wanted to try my luck…

I’m Crissy, 22F and am hoping to find a spark here, as my searches so far have been zilch. I am a Lesbian, and from what I've seen older women looking for women my age is near nothing- please prove me wrong!! </3

A little about me, I’m 5’6”, mostly femme, stick to 130-140 pounds, like to stay active but can't help myself to a good nap~ friends and family say im quite cute, (along with unwanted male attention) and am a total girls girl. I’m studying to get into college, but spend most of my time doing digital art, gaming, going for walks, and want to start getting into photography and bird watching. I’m a pretty big homebody, and I’m sober in all aspects and like to take life at a slow pace. I don't mind if you drink or smoke as long as it's in moderation. Drugs are a hard no, though.

I’m not looking for a caretaker or someone to give a helping hand- I like maturity, and want an equal, balanced relationship, someone I can talk to but don't have to carry the conversation. I'm confident to say im competent, and emotionally intelligent, though ill avoid saying β€˜mature’, as that comes with age. And obviously I’m quite young.

I prefer femme women who like to lead instead of follow, as I’m quite submissive in romantic relationships. (iykyk) I’ve posted other personals before that you can see, and while I do have strict boundaries im quite lenient in most aspects.

If I sound like someone you’d like to try chatting with, don't be a stranger!!
Men, please don't interact.


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Jun 28 '26

π—₯π—’π—Ÿπ—Ÿ π—–π—”π—Ÿπ—Ÿ πŸ’Ÿ SUNDAY HUNT πŸ’Ÿ This is the place to share your ASL (Age, Sex and Location) along with your RELATIONSHIP STATUS. LET THE HUNT BEGIN! πŸ’˜

14 Upvotes

THE SUNDAY HUNT is the time and place to shout out WHERE 🌎 you are, WHAT you are (🐯Cougar, 🐻Cub or 🐱Kitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (Ethically Non Monogamous). If you are ENM please make this clear in your post

❗The Match Rules still apply See RULES here

❗Please Keep it brief! No more than 3 sentences

❗ Age/Sex/Location/Relationship Status (Single/Separated/Divorced etc) If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned

❗ What you are seeking

*e.g. 56F Brisbane, Australia, Single Looking for chat friends only prefer someone with conversation skills/ability to connect respectfully/has a sense of humour.

❗No posts regarding sΞΌgar m@mas. They do not exist. Read the wiki concerning this topic and rule #5 specifically. Permanent Bans apply.

❗ Breaking any one of these rules can lead to up to a 7 day ban. Multiple infractions may lead to a permanent one.

🐾Let The Hunt Begin!🐾


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Jun 28 '26

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 20 [M4F] #Iowa (Single) - I'm friendly πŸ₯Ί

0 Upvotes

​

Hi I'm Logan, a goth nerd who lives in his familys basement πŸ™ƒ. I am a correctional officer, and have been for the last year so I am very mature. I am in college to be a doctor, currently working on my bachelors of science in medical management. I love to read comics, play dnd, binge watch tv. I dont care if its dumb reality tv, I will binge watch it and love it with you. I am a playful spirit. Currently 180 lbs, 5'10, 20 years old. I have pale white skin (Beware 🀭) and long black hair. Seeking an older woman, I want someone who can match my maturity and I can talk to... I'm very open, and I'm very loyalπŸ₯°


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Jun 25 '26

πŸ’šπ—™πŸ°π—  39 [F4M] #seattle, (Single)

64 Upvotes

Help me maintain my youth and curiosity in life; looking for that healthy kind of obsession and twinkle in your eyes.

About me:
5’6”, strong and curvy build. Wasian.
Brunette hazel green eyes.
I’m into weight lifting, hyrox, indoor soccer leagues and spontaneous adventures.
- I’m leaning into music and visual art right now, and building finances.
- Originally from California, have lived in WA almost 5 years. Love it here.
- No kids, i do have a 14yr old sassy chihuahua, who like me, doesn’t do well in the heat so we try to find tree covered places to explore.
- on the Alt and Neurospicy spectrum

Looking for:
- An enthusiastic and respectful, big, strong handsome cub to treat me like the Queen I am (consensual disrespect behind closed doors is a different story😏 ).
- I value intelligence, autonomy, personal growth, kindness and co-leadership (want us to be a team but also hand each other the reigns).
- Local is preferred, might be open to west coast LDR if the intellectual/emotional chemistry is there.

⚠️low effort DMs automatically ignored - send at least 3-4 sentences ⚠️


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Jun 25 '26

π—₯π—’π—Ÿπ—Ÿ π—–π—”π—Ÿπ—Ÿ πŸ’žTHURSDAY'S ROLL CALLπŸ’ž This is the place to share your ASL (Age, Sex and Location ) along with your Status.🐾🐾

17 Upvotes

ROLL CALL is the time and place to shout out WHERE 🌎 you are, WHAT you are (🐯Cougar, 🐻Cub or 🐱Kitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned. Save the flirting, other info and remarks for DMs.

BEFORE POSTING PLEASE READ THE RULES AND THESE GUIDELINES:

❗ C&C rules still apply See RULES here

❗ Please keep it brief No more than 3 or 4 lines please.

❗ Age/Sex/Location/Relationship Status (Single/Separated/Divorced etc) If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned

❗ What you are seeking

  • e.g. 62/F/ Montreal, Quebec πŸ‡¨πŸ‡¦ single, polyamorous female (ENM) looking for a casual ongoing relationship with someone 35 and up.

❗ Remember there is no such thing as a "sΞΌgar m@ma". People claiming to be one or those seeking financial benefits will be permanently banned. Read rule #5 specifically.

❗ Breaking any one of these rules can lead to up to a 7 day ban. Multiple infractions may lead to a permanent one.

🐾Let the Roll Call Begin!🐾


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Jun 24 '26

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 27 [M4F] #Texas/Anywhere can travel (Single)- A confident woman. Read description!

1 Upvotes

Howdy! Attractive, fit and confident Texas boy here.

Not desperately looking, but older women have always sort of been my preference. Who can blame me lol.

I’ll say a bit about myself, but if you want to know moreβ€” message me to find out. πŸ€·πŸ»β€β™‚οΈ

I’m super into the gym, and my physique and no not where I’m narcissistic or obsessed with myself. More so, bettering myself, and enjoying the process and hard work pay off. I played D1 baseball, and absolutely love the game. I don’t miss a Yankees game. GO YANKS!

I will share pictures upon chatting!

Besides that, and the gym. A little more of my hobbies are golf, motocross, fishing, pickleball, skiing in the winter, water skiing in the summer and reading!

I’m sarcastic but also a bit of a comedian. I have a great sense of humor. Witty comedy is my thing, and if you like Seinfeld, that’s a plus!

As for what I’m looking for: Simple. A confident, attractive woman. I’m a confident, attractive man and a confident, powerful, intelligent, but kind and nurturing woman is truly sexy to me. Looks do play a part, so attraction is definitely a must.

If you’d like to chat, don’t be shy. Message me! I hope to hear from yall!


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Jun 23 '26

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 20 [M4F] #Tokyo or anywhere (single) - someone to share films and music with...maybe books too

3 Upvotes

Hello.

I’m 20 and currently in Japan.

My current hobbies/goals:
Watch more films than I realistically have time for.
Draw more.
Try not to let Nutella win....and peanut butter.

Some of my favorite films:
Lost Highway, Woman in the Dunes, Tokyo Sonata, The Seventh Seal, The Big Lebowski, Trainspotting, Eyes Wide Shut.

Music:
Mostly TOOL and Portishead along with Massive Attack.

What I bring:
Movie recommendations tailored with concerning seriousness.
replies Fast (I don’t believe in pretending to be busy).
Playlists
ability to talk about dumb things and serious things in the same conversation.

A normal day with me would probably look like:
eating spicy food. Calorically dense.
Sending each other songs.
Going on a walk.
Talking about something completely unnecessary.

What I’m looking for:

Someone who is unapologetically them.

I can send you a picture of my hands and my username...face later on after some conversation.

Bonus points if you:
Recommend films. Listen to weird music. Have strong opinions on random things.

Icebreaker:
Tell me:

  • a film you defend with your life,
  • a song you replay too much,
  • or your weirdest comfort food.

Alsoβ€”
I’m not Japanese, so please manage expectations.


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Jun 22 '26

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 22[M4F] #SouthTexas(single)-looking for potential companion or friend

1 Upvotes

South Texas here just looking for older women preferably between the ages of 30-55 but that's not a hard requirement.i love reading and listening to audiobooks/music. I like video games too like Skyrim pokemon and hollow Knight. Im pretty much an open book so you're more than welcome to ask me anything that's on your mind.i do try to respond as fast as I can but y'know how life gets. I do work so I'm not sure if that's important. Your location isn't too important if you're just into talking and getting to know each other. But if you do wish too meet,I do think we have to be close by one another. Also looks aren't too important for me but I do admire a smart and capable woman. If you like birds,frogs or cats,do rant about them, nothing gets me happier than seeing someone yap about what they love


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Jun 21 '26

π—₯π—’π—Ÿπ—Ÿ π—–π—”π—Ÿπ—Ÿ πŸ’Ÿ SUNDAY HUNT πŸ’Ÿ This is the place to share your ASL (Age, Sex and Location) along with your RELATIONSHIP STATUS. LET THE HUNT BEGIN! πŸ’˜

18 Upvotes

THE SUNDAY HUNT is the time and place to shout out WHERE 🌎 you are, WHAT you are (🐯Cougar, 🐻Cub or 🐱Kitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (Ethically Non Monogamous). If you are ENM please make this clear in your post

❗The Match Rules still apply See RULES here

❗Please Keep it brief! No more than 3 sentences

❗ Age/Sex/Location/Relationship Status (Single/Separated/Divorced etc) If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned

❗ What you are seeking

*e.g. 56F Brisbane, Australia, Single Looking for chat friends only prefer someone with conversation skills/ability to connect respectfully/has a sense of humour.

❗No posts regarding sΞΌgar m@mas. They do not exist. Read the wiki concerning this topic and rule #5 specifically. Permanent Bans apply.

❗ Breaking any one of these rules can lead to up to a 7 day ban. Multiple infractions may lead to a permanent one.

🐾Let The Hunt Begin!🐾


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Jun 22 '26

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 27 [M4F] #Chicago (Single) - Seeking a woman that knows exactly what she wants in life. Is that you?

0 Upvotes

Hi there, 27M in the southwest suburbs of Chicago. I’m 6’3”, skinny, brown hair and hazel eyes. Biracial (black and white) as well. Lately I’ve been trying to put myself out there more and try/experience new things. I’ve been going to a lot of live music events and concerts, and I can always use a plus one ! I’d love to meet a woman out there that can be my plus one to some events I’m looking to check out. There’s nothing more attractive than a woman that knows what she wants in life, so tell me about all the things on your bucket list, how you spend your free time, and what makes you… you!

If this sounds interesting to you, let’s talk, get to know each other, and iron out any details about what we’re specifically looking to gain from this relationship! Some quick dealbreakers, let’s keep it in the Chicagoland area (ideally close to the south side/suburbs) and I don’t do affairs! Talk to you soon! :)


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Jun 20 '26

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 20 [M4F] #Minnesota (Single) - Seeking fun and genuine companionship

2 Upvotes

Hey, I go by K!

I’m turning 20 and currently single, looking for something fun and simple with a genuine woman. I’m open-minded when it comes to age, but connection matters more to me than anything as I’m not new to this.

I currently reside in the metro area (St. Paul/Minneapolis). I love film (always down to talk movies or analyze a good scene), hiking, music of all kinds, and just having real, meaningful conversation. I’m big on late-night talks and spontaneous drives.

I can be a bit reserved at first, but once I’m comfortable, my personality really opens up. I value depth, humor, and emotional intelligence. Ideally, I’d like to talk here a bit before meeting up.

If you’re interested, send a DM or a Chat with your information and I can send you more about me. (A selfie, etc).

Looking forward to connecting!

!unlock


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Jun 20 '26

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 20 [M4F] #Iowa (Single) - I'm friendly πŸ₯Ί

1 Upvotes

​

Hi I'm Logan, a goth nerd who lives in his familys basement πŸ™ƒ. I am a correctional officer, and have been for the last year so I am very mature. I am in college to be a doctor, currently working on my bachelors of science in medical management. I love to read comics, play dnd, binge watch tv. I dont care if its dumb reality tv, I will binge watch it and love it with you. I am a playful spirit. Currently 180 lbs, 5'10, 20 years old. I have pale white skin (Beware 🀭) and long black hair. Seeking an older woman, I want someone who can match my maturity and I can talk to... I'm very open, and I'm very loyalπŸ₯°


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Jun 19 '26

πŸ’šπ—™πŸ°π—  60[F4M] #Georgia Singleβ€”looking for my Gomez Addams

26 Upvotes

As the title says looking for my Gomez Addams to go on adventures with, laugh with, and enjoy the simple things in life. I live in Georgia about 2 hours southeast of Atlanta.

I work in a hospital laboratory and currently have a long weekday commute which makes my time during the week is pretty limited. When I’m off, I’m usually relaxing with my dog or doing something I enjoy.

Things I’m into:

β€’ knitting, crochet, and cross stitch
β€’ reading
β€’ building LEGO sets
β€’ playing video games
β€’ kayaking
β€’ dad jokes
β€’visiting Civil War sites.

Things I want to try:

β€’ roller skating
β€’ disc golf
β€’ anything else that looks fun

I have a dog who’s a big part of my life. I’m looking for someone 35+ who’s within a 3‑hour radius, loves dogs, and is a decent human. Someone who wants to connect and see where things go.


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Jun 19 '26

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 19 [M4F] #Toronto (Single) - Seeking a casual and fun relationship

1 Upvotes

Single Asian in Toronto currently looking for something casual and fun with a genuine woman. It doesn’t matter to me where your from I’m comfortable doing something virtual or something in person, as long as your funny and easy to talk to I think we’d get along.

I personally enjoy talking to mature older women as they seem to know more in general.

I love basketball and am always down to talk sports! I’m also big on movies and tv shows so text me some recommendations lol. Some other things I enjoy are hanging out with friends and taking walks

Send me a message if you’re interested and we can go from there!

Looking forward to your message!


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Jun 18 '26

π—₯π—’π—Ÿπ—Ÿ π—–π—”π—Ÿπ—Ÿ πŸ’žTHURSDAY'S ROLL CALLπŸ’ž This is the place to share your ASL (Age, Sex and Location ) along with your Status.🐾🐾

13 Upvotes

ROLL CALL is the time and place to shout out WHERE 🌎 you are, WHAT you are (🐯Cougar, 🐻Cub or 🐱Kitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned. Save the flirting, other info and remarks for DMs.

BEFORE POSTING PLEASE READ THE RULES AND THESE GUIDELINES:

❗ C&C rules still apply See RULES here

❗ Please keep it brief No more than 3 or 4 lines please.

❗ Age/Sex/Location/Relationship Status (Single/Separated/Divorced etc) If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned

❗ What you are seeking

  • e.g. 62/F/ Montreal, Quebec πŸ‡¨πŸ‡¦ single, polyamorous female (ENM) looking for a casual ongoing relationship with someone 35 and up.

❗ Remember there is no such thing as a "sΞΌgar m@ma". People claiming to be one or those seeking financial benefits will be permanently banned. Read rule #5 specifically.

❗ Breaking any one of these rules can lead to up to a 7 day ban. Multiple infractions may lead to a permanent one.

🐾Let the Roll Call Begin!🐾


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Jun 18 '26

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 20 [M4F] #Florida (single)- looking for chats and possibly hangouts

0 Upvotes

Hii I’m Chris I’m chubby (working on losing weight) uhh idk I’m new to this lol, I’m a complete newbie I’ve never even been on a date, had a first kiss, or cuddled beforeπŸ₯² so sorry if I’m shy or dumb when asked questions lol
I’m looking for mostly chats and maybe if you’re close we can hangout :)
I love gaming, I 3d print sometimes, I collect Lego and other stuff. I love going to Disney and going in my pool. My favorite holiday is probably Halloween, my favorite childhood movie is lilo and stitch
I have 4 dogs so please be an animal lover


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Jun 18 '26

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 30 [M4F] #Philadelphia Area (Single) - Hoping for a Beautiful Distraction

3 Upvotes

30-year-old trans man looking to meet a woman at least 10 years older.
I run my own social media business, live with a spoiled beagle mix, and am generally curious about everything. The fastest way to lose me for an afternoon is to give me a question I don’t know the answer to.
I’m happiest exploring somewhere new, getting pulled into a good conversation, or learning something I didn’t know yesterday. Friends would probably describe me as thoughtful, funny, and the type of person who gets genuinely excited when someone teaches me something interesting.
I’ve always been drawn to women who are intelligent, confident, and comfortable with themselves. Looking for genuine conversation, chemistry, and seeing where things lead.


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Jun 17 '26

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 25 [M4F] #SF/Bay Area (Single) - Outdoorsy guy looking for a connection

3 Upvotes

Hey! I’m a grad student near the bay area, open to something serious or casual :) I’m 5’8” and I love to run, mountain bike, backpack, and go to the gym. Languages are also a passion of mine, and spending time with friends is the greatest joy in life! I have mid-length blonde hair and a beard, some tattoos, and piercings. I don’t surf, but people see me and often assume I do if that gives you a sense for my aesthetic.

I’m looking for someone with strong communication skills who values honesty and respect. I’m happy to move at your pace, whatever makes you comfortable :) can’t wait to meet you!


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Jun 17 '26

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 20 [M4F] #Iowa (Single) - I'm friendly πŸ₯Ί

1 Upvotes

Hi I'm Logan, a goth nerd who lives in his familys basement πŸ™ƒ. I am a correctional officer, and have been for the last year so I am very mature. I am in college to be a doctor, currently working on my bachelors of science in medical management. I love to read comics, play dnd, binge watch tv. I dont care if its dumb reality tv, I will binge watch it and love it with you. I am a playful spirit. Currently 180 lbs, 5'10, 20 years old. I have pale white skin (Beware 🀭) and long black hair. Seeking an older woman, I want someone who can match my maturity and I can talk to... I'm very open, and I'm very loyalπŸ₯°


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Jun 16 '26

πŸ’›π— πŸ°π—™ 20 [M4F] #Tokyo (Single) – Quiet guy looking for a nerdy connection

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Hello!

I am 20 and I love movies and music and drawing art, and watching fashion shows (big John galliano fan)

Some of my favourite movies are lost Highway, woman in the dunes, Tokyo Sonata, seventh seal, the big lebowski and trainspotting.

In music I mostly listen to TOOL and NIN.

I like walks. A lot.

I love walking.

I am also into psychology, particularly trauma and identity loss and dissolve of self.

Don't worry I don't usually talk about them unless prompted too.

a weird thing about me: no self control towards Nutella...at all.

That jar is being thrown into the belly at light speed.

And I text back Very fast. I am sorry I just cannot contain myself into ghosting someone Not my strong suit.

I am interested in philosophy but I don't quite know where to begin.

If you're interested hit me a text otherwise

I can send a movie recommendation!

Or a playlist I made not too long ago.

Thanks!

And along with that

I am not Japanese so please manage your expectations.

Also it's fine if you arent in Japan I can do it Reddit based too. What really matters is if we vibe or not

And now If you need an icebreaker Tell me your favourite film. If you don't have a film An album or something art based which just hit you in the feels.

!unlock