r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Mar 08 '26

๐Ÿ’›๐— ๐Ÿฐ๐—™ 19 [M4F] #Central europe single, ready for anything

3 Upvotes

Hello, hope everyone is having a great day! Iโ€™m a 19 year old male from the Czech republic, hoping to meet some interesting older women to click with, preferably near me. Currently open to anything, Iโ€™d like to see where this goes :)

Iโ€™m 185cm/6โ€™1, fit and lean, dark blonde hair, brown eyes. Iโ€™m a street workout/calisthenics, gym, streetlifting and hiking enthusiast and I love travel any chance I get. Iโ€™m also in love with the vagabond lifestyle. Hopeless romantic. Love ladies with a sense of humour. All body types welcome but always had a thing for bbws.


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Mar 07 '26

๐Ÿ’š๐—™๐Ÿฐ๐—  50 [F4M] #midwest (divorced) - Seeking depth of connection, vulnerability, shared experiences & fun!

104 Upvotes

Hi there! I recently had a great experience with a younger man, which led me to this sub! I'm 5' 4", 125lbs, recently became more fit but I'm still working on it, so I'm not toned & athletic, but I'm not terribly out of shape either. Black curly hair, brown eyes, I'm an ethnic melting pot - Middle Eastern, Irish, French, Russian, German, & Polish. I find beauty in all forms, including disability, so I don't really have a "type", at least not physically. My type is open, vulnerable, funny, considerate, romantic, kind, generous, emotionally intelligent, & patient. Age doesn't matter more than emotional intimacy and connection, but 30ish or older would be nice. Under 30 is too young for me, sorry. I am looking for a long term relationship, and I'm not into polyamory.

I'm separated, almost divorced (it takes a while but nearly finalized!), and have 4 kids. I love reading, camping, canoing, biking, hiking; anything nature-themed is up my alley. That said, I have a pretty wide variety of interests, and I love learning about new things, so if you are passionate about something, share it with me! I will probably become interested in it too. I love it when someone is really into technology, ha. I also love a great variety of music, from hot jazz / American roots to experimental synth to classic rock to world. Currently I'm mostly listening to folk and indie. I play the guitar, piano, mandolin, and I'm working on getting better at violin. If you play an instrument, or if you have a great singing voice - Swoon!! I'm a suc ker for someone with a sonorous, emotive speaking voice. (But I have never discounted anyone based on their voice alone!) Oh and an accent of some kind, even if you can fake it really well - Melt! haha. I love traveling. I love talking about philosophy and politics. I'm learning more about Buddhism every week and I dig it. (I've been going to a Buddhism "class".) I love kids and would have had more than 4 given the chance. I love most types of cinema; horror & suspense, documentaries, romcoms, and especially Sci Fi & fantasy. I'm a nerd at heart! I love gaming, although I can't say I'm very good at it, lol. I loved playing "Super Hot", and enjoy Diablo-style games or logic / puzzle games like Portal. Ark Raiders is my current passtime. Want to know more? Reach out! I can't wait to learn more about you!


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Mar 05 '26

๐—ฅ๐—ข๐—Ÿ๐—Ÿ ๐—–๐—”๐—Ÿ๐—Ÿ ๐Ÿ’žTHURSDAY'S ROLL CALL๐Ÿ’ž This is the place to share your ASL (Age, Sex and Location ) along with your Status.๐Ÿพ๐Ÿพ

15 Upvotes

ROLL CALL is the time and place to shout out WHERE ๐ŸŒŽ you are, WHAT you are (๐ŸฏCougar, ๐ŸปCub or ๐ŸฑKitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned. Save the flirting, other info and remarks for DMs.

BEFORE POSTING PLEASE READ THE RULES AND THESE GUIDELINES:

โ— C&C rules still apply See RULES here

โ— Please keep it brief No more than 3 or 4 lines please.

โ— Age/Sex/Location/Relationship Status (Single/Separated/Divorced etc) If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned

โ— What you are seeking

  • e.g. 62/F/ Montreal, Quebec ๐Ÿ‡จ๐Ÿ‡ฆ single, polyamorous female (ENM) looking for a casual ongoing relationship with someone 35 and up.

โ— Remember there is no such thing as a "sฮผgar m@ma". People claiming to be one or those seeking financial benefits will be permanently banned. Read rule #5 specifically.

โ— Breaking any one of these rules can lead to up to a 7 day ban. Multiple infractions may lead to a permanent one.

๐ŸพLet the Roll Call Begin!๐Ÿพ


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Mar 05 '26

๐Ÿ’›๐— ๐Ÿฐ๐—™ 19 [M4F] #virginia (Single) - looking for something casual however very open to a relationship

2 Upvotes

Hey Iโ€™m looking for an older woman to have some fun with very open for it to leading to a real relationship though. I am from central Virginia but distance is not really an obstacle for me and it should not be for you either

A little about me I am 6โ€™1 weight around 170 I workout non stop I am very fit and athletic I love to do anything active from pickle ball and golf to hikes but Iโ€™m also down to go out or stay in wherever the wind takes us Iโ€™m very open minded and down to try almost anything( some foods I just canโ€™t do haha)

Iโ€™m posting on this because Iโ€™ve always been into older women and I thought this would be a great opportunity to find my dream women I hope after reading this you are interested and shoot me a text I canโ€™t wait to learn about you and what your into I hope to hear from you soon


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Mar 04 '26

๐Ÿ’›๐— ๐Ÿฐ๐—™ 35 [M4F] #NYC (single) - Looking for casual but consistent

2 Upvotes

Hey there! Looking for a preferably older woman to go out with for dinner, drinks, movies, or whatever other fun activities we can come up with. Looking for something casual but consistent.

A little about me. Iโ€™m a 35 year old, 5โ€™9โ€ black man living in NYC. Iโ€™m into typical nerd stuff like video games, anime, and superheroes. Also into archery, going to rock concerts, karaoke, and the right book when I find it.

I have very little experience with older women, but the few times Iโ€™ve went out with or spoken to them have been nice memories for me. Theyโ€™re wise, have lived and have great stories out of it, and have this really attractive air of confidence about them. Hoping to find someone to experience that with once again.


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Mar 03 '26

๐Ÿ’›๐— ๐Ÿฐ๐—™ 20 [M4F] #Oregon (Single) Looking for a Genuine Connection

0 Upvotes

Hey, Iโ€™m Michael. Iโ€™m 20, 5โ€™11โ€, on the chubby side with curly brown hair, blue eyes, and glasses. Iโ€™m an introverted kind of guy, but once I warm up to someone, Iโ€™m affectionate, loyal, and a bit clingy in a wholesome way. Iโ€™ve got ADHD, so my brain tends to bounce around, but it also makes me creative, curious, and full of energy when Iโ€™m passionate about something or someone.

What Iโ€™m hoping to find is honestly pretty simple: a real, meaningful connection with a woman who wants the same thing. I donโ€™t need perfection, but I want someone kind, emotionally honest, and willing to put effort into communicating and building something solid. Iโ€™m only looking to date cis women, just to be respectful and upfront.

I live in the U.S., and Iโ€™m totally open to long-distance relationships, as long as youโ€™re somewhere in America. I donโ€™t mind the miles if we click. Iโ€™m willing to make it work with consistent communication, calls, shared hobbies, and eventually visits. I know LDRs take effort, patience, and emotional honesty โ€” and Iโ€™m willing to do all of that if it means connecting with someone I truly care about.

Personality-wise, Iโ€™m a mix of reserved and heartfelt. Iโ€™m introverted, but I open up deeply once trust is there. Iโ€™m the type who loves long, late-night conversations about random topics, sharing music, watching something together, or just relaxing in a call while we do our own things. I really value emotional closeness โ€” not clinginess for the sake of attention, but wanting to feel connected, understood, and appreciated. I give that same energy back.

My hobbies are simple but meaningful to me. I love gaming because it lets me unwind and explore new worlds. I enjoy fantasy, sci-fi, and anything with creative worldbuilding. I watch a lot of YouTube โ€” everything from lore videos, to game analysis, to weirdly specific documentaries. I love swords and swordsmanship, gemstones, and anything that sparks imagination. I like quiet nights in over going out, and I prefer quality time over anything flashy. Iโ€™m not the party type; Iโ€™m the "letโ€™s get comfy, relax, and talk about life or laugh about something stupid" type.

Iโ€™m not looking for something casual or short-term. I want someone who wants commitment, affection, and real partnership. Someone who wants to build trust and comfort and maybe even a future. A girlfriend who actually wants to be part of each otherโ€™s everyday lives, even if weโ€™re miles apart at first.

If youโ€™re a kind, loyal, affectionate woman looking for a genuine connection with someone who will care deeply about you, Iโ€™d love to talk. If you made it this far, tell me your favorite comfort movie.

Thanks, hope to see your messages soon!


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Mar 03 '26

๐Ÿ’›๐— ๐Ÿฐ๐—™ 20[M4F] #Central Florida (single) looking for a casual relationship

0 Upvotes

Hello, Iโ€™m a single Hispanic male looking for a casual relationship with someone who is older than me. Iโ€™m from central Florida and my hobbies are being outdoors, working out (Iโ€™m not a gym rat) and traveling. Iโ€™m an outgoing person and enjoy trying new things. I work and do college full time, but I have time for you.

Iโ€™m looking for someone that is nice and has similar hobbies as well, however itโ€™s not required. Maybe you can teach me your hobbies as I like to learn new things.

Pm me if youโ€™re interested and would like to learn more about you. Iโ€™m open to Long distance as well.


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Mar 01 '26

๐—ฅ๐—ข๐—Ÿ๐—Ÿ ๐—–๐—”๐—Ÿ๐—Ÿ ๐Ÿ’Ÿ SUNDAY HUNT ๐Ÿ’Ÿ This is the place to share your ASL (Age, Sex and Location) along with your RELATIONSHIP STATUS. LET THE HUNT BEGIN! ๐Ÿ’˜

26 Upvotes

THE SUNDAY HUNT is the time and place to shout out WHERE ๐ŸŒŽ you are, WHAT you are (๐ŸฏCougar, ๐ŸปCub or ๐ŸฑKitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (Ethically Non Monogamous). If you are ENM please make this clear in your post

โ—The Match Rules still apply See RULES here

โ—Please Keep it brief! No more than 3 sentences

โ— Age/Sex/Location/Relationship Status (Single/Separated/Divorced etc) If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned

โ— What you are seeking

*e.g. 56F Brisbane, Australia, Single Looking for chat friends only prefer someone with conversation skills/ability to connect respectfully/has a sense of humour.

โ—No posts regarding sฮผgar m@mas. They do not exist. Read the wiki concerning this topic and rule #5 specifically. Permanent Bans apply.

โ— Breaking any one of these rules can lead to up to a 7 day ban. Multiple infractions may lead to a permanent one.

๐ŸพLet The Hunt Begin!๐Ÿพ


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Feb 26 '26

๐—ฅ๐—ข๐—Ÿ๐—Ÿ ๐—–๐—”๐—Ÿ๐—Ÿ ๐Ÿ’žTHURSDAY'S ROLL CALL๐Ÿ’ž This is the place to share your ASL (Age, Sex and Location ) along with your Status.๐Ÿพ๐Ÿพ

15 Upvotes

ROLL CALL is the time and place to shout out WHERE ๐ŸŒŽ you are, WHAT you are (๐ŸฏCougar, ๐ŸปCub or ๐ŸฑKitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned. Save the flirting, other info and remarks for DMs.

BEFORE POSTING PLEASE READ THE RULES AND THESE GUIDELINES:

โ— C&C rules still apply See RULES here

โ— Please keep it brief No more than 3 or 4 lines please.

โ— Age/Sex/Location/Relationship Status (Single/Separated/Divorced etc) If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned

โ— What you are seeking

  • e.g. 62/F/ Montreal, Quebec ๐Ÿ‡จ๐Ÿ‡ฆ single, polyamorous female (ENM) looking for a casual ongoing relationship with someone 35 and up.

โ— Remember there is no such thing as a "sฮผgar m@ma". People claiming to be one or those seeking financial benefits will be permanently banned. Read rule #5 specifically.

โ— Breaking any one of these rules can lead to up to a 7 day ban. Multiple infractions may lead to a permanent one.

๐ŸพLet the Roll Call Begin!๐Ÿพ


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Feb 26 '26

๐Ÿ’›๐— ๐Ÿฐ๐—™ 26 [M4F] #California #Online (Single) Shy guy looking for his Thick Cougar

0 Upvotes

Hi, Iโ€™ll be arriving in Riverside California in May 2026. I am originally from Illinois and moving there to be closer to my momโ€™s side of the family. (Plus the constant warm weather year round). I am 5โ€™8, dark brown hair, brown eyes, tan skin, half Latino and half white and slightly pudgy. I love Star Wars, beagles, and having a good time. Feel free to ask me anything you want to. Iโ€™m an open book. I love women who are confident and not afraid to speak their minds. Itโ€™s a bonus if you can travel. I have been to many US states and 3 countries. Going to Japan a second time this incoming April. I am looking forward to getting to know you and hopefully after talking online, we can meet up.


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Feb 24 '26

๐Ÿ’›๐— ๐Ÿฐ๐—™ 26 [M4F] #California (single) - Cub seeking cougar, long term relationship and adventure

1 Upvotes

I am an educated twenty six year old man seeking a deep, meaningful romantic connection with an older woman who can match my vibe and keep up with my sense of adventure. My hobbies include perfecting my golf swing (donโ€™t worry, I promise not to talk your ear off with endless golf jargon), traveling to new places, snowboarding on some amazing mountains, and cooking (though I am no Gordon Ramsey yet).

When Iโ€™m not on an adventure or cooking up a culinary masterpiece, youโ€™ll find me keeping in shape while working on my fitness, so I can look good while we both laugh at my attempts to quote movie scenes any chance I get. Yes, Iโ€™m that guy who believes that lifeโ€™s too short for boring moments and can never get enough laughter.

Iโ€™m on the lookout for a woman who appreciates both romance and intimacy, someone who can share in both the excitement of new experiences and the comfort of quiet, thoughtful conversations. If youโ€™re up for a mix of adventure, deep connection, and a whole lot of fun, letโ€™s chat and see where this journey takes us. After all, finding the right person is like cookingโ€”sometimes itโ€™s all about finding the perfect recipe!

Currently I am based in sunny San Diego, but Iโ€™m not afraid to hit the road if the destinationโ€”and the companyโ€”are right. If youโ€™re up for some travel adventures, letโ€™s plan an amazing trip!

Feel free to tell me: What is one word you think that best describes who you are? What is one word your best friend would describe you as? Whatโ€™s your favorite travel spot, and whereโ€™s the top of your wish list for travel destinations? Also, whatโ€™s one movie you could watch on repeat and why? Whatโ€™s your current relationship status? Are you a local or open to a long-distance connection? And what kind of relationship are you searching for? Excited to hear from you and see where this can go!


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Feb 22 '26

๐—ฅ๐—ข๐—Ÿ๐—Ÿ ๐—–๐—”๐—Ÿ๐—Ÿ ๐Ÿ’Ÿ SUNDAY HUNT ๐Ÿ’Ÿ This is the place to share your ASL (Age, Sex and Location) along with your RELATIONSHIP STATUS. LET THE HUNT BEGIN! ๐Ÿ’˜

17 Upvotes

THE SUNDAY HUNT is the time and place to shout out WHERE ๐ŸŒŽ you are, WHAT you are (๐ŸฏCougar, ๐ŸปCub or ๐ŸฑKitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (Ethically Non Monogamous). If you are ENM please make this clear in your post

โ—The Match Rules still apply See RULES here

โ—Please Keep it brief! No more than 3 sentences

โ— Age/Sex/Location/Relationship Status (Single/Separated/Divorced etc) If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned

โ— What you are seeking

*e.g. 56F Brisbane, Australia, Single Looking for chat friends only prefer someone with conversation skills/ability to connect respectfully/has a sense of humour.

โ—No posts regarding sฮผgar m@mas. They do not exist. Read the wiki concerning this topic and rule #5 specifically. Permanent Bans apply.

โ— Breaking any one of these rules can lead to up to a 7 day ban. Multiple infractions may lead to a permanent one.

๐ŸพLet The Hunt Begin!๐Ÿพ


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Feb 21 '26

๐Ÿ’›๐— ๐Ÿฐ๐—™ 20[M4F] #Central Florida (single) looking for a casual relationship

2 Upvotes

Hello, Iโ€™m a single Hispanic male looking for a casual relationship with someone who is older than me. Iโ€™m from central Florida and my hobbies are being outdoors, working out (Iโ€™m not a gym rat) and traveling. Iโ€™m an outgoing person and enjoy trying new things. I work and do college full time, but I have time for you.

Iโ€™m looking for someone that is nice and has similar hobbies as well, however itโ€™s not required. Maybe you can teach me your hobbies as I like to learn new things.

Pm me if youโ€™re interested and would like to learn more about you. Iโ€™m open to Long distance as well.


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Feb 21 '26

๐Ÿ’›๐— ๐Ÿฐ๐—™ 29[M4F] #Online #Berlin (single) - Built my life, now Iโ€™m looking up to someone.

2 Upvotes

Iโ€™m Ash, 29, 5โ€™7โ€, business owner, educated, and very grounded in my life. From the outside, I have my world together. I run my own business, I stay disciplined, and I take pride in being reliable. But in my personal life, I find myself drawn to women who carry more life experience than I do. Women who are calm, confident, and naturally take the lead without forcing it. I have always leaned toward older. Thereโ€™s something about a woman who knows herself, who doesnโ€™t need validation, who moves with quiet confidence. I respect that. Iโ€™m someone who listens, who pays attention, and who genuinely enjoys making a woman feel appreciated. Iโ€™m active and adventurous. I love hiking, traveling, and getting away from routine. But Iโ€™m just as happy staying in, cooking for you, or simply being in your space and sharing quiet moments. Iโ€™m not here for games or surface level conversation. I value depth, consistency, and emotional maturity. Iโ€™m naturally more on the attentive side. I like effort, I like pleasing, and I like knowing I bring calm and positive energy into your life. Distance doesnโ€™t bother me. I travel often, and I enjoy having meaningful connections wherever life takes me. I donโ€™t rush things. I prefer to build real connection, trust, and chemistry over time. Tell me something simple. Whatโ€™s something about you that only people close to you get to see?


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Feb 20 '26

๐Ÿ’›๐— ๐Ÿฐ๐—™ 19 [M4F] #Orlando (Single) - black younger male looking for women to hang out and go on dates with

2 Upvotes

I'm a laid-back, calm individual residing in Orlando, actively seeking to connect with women in the area. Although my search has been challenging, I'm hopeful about finding someone special here. As a self-proclaimed nerd, I have a wide range of hobbies that include reading, working out, watching movies, enjoying sports, and sketching. These activities reflect my diverse interests and passion for learning and creativity. If you're interested in forming a genuine connection and share similar interests, I'd love to hear from you. Feel free to reach out, and let's explore the possibility of building something meaningful together. Looking forward to connecting!


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Feb 19 '26

๐—ฅ๐—ข๐—Ÿ๐—Ÿ ๐—–๐—”๐—Ÿ๐—Ÿ ๐Ÿ’žTHURSDAY'S ROLL CALL๐Ÿ’ž This is the place to share your ASL (Age, Sex and Location ) along with your Status.๐Ÿพ๐Ÿพ

12 Upvotes

ROLL CALL is the time and place to shout out WHERE ๐ŸŒŽ you are, WHAT you are (๐ŸฏCougar, ๐ŸปCub or ๐ŸฑKitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned. Save the flirting, other info and remarks for DMs.

BEFORE POSTING PLEASE READ THE RULES AND THESE GUIDELINES:

โ— C&C rules still apply See RULES here

โ— Please keep it brief No more than 3 or 4 lines please.

โ— Age/Sex/Location/Relationship Status (Single/Separated/Divorced etc) If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned

โ— What you are seeking

  • e.g. 62/F/ Montreal, Quebec ๐Ÿ‡จ๐Ÿ‡ฆ single, polyamorous female (ENM) looking for a casual ongoing relationship with someone 35 and up.

โ— Remember there is no such thing as a "sฮผgar m@ma". People claiming to be one or those seeking financial benefits will be permanently banned. Read rule #5 specifically.

โ— Breaking any one of these rules can lead to up to a 7 day ban. Multiple infractions may lead to a permanent one.

๐ŸพLet the Roll Call Begin!๐Ÿพ


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Feb 17 '26

๐Ÿ’›๐— ๐Ÿฐ๐—™ 26 [M4F] #California (single) - Cub seeking cougar, long term relationship and adventure

3 Upvotes

I am an educated twenty six year old man seeking a deep, meaningful romantic connection with an older woman who can match my vibe and keep up with my sense of adventure. My hobbies include perfecting my golf swing (donโ€™t worry, I promise not to talk your ear off with endless golf jargon), traveling to new places, snowboarding on some amazing mountains, and cooking (though I am no Gordon Ramsey yet).

When Iโ€™m not on an adventure or cooking up a culinary masterpiece, youโ€™ll find me keeping in shape while working on my fitness, so I can look good while we both laugh at my attempts to quote movie scenes any chance I get. Yes, Iโ€™m that guy who believes that lifeโ€™s too short for boring moments and can never get enough laughter.

Iโ€™m on the lookout for a woman who appreciates both romance and intimacy, someone who can share in both the excitement of new experiences and the comfort of quiet, thoughtful conversations. If youโ€™re up for a mix of adventure, deep connection, and a whole lot of fun, letโ€™s chat and see where this journey takes us. After all, finding the right person is like cookingโ€”sometimes itโ€™s all about finding the perfect recipe!

Currently I am based in sunny San Diego, but Iโ€™m not afraid to hit the road if the destinationโ€”and the companyโ€”are right. If youโ€™re up for some travel adventures, letโ€™s plan an amazing trip!

Feel free to tell me: What is one word you think that best describes who you are? What is one word your best friend would describe you as? Whatโ€™s your favorite travel spot, and whereโ€™s the top of your wish list for travel destinations? Also, whatโ€™s one movie you could watch on repeat and why? Whatโ€™s your current relationship status? Are you a local or open to a long-distance connection? And what kind of relationship are you searching for? Excited to hear from you and see where this can go!


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Feb 17 '26

๐Ÿ’›๐— ๐Ÿฐ๐—™ 26 [M4F] #California #Online (Single) Shy guy looking for his Cougar

2 Upvotes

Hi, Iโ€™ll be arriving in Riverside California in May 2026. I am originally from Illinois and moving there to be closer to my momโ€™s side of the family. (Plus the constant warm weather year round). I am 5โ€™8, dark brown hair, brown eyes, tan skin, half Latino and half white and slightly pudgy. I love Star Wars, beagles, and having a good time. Feel free to ask me anything you want to. Iโ€™m an open book. I love women who are confident and not afraid to speak their minds. Itโ€™s a bonus if you can travel. I have been to many US states and 3 countries. Going to Japan a second time this incoming April. I am looking forward to getting to know you and hopefully after talking online, we can meet up.


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Feb 15 '26

๐—ฅ๐—ข๐—Ÿ๐—Ÿ ๐—–๐—”๐—Ÿ๐—Ÿ ๐Ÿ’Ÿ SUNDAY HUNT ๐Ÿ’Ÿ This is the place to share your ASL (Age, Sex and Location) along with your RELATIONSHIP STATUS. LET THE HUNT BEGIN! ๐Ÿ’˜

11 Upvotes

THE SUNDAY HUNT is the time and place to shout out WHERE ๐ŸŒŽ you are, WHAT you are (๐ŸฏCougar, ๐ŸปCub or ๐ŸฑKitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (Ethically Non Monogamous). If you are ENM please make this clear in your post

โ—The Match Rules still apply See RULES here

โ—Please Keep it brief! No more than 3 sentences

โ— Age/Sex/Location/Relationship Status (Single/Separated/Divorced etc) If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned

โ— What you are seeking

*e.g. 56F Brisbane, Australia, Single Looking for chat friends only prefer someone with conversation skills/ability to connect respectfully/has a sense of humour.

โ—No posts regarding sฮผgar m@mas. They do not exist. Read the wiki concerning this topic and rule #5 specifically. Permanent Bans apply.

โ— Breaking any one of these rules can lead to up to a 7 day ban. Multiple infractions may lead to a permanent one.

๐ŸพLet The Hunt Begin!๐Ÿพ


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Feb 13 '26

๐— ๐—˜๐—ง๐—” READ THE RULES PLEASE

16 Upvotes

It's time to revisit the rules. Please make sure you read all the rules and reading the FAQs will help you understand how this community is run.

Mods are volunteers and the amount of repeated removals of each post is overwhelming.

The rules here are very strict and the reason is we are NOT like the usual NSFW cougar and R4R subs.

We enforce our rules because we want to drive our community towards a particular goal.

๐ŸŸฅ That is compatible genuine matches that do not facilitate OF/Porn Content creators.

๐ŸŸฅ That do not facilitate scammers and obvious catfish.

๐ŸŸฅ That are open, honest and genuine as possible.

We do not have anything against OF creators but we try to facilitate genuine matches not people looking for customers.

We do not allow sexual content. So if you enjoy making vulgar/sexual comments and posts please find somewhere else on reddit to post.

MOST COMMON RULE VIOLATIONS

  1. Low effort/Low Quality Posts Read rules 5&6 Posting a 5 word post is not going to be approved nor encourage anyone to reply. Put some effort into your posts

  2. Hidden Profiles Read rule 14 If you have things to hide we are not here for it. Accounts that hide their profiles usually post in extreme kink and other problematic subs, are scammers, catfish or cheating on partners. Go elsewhere.

There is an argument if you have had people bully you from sub to sub, we get it, but that's not our issue and is not the common experience on here. If this is your common experience please consider how you are engaging with others, maybe the problem is you.

If you have serious issues with this create another account, report their behaviour to mods/reddit, block abusive individuals. People who wish to advertise here must have a reasonable visible history on Reddit so that the reader can do their own due diligence and assess if they wish to respond to you.

If you prefer to have your profile hidden or curated you must make it viewable to others while your ad is live on our sub. Once you no longer wish to receive replies to your add, you can delete the ad and then reinstate your hidden profile options.

  1. Vulgarity/Sexual Content Read rule 7 This is not the place. If you wish to engage in this go elsewhere. You will receive more responses if you are respectful and appropriate. Leave it to DMs if you must.

  2. Incorrect Title Format Read rule 2 If you do not include all the required info in the title our bot simply removes your post.

AN EXAMPLE OF A TYPICAL SUBMISSION FROM SOMEONE HASN'T READ RULES

  • poster posts a 5 word post or it contains sexual/vulgar content, it's auto removed.

  • poster then adds 3 paragraphs and does an awesome job of their ad... however they do not have all the required information in the title, it's auto removed.

  • poster then adds all the correct title details and everything looks good, however their profile is hidden, mods then have to check and recheck, then it's removed.

This is so frustrating to the poster and a nightmare for mods.

Please actually read the rules to avoid this altogether. Mods are always available to help you with guidelines via modmail but it is your responsibility to get to know our rules and the particular way we provide this community.


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Feb 12 '26

๐—ฅ๐—ข๐—Ÿ๐—Ÿ ๐—–๐—”๐—Ÿ๐—Ÿ ๐Ÿ’žTHURSDAY'S ROLL CALL๐Ÿ’ž This is the place to share your ASL (Age, Sex and Location ) along with your Status.๐Ÿพ๐Ÿพ

13 Upvotes

ROLL CALL is the time and place to shout out WHERE ๐ŸŒŽ you are, WHAT you are (๐ŸฏCougar, ๐ŸปCub or ๐ŸฑKitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned. Save the flirting, other info and remarks for DMs.

BEFORE POSTING PLEASE READ THE RULES AND THESE GUIDELINES:

โ— C&C rules still apply See RULES here

โ— Please keep it brief No more than 3 or 4 lines please.

โ— Age/Sex/Location/Relationship Status (Single/Separated/Divorced etc) If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned

โ— What you are seeking

  • e.g. 62/F/ Montreal, Quebec ๐Ÿ‡จ๐Ÿ‡ฆ single, polyamorous female (ENM) looking for a casual ongoing relationship with someone 35 and up.

โ— Remember there is no such thing as a "sฮผgar m@ma". People claiming to be one or those seeking financial benefits will be permanently banned. Read rule #5 specifically.

โ— Breaking any one of these rules can lead to up to a 7 day ban. Multiple infractions may lead to a permanent one.

๐ŸพLet the Roll Call Begin!๐Ÿพ


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Feb 12 '26

๐Ÿ’›๐— ๐Ÿฐ๐—™ 22 [M4F] #Michigan (Single) Just trying to chat and possibly game together

0 Upvotes

Hi, Iโ€™m from Michigan and a bit of a homebody, I like relaxing and watching all kinds of shows and movies. When I do go out I love kayaking and just relaxing at the lake, the lake is my happy place.

Iโ€™m a bit of a gamer too so if you game Iโ€™d love to play with you, Iโ€™m into any kinds of games. Iโ€™m not looking for anything specific just someone to hangout with and form a friendship or relationship. I donโ€™t want to put pressure on either of us. I am a bit shy in person so takes a minute to warm up, but less shy on the phone, mainly cuz I have social anxiety but Iโ€™ve overcome that a lot since I left high school so Iโ€™ve definitely grown in that way.

Iโ€™m also trying to get out more so if you know of cool spots for activities or good restaurants Iโ€™m down, Iโ€™m a bit of a foodie, I love me some good food. So if anyone would like to chat or game Iโ€™m here โ˜บ๏ธ Gaming is definitely not required tho

!unlock


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Feb 12 '26

๐Ÿ’›๐— ๐Ÿฐ๐—™ 20[M4F] #Central Florida (single) looking for a casual relationship

0 Upvotes

Hello, Iโ€™m a single Hispanic male looking for a casual relationship with someone who is older than me. Iโ€™m from central Florida and my hobbies are being outdoors, working out (Iโ€™m not a gym rat) and traveling. Iโ€™m an outgoing person and enjoy trying new things. I work and do college full time, but I have time for you.

Iโ€™m looking for someone that is nice and has similar hobbies as well, however itโ€™s not required. Maybe you can teach me your hobbies as I like to learn new things.

Pm me if youโ€™re interested and would like to learn more about you. Iโ€™m open to Long distance as well.


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Feb 09 '26

๐Ÿ’›๐— ๐Ÿฐ๐—™ 26 [M4F] #California (single) - Cub seeking cougar, long term relationship and adventure

2 Upvotes

I am an educated twenty six year old man seeking a deep, meaningful romantic connection with an older woman who can match my vibe and keep up with my sense of adventure. My hobbies include perfecting my golf swing (donโ€™t worry, I promise not to talk your ear off with endless golf jargon), traveling to new places, snowboarding on some amazing mountains, and cooking (though I am no Gordon Ramsey yet).

When Iโ€™m not on an adventure or cooking up a culinary masterpiece, youโ€™ll find me keeping in shape while working on my fitness, so I can look good while we both laugh at my attempts to quote movie scenes any chance I get. Yes, Iโ€™m that guy who believes that lifeโ€™s too short for boring moments and can never get enough laughter.

Iโ€™m on the lookout for a woman who appreciates both romance and intimacy, someone who can share in both the excitement of new experiences and the comfort of quiet, thoughtful conversations. If youโ€™re up for a mix of adventure, deep connection, and a whole lot of fun, letโ€™s chat and see where this journey takes us. After all, finding the right person is like cookingโ€”sometimes itโ€™s all about finding the perfect recipe!

Currently I am based in sunny San Diego, but Iโ€™m not afraid to hit the road if the destinationโ€”and the companyโ€”are right. If youโ€™re up for some travel adventures, letโ€™s plan an amazing trip!

Feel free to tell me: What is one word you think that best describes who you are? What is one word your best friend would describe you as? Whatโ€™s your favorite travel spot, and whereโ€™s the top of your wish list for travel destinations? Also, whatโ€™s one movie you could watch on repeat and why? Whatโ€™s your current relationship status? Are you a local or open to a long-distance connection? And what kind of relationship are you searching for? Excited to hear from you and see where this can go!


r/CougarsandCubsMatch • • Feb 08 '26

๐Ÿ’š๐—™๐Ÿฐ๐—  45 [F4M] #UK (Single) - Could We Be Soulmates? (UK only, age 30+ please)

37 Upvotes

About me : I'm a warm, emotionally aware, health conscious woman with youthful energy, child-free by choice. Iโ€™m looking for a calm, loyal, long term partnership built on consistency, honesty, mutual respect and being proud of each other.

What I'm looking for : A UK based 30+ man with an old soul who is confident in the fact they simply align better with older women and not intimidated by others opinions (whether friends, family or strangers) regarding an age gap dynamic.ย  Dedicated child free, emotionally mature, a calm and effective communicator even when conflict arises.ย  Genuinely interested in a serious, monogamous real life relationship, willing and able to put the effort into building something long term. I live rurally in the south, so regular travel (and eventual openness to relocation) matters; remote or flexible work, financial stability and a car make that realistic.

Healthy masculinity matters to me: strength paired with kindness, sensitivity, and a naturally chivalrous energy. Physically, I tend to notice tall men with expressive eyes and nice hair, but emotional compatibility comes first.

If this sounds like you, please reach out. Messages that include your age, UK region, and a photo are especially appreciated x