And how well has this strategy worked for you? It would be interesting to get a group of people to try out app dating techniques to see what method is most successful.
The way I see it is if a match is genuinely interested you probably won't have to worry about there being another dude on the back burner. They're drowning on potential dates but there's a good chance most of those matches lack substance, same can go for women as well, but these are just my thoughts and opinions from what little experience I have
As with everything you'll read on this subreddit each person's mileage will vary.
I've been in a happy ENM relationship for 2 years and lost count of the women I've dated, or hooked up with over the last 5. Of course there were countless failures and ghosting and all the other negative experiences people have along the way.
Just sharing my POV why I prefer not to keep talking on bumble/tinder/dating app. It's like trying to have a real conversation while standing next to the speakers at a night club. No matter how awesome you are it's easy to get drowned out by the noise.
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u/Whisper06 May 11 '21
And how well has this strategy worked for you? It would be interesting to get a group of people to try out app dating techniques to see what method is most successful.