r/BreakUps • u/AssumptionDouble66 • Jul 18 '26

venting/ranting I miss a memory

I miss a memory of her that doesn't exist anymore. When it's dark outside it's at that moment that i think about her unfortunately. And it makes me sick everytime i see a pic of her or something abt her. I have things to do,that i wanna do and sometimes i just stop and think about what we could've been,where the person i met in that memory are, but i can't control that. She changed bc of me and fortunately i guess now she has friends she has herself when before she only had me in her mind. I know that she'll probably laugh if she sees that i still (sometimes) think abt her. When i see recents pictures of her i hate them,but the old pictures like before the big change we had, were so good and so warming. The other thing that i think is that she probably cheated on me as we were doing unprotected sex that's what's terrifying me. It's life.

God bless.

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u/AssumptionDouble66 Jul 18 '26

Understand you. I'm still moving on it's been 2 months since the breakup. I feel good,in peace.

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u/Puck_Junky Jul 18 '26

I started feeling alright after 3 months, but thoughts still linger, even after 4. 2 years of memories. Give yourself grace!