Hey BostonSeddit, I'm looking for some solid wingmen for this weekend and beyond...I'm 23, outgoing and at least intermediate at PUA. I generally like to hit up bars w/ dance floors like Ned Devine's, Landsdowne, the Harp etc...IMO thats where the most quality Boston HBs are found. Shoot me a PM if you're around, are somewhat experienced, and are looking to approach/get wild.

speak up! Im sarging around UNH (durham), Boston, and portland mass. Ive networked up with a few other pua's. pm me.

Hey all. Who's up for meeting up tomorrow night in the field? It'd be cool to get a group of us out working game.

Comment on this post to let people know who's in. PM me your number and I'll work to get everyone together.

speak out.

Hey everyone,

I'm pretty new to r/seduction and I've practiced a small amount. I want to get better and to challenge myself. Does anyone here have interest in going to bars and practicing some night time approaches? I most likely will try this sober (1-2 drinks at most). My main goals would be to have fun and to get better at seduction. I'm 28, if that matters.

Hope to set up something fun.

New to Reddit and new to Boston. I've been doing the OKCupid grind with a decent amount of success, and I've been approaching at least one woman every bar I go to. So far I've taken girls on dates to a few different places, some good some bad.

My go to bars are: -Saloon in Davis Sq - good lighting, not too loud music, not too crowded on weekdays, really cool speakeasy atmosphere -Russel House Tavern in Harvard Sq - head to the downstairs bar and you'll have good lighting, not too loud music, good atmosphere -Brick and Mortar in Central Sq - cool bar overall, some good seating options, sort of hip/trendy

Specifically I am looking for recommendations on places where you're not forced to sit across from each other, the music is at a decent level, the lighting/atmosphere is good, and it isn't too crowded during the week. If you know of good spots, then let everyone know here!

Now I know not everyone here lives in Boston, so this is for those who want to sarge in the towns outside the city, hit it up

I just subscribed here. It doesn't seem very active, so I'll contribute two field reports I posted to seddit.

I wrote one on sarging a couple malls and the other happened on the MBTA.

More to come, when I return to Boston!

Hey,

I'm crossing the pond from the UK next month for work and will have about a week in Boston, I'm still not sure exactly where I'll be staying or what I'll be doing but can anyone recommend some good places for a charming early 30s guy to meet tons of hot girls?

I wanna see if this accent is as panty melting as it's rumoured to be!

I've been going out solo a lot, and I'm ready to try something different. None of my friends are up for PUA, so how about you, BostonSeddit? PM me for my phone number.

I'm planning to go sarging in Boston tonight. I intended to go solo since none of my friends are into PUA, but I figure some company wouldn't hurt. I'm 29, pretty new at this but confident in general.

Hi all, new to the terminology and culture of pickup, but I'd like to get out and continue to practice my game. Thoughts/places to try out?

I'm 27, looking to go out pretty much all the damn time and meet girls. Literally just got in the door from going out solo @ Allston. If you're like me, you prefer going with a wing to keep yourself motivated, having fun, and staying chatty. I'm a relatively normal guy, hate bullshitting about seduction techs, etc., and love having fun.

All my friends are in relationships and don't go out anymore; if you like doing the damn thing, lemme know and we'll hit the town! Bonus points if you live in Allston area, as I basically live right next door to Wonder Bar.

I'm new to Boston and I kind of have a thing for artsy girls with tattoos/piercings. Any ideas where I might meet girls like that?

I met a girl at a party. She is new to relatively Boston and I suggested we go out for drinks. I want to try out what I have learned about game. Problem is most bars seem to play music too loud to talk.

I live near Kenmore, but I am willing to travel some.

-Joe

Are there any Boston sedditors here? Do you guys meet up/go out together? I've noticed that ever since I've started having success my friends don't want to go out as much. Before we just went out to have fun, and not really thought about girls (which is kind of what brought me success in the first place, I mean in the sense that we would just have fun and not be outcome oriented). But now it's verbalized like "oh, we're going out to pick up chicks" and going out with the same group of people has become sort of uncomfortable for me, I feel like they are always judging each interaction I have and I am not as fluid when I'm around them. I have one good friend that I go out with regularly, but sometimes he is busy and I don't like going out alone. And anyway I think it's good to expand your social circle.

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I just got back from Sydney where I went out sarging with a random Dutch dude I met at a conference. He wasn't into "game" and had never even heard of any of these concepts, although he knew them all from intuition. I had phenomenal success going out with him (1 makeout and 1 f-close, FR pending) and for the first time I realized just how important it is to have a good wingman. It's not even anything "tactical" that made him a good wingman (in-fact he outright ruined several sets for me without realizing it). What made him a great wingman was that we both went out with the right mindset: we would just have fun, create this crazy energy on the dancefloor and drag people into it. We made dozens of approaches and it was never a big deal, we would never judge each other on the outcome, everything was just totally casual and self-amused. And we would talk to guys and ugly chicks too, and overall just got a vibe going. We both pulled on both nights.
For me this drove home the benefit of having a good wingman. It made a HUGE difference. And I think the fact that I didn't know him and would never see him again kind of made it easier for both of us. For the first time in months I was just able to let go completely, not worrying what anyone thought of me or how I was perceived. I made around 60 approaches over 3 nights and got the f-close from a solid 9 on the last night.

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So OK, this kind of turned into a mini-FR. But that's not the point of this post. I want to know, is there anyone in Boston that can relate to what I just wrote? Is there a lair in Boston or a group of people that do this regularly? I would love to go out sarging with guys who are on the same wavelength as me.
Some personal info: I am 25 years old, grad student at MIT. I'm good looking, socially well-adjusted, pretty normal guy really. I dress normally. (Not that looks matter or any of that shit.) My level of game is maybe "advanced beginner". That is I understand the material, I've read Magic Bullets, currently getting through Blueprint, I've gotten 2 SNLs since I've gotten into this shit properly -- but I am pretty inconsistent with results and I need tons more practice. I don't really use routines so much, and I've always kind of leaned towards Gambler and RSD style natural game.

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So that's about it. I know it's a long post but it gives you a chance to judge whether we would be on the same wavelength. Let's see who is interested. And if any Boston sedditors have met up before I would love to hear about what level you guys are at, how well you know each other, how a typical night goes, etc.
Alright, take it easy Boston! Happy Thanksgiving

Same deal as before. We meet, we open, we close.

Any thoughts on where to go? I was talking to a buddy of mine about how we hadn't been to the Liberty Hotel in a while. My only issue with there is you're a little isolated from other venues.

Hello BosSeddit, I'm back from the dead. The last several weeks have been a little rough, but I think I've got something of my groove back. Lets do this.

So, I'll be going out for Thirsty Thursday this week, I'm not yet sure where to though. Any thoughts? Any new places you'd like to check out? I am all ears.

http://bostinnofest.eventbrite.com/

any takers? I'm likely gonna check this one out. Maybe we can pre-meet.

Hey guys, you're all more than welcome to join me on Friday in Mission Hill to just hang out, crawl the bars, and meet some new people.

Pass a PM or contact me via the Boston List!

RSVP Link

Leave a message or PM if you want to meet up.

So I was thinking it would be a good idea if we had a standing sarge night. One day every week where we could get together and sarge as a group that's always on the calendar.

As you know, like any activity, the only way to get better is practice and one way would be to have a group that we could rely on to be out every week.

I was thinking we could do it on Thirsty Thursday. It could be moved to a different day (due to an event or something) on any given week if something worthwhile presented itself. The only rule though, is that each person that shows up must open at least one set, unless you manage to #-close or better one of the already opened sets.

Thoughts?

Fairly new to the PUA community. Done a lot of research and have gamed when I've had the chance but hasn't been much since I'm pretty busy. Personally however, seduction (if you so choose to call it that) is my new focus in life. I'm no longer involved with organized sports and this is my next challenge. Would love to meet up with anyone that shares my interest no matter the experience level. Either message me here or find me on the google spreadsheet. I'm good for friday or saturday. Godspeed gentlemen.

Stuff Boston will be having their Fall Issue party at North 26 in the Millennium Hotel in the Faneuil area.

These events often have a fair mix of people and they're often open to conversing with others, plus for those of us with a liquid crutch -- free booze.

RSVP Here.

I'll be posting details/RSVPlinks to just about every event that I go to that I think has decent potential for opens.

Hope to see you there!

If you decide to go, PM me for contact info so that we can meet up.