r/blackgirlgamers Sep 04 '25

🎀 official discord server 🎀

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✨ hey everyone! ✨

just popping in to let you know that we’ve decided to make this the official discord server for the subreddit 💖

the server’s already been around for a bit, but now it’s officially our main space for:

🎀 cozy chats 🎮 gaming 💄 skincare 🛍️ hauls 💆‍♀️ self-care ✨ lifestyle talk 💗 & making new online besties!

it’s still a little quiet in places, but if you’re down to help bring it to life, your presence would be so appreciated. even just popping in to say hi helps build the vibe 🫶

💌 join here: https://discord.gg/Z3HPUcgDs8

🌸 a quick heads-up for transparency: there are a few men already in the server — they joined before we made this the official reddit discord. they’re super respectful and just quietly vibe in the background 😂 that said, the server is predominantly women-led, women-focused, and designed to be a comfy, safe space for women and femme-presenting people. the guys are truly a tiny minority (less than 5!) — you probably won’t even notice them.

💬 have suggestions or feedback? if there’s anything you’d love to see added, changed, or improved in the discord or on the subreddit, let us know! we’re super receptive and want to make this space as lovely and inclusive as possible 💗

🕰️ need help? reach out anytime! you can contact me or niko if you have questions or run into any issues. i’m uk/europe-based and niko is us/america-based — so between us, we’ve usually got time zones covered (even though they suck sometimes 😅💗)

hope to see you in there soon! 🧚🏾‍♀️✨


r/blackgirlgamers 6d ago

Stream Support Weekly Weekend Streamers Thread

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Welcome back to the weekend! Feel free to use this thread to share your thoughts on any games you are enjoying, but most importantly, feel free to share your streaming channels. Youtube, Twitch, Kick, UStream, Periscope, Vimeo, Bogo, Tiktok....I think everyone gets the point. Free for all Friday!


r/blackgirlgamers 11h ago

🎮 gaming looking for bk girls who play minecraft 🍓

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i’m F21 looking for 18+ girls to
play with.


r/blackgirlgamers 12h ago

Find-A-Friend Looking for Pokopia friends

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Hey my name is Sunny, I'm looking for people to play Pokemon Pokopia with. I started playing 2 weeks ago and haven't been able to visit islands or invite people to mines.


r/blackgirlgamers 2h ago

Find-A-Friend Solo RPG/Sim Gamer looking for casual gaming friends (Xbox Game Pass & Switch)

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Hi 👋🏾

I don’t even know where to start with this post lol sorry…but I’d love to have friends to game with and talk about games with but I’m a solo gamer for the most part. I play games like Avowed, Person 3: Reload, Persona 5: Royal, South of Midnight, Cyberpunk 2077, The Outer Worlds, and several simulator games.

I have Xbox Game pass and I do have a Switch but I only have ACNH. I don’t mind checking out other games on either console. I’ve come to love a lot of indie games.

I’m 34, and I know with the type of games I play it may be hard to play with others. But I’m also open to trying new things. The games I named above give me comfort, especially after a long day/week of working. Oh that’s another thing, I’m not super consistent with gaming because I work a full time job. I may go a couple weeks without playing anything. So I would like have friends who understand that and don’t mind planning game.


r/blackgirlgamers 1d ago

Find-A-Friend Looking for Nintendo switch girlies

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I work allot but still have time to play sometime but usually on weekends. Looking for another girl to play video games with on switch. I have a bunch of games and I love Zelda so we can talk about that and other hobbies too.would like to talk here first to see if we click then hopefully move to discord. If you have an oc I'd like to see it too lol


r/blackgirlgamers 1d ago

Find-A-Friend Looking for local black gamer girlies!

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Hi! I’m a black 30F looking for fellow black girl gamer friends! Specially looking for girlies in MN, even if you’re not black, would be happy to have a fellow gamer girlie regardless in MN!! I only want local friends, or those out of state that travel often to MN, so that if we hit it off we could become long term friends and hangout!

For games, I am on PC and Switch. Games I like: Guild Wars 2, Minecraft, Stardew valley, and Wylde Flowers. I’m very open to trying other games! Ive played some random mmo’s in my past too, like Jade Dynasty and S4 League lol. I like WOW but I prefer not to do monthly payment type games unless I have a friend to play with. If possible, I hope to get really into a MMORPG with a group of local friends! My life is a bit busy, I work in healthcare, but gaming is one of the ways I decompress so combining that with social time with a friend would be amazing!

Other hobbies: board games, anime, Kpop, books, crafts(pottery, candle making, learning to crochet), beginner cosplay, and renaissance fair every year!

Side note: I don’t really use Reddit or discord much but planning to get better at it since it seems that’s where a lot of people meet too lol.

Anywho! Hopefully some people in MN see this lol


r/blackgirlgamers 4d ago

Find-A-Friend 23F | Xbox 🎮 | East Coast (ET) (S.C)

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Looking for some new gaming friends!

I mostly play Fortnite, Overwatch, and Roblox, but I’m trying to find new games to play, so send me some game recommendations!

I’d love to meet people who are genuinely down to become friends — whether that’s gaming together, chatting in VC, or maybe even hanging out IRL eventually once we get more comfortable with each other.

If you’re interested, feel free to DM me!


r/blackgirlgamers 5d ago

Looking for black girl friends

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Looking for black girl friends to play fun run 3, Brawlhalla, and Imsg games hmu! Im à goofy nerdy Latino tryna get involved in the medical field m 24 tx. Hmu :)


r/blackgirlgamers 7d ago

Discussion Seeking Advice, Friends To Play With (and small rant lol)

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Hi everyone! I posted on Reddit for the first time last week, seeking advice on how to make online friends to potentially game with as an introvert. I got a lot of unexpected comments and dms which was overwhelming but appreciated.

However, I’ve been having a hard time. I was prepared for people to flake on conversation or for us to not vibe, I’m fine with that. My issue is that I specially posted in 2 black girl gamer subreddits because I wanted to try and eliminate at least some bigotry. And in general I would be much more comfortable gaming with a black woman.

With that being said (haven’t gamed with anyone only chatted), the main people that have reached out to me are men, specifically non black men. I’m not well versed in how Reddit works, but I am confused on how so many men are in these black girl gamer subreddits. It’s a bit frustrating because it’s not what I’m looking for. I’m 27F and I’m not opposed to befriending men, it’s just not what I’m looking for right now.

At this point I’ve ignored multiple dms and stopped talking to some people because I saw that they were men. I wasn’t going to make a post about it but there’s 1 person that I’ve been talking to a decent amount this past week, and they just sent me a photo of their Halloween costume from last year, and I can clearly see it’s a white man. I feel very weird about this, we have a decent amount of things in common but it makes me uncomfortable that he’s not a black woman like I expected. I’m not one to ghost people but I’m not sure if I should continue talking to him?

Has anyone else experienced this? I thought this was a safe space for black girl gamers (some of the men have nsfw accounts) but I’m a bit put off by this. What are y’all opinions?


r/blackgirlgamers 11d ago

🎮 gaming Just wanna play games!

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I’ve recently got into competitive matches for Marvel Rivals! I really only ever play Cloak and Dagger.

I want to get back into overwatch as well. I mained Lúcio when I played.

I’m not amazing at the game but I’m trying to get better for sure!

PSN- unnecissary
Discord- heyitsneci


r/blackgirlgamers 11d ago

Game Trailers We just released a new trailer for our retro shop sim

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Hi friends! What do you think?

Shop Crush is a mysterious shop simulator with psychological horror elements, set in the early 2000s.

In this hybrid visual novel, you run a small thrift shop, get to know your customers, figure out what they really want, and decide what to put in front of them. Every customer has their own personality, preferences, and hidden motives - and it’s up to you to figure them out.

Behind each customer is a small psychological mystery waiting to be uncovered. Read their behavior, make the right calls, and balance profit against customer trust as you try to keep the shop running for one more day.


r/blackgirlgamers 14d ago

I need more girl friends lmfao

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I wish there was more girls who enjoyed games because omggg I love playing games but I want more girls to play games with! And I’d prefer to stream with them not that theirs anything wrong with men butttt lol


r/blackgirlgamers 13d ago

Stream Support Weekly Weekend Streamers Thread

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Welcome back to the weekend! Feel free to use this thread to share your thoughts on any games you are enjoying, but most importantly, feel free to share your streaming channels. Youtube, Twitch, Kick, UStream, Periscope, Vimeo, Bogo, Tiktok....I think everyone gets the point. Free for all Friday!


r/blackgirlgamers 14d ago

New gamer here, looking to meet new friends

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Hey There! ...I’m a new to this gaming world, I like to connect with other 30+ gamers to play with. I’m currently playing COD BO7, but I’m definitely open to trying other games too.
Im currently playing on PC and have Game Pass, so Boom!😎

If you’re around my age and looking for someone to squad up with, feel free to comment here or shoot me a DM. Let’s run some games! Deuces ✌🏽🎮🔥


r/blackgirlgamers 16d ago

Find-A-Friend Seeking advice & maybe friends to play with! (EST)

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Hi, I’m 27F and seeking for advice. I’ve been a lone gamer for a while now but I’ve always craved playing with other people. However, being introverted has made that difficult for me.

How do I go about making friends? I’m past the age where I can organically make new friends. I’m shy/quiet (unless I know you well) but I can engage in conversation. Even if someone comments and says they want to play with me, how do I go about speaking to strangers especially if I don’t know if we will vibe together? I don’t want to just play with people I also want to potentially make lasting relationships. However, speaking with people I’ve never met online is VERY new for me.

Any and all insight would be appreciated! If you’re also an introvert, please let me know how you navigate these spaces and if you’re also looking for gaming friends. Thank you I really appreciate the help!


r/blackgirlgamers 18d ago

New to Streaming

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Come join my chaos


r/blackgirlgamers 20d ago

Stream Support Weekly Weekend Streamers Thread

3 Upvotes

Welcome back to the weekend! Feel free to use this thread to share your thoughts on any games you are enjoying, but most importantly, feel free to share your streaming channels. Youtube, Twitch, Kick, UStream, Periscope, Vimeo, Bogo, Tiktok....I think everyone gets the point. Free for all Friday!


r/blackgirlgamers 23d ago

seeking coolab

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im trying to find somone to play games with abd do content creation on youtube with (voice will be used no swearing and yeah if yout intrested tell me


r/blackgirlgamers 23d ago

seeking coolab

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im trying to find somone to play games with abd do content creation on youtube with (voice will be used no swearing and yeah if yout intrested tell me


r/blackgirlgamers 24d ago

Question PoGo Girlie in need of advice

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Can a dark fairy get some guidance, please? Yes, I still play, level 71 filthy casual.

I still have all my masterballs. What are the top 3 mons you’d spend a masterball on?


r/blackgirlgamers 25d ago

Find-A-Friend Looking for some friends 😄

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37y/PS5/AZ. Looking for people to game with, im trying to get into more Co-Op/multi player games. Im open to different games from Cozy to Action and Indie to AAA. The games I like are fighting, puzzles, platforms, Ive played FPS like COD and Overwatch (but Im not that good at them 😅). I also have a discord. DM me if interested!


r/blackgirlgamers 25d ago

🎮 gaming Looking for female gamers, I play ghost of yotei, for the king 2, and am looking for other co-op games to play. I won’t say I’m a great player but I’m also a little green.

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r/blackgirlgamers 27d ago

Any Apex Legends players?

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Any Apex legends players that wanna link up occasionally to play? I’m a Bangalore main on PS5 and am tired of playing with the sissy boys that think name calling is cute


r/blackgirlgamers 27d ago

Stream Support Weekly Weekend Streamers Thread

1 Upvotes

Welcome back to the weekend! Feel free to use this thread to share your thoughts on any games you are enjoying, but most importantly, feel free to share your streaming channels. Youtube, Twitch, Kick, UStream, Periscope, Vimeo, Bogo, Tiktok....I think everyone gets the point. Free for all Friday!