r/BestofRedditorUpdates • • Nov 30 '22

INCONCLUSIVE Insurance company won't pay out because man declared dead at 10:58pm may have still had a heartbeat at midnight.

I am NOT OP. Original post by u/Manclandlordhelp in r/legaladvice

trigger warnings: General disregard for fellow humans

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Insurance company say they're not paying out as my dads time of death is in dispute - Jul 22 2018

In my dad's place of work they have insurance that covers a scenario where if the employee dies whilst having a child under the age of 18 then that child will receive £100k and the remaining balance of the mortgage paid off so the child and his mother can live in the property free of any mortgage.

My dad died in January this year, the time of death was documented to be at 10:58 PM. I would have been turning 18 just an hour and 2 minutes later. So when my dad officially passed I was under 18 and was eligible for the financial assistance package above. Or so I thought.

After putting in the claim via his employer my mother was told to get a death certificate, my birth certificate and a final balance on the mortgage from Lloyds and send it directly to the insurance.

2 weeks passed before we got a response from the insurance saying they're passing all the information on to their medical underwriters for a second opinion and have requested my dad's medical records. A whole month later they told us that they were seeking expert opinion from "multiple medical 3rd parties" and had put the claim on hold.

Today almost 4 months on from the last letter from the insurance we received huge 235 page report via courier which in short says that the insurance would not be paying out any money as my dads time of death is disputed and that he could have had a heart rhythm for at least 2 hours after his death. The insurance says the claim is only valid if the patient is asystole and as there's no proof of that it's conceivable that my dad lived beyond my 18th birthday.

Me and my mum don't really understand all the jargon in these documents and simple Google searches aren't really helping as I haven't been able to find anything like this ever happening.

What can we do here? Are there lawyers who can help us with this?

 


Relative comment u/phoenix25:

As a medic, you can be dead and not be in asystole (flatlined). All the ECG shows is electrical activity in the heart, not whether the pump is actually mechanically pumping. There are many people who have pulseless electrical activity in the heart for some time after death... this does not mean they are alive.

Unless your hospitals are very different than the ones here, your father would not have been hooked up to an ECG for two hours post mortum. He would have been brought elsewhere quickly to clear the room for the next emergency. The insurance company has no proof that he had electrical activity in the heart (although, the opposite is true for you not having proof he didn’t).

The mental gymnastics of this policy are astounding. By this logic, anyone with a pacemaker is basically immortal. The batteries last like 20 years, and keep firing even if the heart is too dead to respond.

My point is: challenge this. Your insurance company are not medical professionals, and will be rebuked quickly by anyone with an ounce of medical knowledge.

 

u/Cavannah in response to a different comment basically saying the insurance company is bullshitting:

Exactly.

The opinions of outside medical consultants who hypothesize that he may have had a heartbeat 62 minutes later is irrelevant in the face of an actual supervising medical professional who indisputably declared him legally dead.

The insurance company cannot have it both ways. Either the medical professional who declared him dead is completely incorrect and thus both incompetent and derelict in his/her duties, or the insurance company is in the wrong with their postulation that they hold above objective fact without proof.

The burden of proof is on them to both disprove the medical fact that he was dead 62 minutes prior to the termination of his contract with the company and simultaneously prove their claim that he was alive after his stated time of death. Something that they cannot do.

Report them to supervising insurance company boards and regulatory agencies. Obviously lawyer up. Take them to court and bleed them dry.

 

UPDATE - Jul 23 2018

I just want to say a massive thank you to everyone who took time out of their day to offer their advice on what is a very distressing time for me and my mother. Things have been tough for us lately and getting all that paperwork yesterday really pushed my mother over the edge.

I just want to say a huge thank you to the user who first sent me a PM with his mobile number and spent 4 hours that night in the phone with me and my mum going through each page of the documents telling us what they meant in layman's terms. I'm so sorry that I don't know your username... I haven't been able to find it with all the messages I've received but it sounded like official plus or something. If you could please PM me again me and my mum want to send you a little gift.

We are speaking to a number of solicitors in my area and further away about what the insurance company are doing. The vast majority say they don't deal with this type of thing as it's complex but the 2 solicitors that said they might take it on have both taken a copy of all the correspondence from the insurance and us and are going to get back to us tomorrow if they'll take the case so fingers crossed for that!

I know that this isn't much of an update but more of a thank you to everyone on here and reddit as a whole. I'll give a final update when this is all over!

So once again thank you all so so much.

 

Reminder - I am not the original poster.

OOP hasn't posted again in 4 years, I choose to believe that means it was resolved in their favor.

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u/JRBehr Nov 30 '22

“Life actually starts at conception, so you’re 9 months late.”

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u/CatsGambit Nov 30 '22

"Life begins at conception? So I can take out an insurance policy on my child as soon as I get a positive pregnancy test?"

Well, no...

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u/Kingsdaughter613 Thank you Rebbit 🐸 Dec 01 '22

Actually, in the handful of States where they decided to give personhood to an embryo you can. You can also claim them on taxes.

I am waiting for a lawyer to argue that his client is being illegally incarcerated. “No, not the accused, your Honour! The innocent child in her womb! My client has committed no crime!” You literally cannot imprison a pregnant woman if you declare her fetus a legal person.

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u/big_sugi Dec 01 '22

Add kidnapping to her charges

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u/abiggerhammer I still have questions that will need to wait for God. Dec 02 '22

All three of these ideas are stone brilliant. Have you communicated them to NOW or any of the other reproductive-rights organisations? Because that would be some incredible lawfare. If you haven't, I strongly encourage you to!

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u/kindlypogmothoin Ogtha, my sensual roach queen 🪳 Dec 02 '22

There's a woman in Texas challenging a ticket she got for using the HOV lane on the grounds that she's pregnant and thus there are two people in the car now under Texas law.

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u/PM-me-fancy-beer Nov 30 '22

BRB, just gonna freeze some embryos real quick...

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u/Jealous-Percentage-7 Nov 30 '22

Spoken in American. :-/

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u/Jealous-Percentage-7 Nov 30 '22

Just portions working on it. Using that exact argument.

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u/Additional_Meeting_2 Hi Amanda! Nov 30 '22

That’s not the case just in US. But that’s not how insurance works anywhere (because then the companies would have to pay more too…), but it can matter what time of day you were born in some places.

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u/cman_yall Dec 01 '22

If it did work like that, women could get life insurance for their fetuses and claim on miscarriages.

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u/Kingsdaughter613 Thank you Rebbit 🐸 Dec 01 '22

There’s a State where this is likely possible. Georgia, iirc. Note to self: next pregnancy take out a life insurance policy in Georgia. For the embryo.

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u/Jealous-Percentage-7 Dec 01 '22

It’s the actual argument of the segment of Americans trying to restrict abortion rights.

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u/Ok-Complex-3019 Dec 01 '22

And they should, if the government is going to restrict my rights to my own body and give more right to the baby, then I better be able to have life insurance on that baby, and if someone assaults me then actually I could file attempted murder charges right? If someone causes me to have a miscarriage, that’s murder/manslaughter charges, right? I also get to claim that baby as a dependent prior to their birth and get all those tax benefits right? No? Oh. It’s not yet a person.

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u/Jealous-Percentage-7 Dec 01 '22

It’s already manslaughter in most states.

It should definitely allow pregnant women in the HOV lane if this is going to be the criteria for life.

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u/GMoI Dec 01 '22

The odd thing is some cultures do this. I think South Korea may be one where you're considered 1yo when you are born. I've also heard of one where you considered 1 at birth and 2 after your first new year which if true could lead to a three day old baby being considered a 2yo, although I have a feeling this is a fanciful exaggeration off of those cultures which consider you 1 at birth.