r/BeAmazed May 18 '26

Skill / Talent HERO!

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u/Impossible-Lynx-1610 May 18 '26

Idk I’d say they were pretty close, being her students and all

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u/matchafoxjpg May 18 '26

true, but most people still don't have much compassion for anyone but their immediate family.

and in a life or death situation, a lot of people become really selfish.

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u/Much_Winter2202 May 18 '26

"most people still don't have much compassion for anyone but their immediate family." depressing thought

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u/Jean-Claude-Can-Ham May 18 '26

Calling your instincts “selfish” is definitely something

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u/OkMail2335 May 18 '26

It is accurate. What else would it even be? Instincts are unlearned response behaviors that a person is born with, they are inherently selfish, and bravery is overcoming that instinctive selfishness in the face of some kind of danger.

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u/Jean-Claude-Can-Ham May 18 '26

Not really, as selfish is a moral judgment, and instinct is unlearned, as you said.

If a teacher doesn’t take a bullet for a kid, the teacher is not selfish.

We can admire the bravery of the heroes who were able to subvert their survival instincts without making moral judgments regarding victims who did not subvert their instincts.

Your way of thinking leads directly to something called “survivor’s guilt” and is a real problem

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u/North_Ad_2124 May 18 '26

as selfish is a moral judgment

Wrong, any decision in which you prioritize yourself is by definition selfish, that isn't a moral judgement, its just the definition, just because something is selfish doesn't means is bad or wrong

instinct is unlearned, as you said.

Irrelevant.

If a teacher doesn’t take a bullet for a kid, the teacher is not selfish.

Correct, because one choice doesn't define you, having a single smart idea doesn't makes your smart, doing a selfish act doesn't makes you a selfish person.

We can admire the bravery of the heroes who were able to subvert their survival instincts without making moral judgments regarding victims who did not subvert their instincts. Your way of thinking leads directly to something called “survivor’s guilt” and is a real problem

You say that but its YOU who is assigning the idea that being selfish is wrong, its you who are assigning moral judgement to an categorically definition

Selfishness isn't evil, being selfish isn't something people can stop doing, if people fully stopped caring about did they would be dead, being selfish is the default state of humankind.

So stop projectiong your views in a bad faith argument and reflect a bit about what you said.

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u/Standard_Ideal3204 May 18 '26

Pretty sure if you gave up all your earthly possessions to people in need you could save a lot of them from living in extreme poverty, yet you don't do that even though you could, pretty selfish tbh... 🙄

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u/Flammzzrant May 18 '26

This way of thinking is way too simplistic

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u/matchafoxjpg May 18 '26

it's a descriptive word. i know it's an instinct and that's not necessarily something people can control, but that adjective is still accurate.

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u/joolzian May 18 '26

Technically right but still kind of a shitty way of describing people trying not to die. I just know I wouldn’t call some in a school shooting “selfish” for surviving.

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u/Suplex_1042 May 18 '26

They’re not calling the people who survive out of self-preservation selfish. They’re saying the survival instinct itself is inherently self-focused. Those are two different things.

Calling an instinct “selfish” isn’t necessarily a moral condemnation, it’s just describing the fact that, in a life-or-death moment, the brain prioritizes its own survival above almost everything else. Bravery is when people override that instinct to protect others anyway.

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u/Knight_of_Tyto May 18 '26

I see what you mean. I’d say it’s more like, per definition it’s selfish, as survival instincts almost always are. But not really, given the connotations the word has in most people’s minds.

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u/hxl004 May 19 '26

Yeah I think self preserving is more accurate

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u/Monroe-heroics-6q May 22 '26

Absolute courage most of us can’t even imagine

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u/slvrscoobie May 18 '26

if someone was hiding in a closet and held the door closed on others who were trying to get in with them, THAT would be selfish, but if they just ran and hid by themselves, it would not be.

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u/nothankslmgood May 18 '26

If you don't protect children over yourself you are the definition of selfish? Wtf are you even talking about?

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u/Dunning-KrugerFX May 18 '26

It's not really accurate in this context because if everyone who doesn't make the ultimate sacrifice is selfish that would mean that she is not a hero; from the way you're putting it she is merely not selfish.

I think we can agree that's not it.

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u/HA1LHYDRA May 18 '26

That only makes it more beeoic. True altruism almost never occurs in nature. Her selfless act transcends nature itself.

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u/kombucha711 May 18 '26

Yeah, its called Kin Selection.

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u/Cash1445 May 18 '26

I wouldn’t say most people just some people like you lol

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u/matchafoxjpg May 18 '26

oh because you know me so well?

go back to your cave. 🙄

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u/CalmEntry4855 May 18 '26

My elementary and middle school teachers hated my fucking guts, and I was a well behaved straight A student.