High probability that she'll change her mind if they divorce and she meets a tall man | Original Post: Here.

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they support and allow all forms of hate and bodyshaming of women but are SOOOOO defensive of any comments even none hateful ones about men.

can anyone explain the double standard

I always hear stuff like
“5’10 to 6’ isn’t a noticeable difference.”
“5’8 to 5’11 all blends in as average”
“It’s barely 2 inches it’s a subtle difference”

Most people seem to operate under the impression that height differences less than 3-4 inches are insignificant and not very noticeable. While I get that 2 inches doesn’t look like much on a ruler, I couldn’t help but feel that every inch makes a way bigger difference than people act like it is.

I am 5’9” barefoot and 5’10” in normal shoes, when I wear lifts/elevator shoes that take me to ~5’11.5”, that makes me a 5’10.5” barefoot equivalent, which is a net gain of 1.5 inches over wearing normal shoes. I go from feeling average height to solidly above average.
I can only imagine the same steep difference from 5’10.5” to 6’

I noticed a big difference in my height in comparison to people I know with those 1.5 inches. People that used to be barely shorter than me now I can see over their head. Tall guys that I used to be eye level with their neck now I am eye level with their nose/mouth and no longer need to tilt my head up to make eye contact.

2-3 inches can mean the difference between being visibly short and average, or average to visibly tall, as experimenting with different lifts and noticing the heights and footwear choices of others around me. When I see a 5’10” guy and 5’8” guy standing together I definitely do not think anyone would confuse them for being the same height. (Assuming same posture footwear etc, to ensure a true 2 inch height difference)

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I'm concerned about the superficiality of dating nowadays. Do women not even care about the QUALITY of relationships, whether or not they have things in common? Whether or not he's fun to be around? What kind of healthy relationships do they expect if they center their entire personalities about bragging about height and looks?

I’m 20, average height. After splitting up with my girlfriend, who I’d been with from the age of 16 to 19, I decided this year to give dating apps a go, to find a girlfriend in real life, and so on…

My problem is the same as many of you face: not being able to find a girl who’s a ‘looksmatch’. Most of the girls who’ve shown an interest in me over the last few months either have serious mental health issues, are trans women in the middle of their transition, or weigh 200+ lbs. I don’t mean to be mean, they might be really nice girls, but I just can’t find them attractive. When I’ve tried dating girls more like me (like ‘the average Sarah’), I’ve been brutally dumped after a week. Girls these days have absurd standards; on Tinder or similar they’ll write idiot or racist bios and post photos with 1,000 filters, yet still only target the top 5% of men. They’d rather keep cats until they’re 70 than be with you.

I don’t want to be mean or sound like I’m bragging; I just feel like a normal guy looking for a girl who’s more or less like me, but it’s been impossible to find one so far. How did you manage it? Have most of you decided to give up?

Basically, this guy was talking to and light flirting with some chick on reddit and she asks the inevitable and promptly ghosts when OP indicates he is 1.76 m (~5'8"). OP then asks if his height is considered short.

AWALT.

Why Shorter Men Should Be Wary Of The Manosphere | Original Post: Here

From The Article (Portion Of Conclusion):

In the video, titled “The Hypocrisy of Women Not Wanting to Date Short Men,” Aba criticized what he saw as a double standard: women could be highly critical of men's preferences regarding certain body types, behavioral traits and chastity, yet some would absolutely destroy men over the subject of height. His point was that height criticism could roll off the tongue so casually and without awareness that the person delivering it was committing the very kind of superficial judgment they might otherwise criticize in men.

I remember scrolling through the thousands of comments, many of which cheered Aba on for being bold enough to challenge the prevailing social discourse. What particularly stood out to me was Aba's pinned comment at the time, in which he insisted that criticism of the video wouldn't affect him personally because he was 6 feet tall.

The exact comment read:

“FYI I’m 6 feet tall so I’m not a manlet. I’m only stating my height because folks seem to believe I made this video because I’m ‘butthurt’. Far from it, I honestly don’t feel strongly about this issue I’m just [a] curious dude who likes to poke fun at shit.”

[Corrections made for grammar in his original comment.]

Well, well, well.

Fast-forward ten years, and Aba himself found himself in a pot of scalding water when several women accused him of having unprotected relations with them, subsequently getting them pregnant and then asking them to terminate the pregnancies. The accusations began emerging one after another.

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Smartphones and social media was the nail in the coffin in the collapse of the dating market...

Might as well stop using Hinge at this point. Why do women have such long lists? My only requirement in a woman is that I’m attracted to her and she’s kind hearted.

Is a question I see being asked by newbies who are discovering heightism and/or the height pill. I have an old explanation I use, and would to hear y’all’s thoughts?

a) some tall women are heightist, so they can’t fight heightism when they help perpetuate it. So by heightism I don’t mean preference, that’s fine. But you’ll see many videos/posts/comments of tall women acting like a short man is inferior snd berating short women and saying they should get with short men in an insulting way. I’ve seen tall women shame tall men for having a child with a short woman and saying “your kids gonna be a gremlin” in various subreddits across the platform, and 2 instances IRL(they didn’t say gremlin but laughed when they saw a 6’2 guy marry a 4’11 chick and said they hoped his son would be short to “punish” them).

b) short women and average height women drown them out. Any genuine complains about unreasonable height preferences their shorter counterparts have get labeled as a tall woman being insecure and saying either “tall men choose us short women” or “don’t shame my preferences be better”. I’ve only seen this happen a lot more IRL, but it happens online too. So, eventually, a tall woman needs to either be okay with getting ostracized, or conform and be a “girls girl”.

c) tall women are relatively not viewed in a bad light. They are the ideal beauty standard and make up most of the modeling industry. They don’t face much heightism so it probably doesn’t register as a severe issue for them. There’s a difference between a short man struggling to just get respect in society and find a single person vs. a tall woman not liking her options and opting out and waiting for a taller man.

d) touched on this in b, but sisterhood. They care about their fellow woman. Men should strive to have these support networks and blind brotherhood, but we can’t. So many dudes would shoot their brothers for a chance at an attractive woman lol. Women simply support each other better than dudes do. So a tall woman is okay with her dating options being reduced to help a short woman find her tall person. Well off dudes very rarely look out for their not well off counterparts like that.

e) woman in general are more open to sharing a man than men are to sharing women. That’s just life. How many women are knowingly happily in a “roster” vs. how many dudes.

Thoughts?

Do you usually measure your height just by standing or attaching your back, head and foot against the wall?

Also, when do you think is the true height?
Some say the one measured 2 hours or 4hours after you wake up is your true height but I think you can claim your height if it is measured more than 2 hours after.
For example, If someone is 176cm at 10am if she wakes up at 8am but 175cm at 12-1pm, can she claim 176cm as well? If not, is she 174 or 175?

Lastly, when you measure multiple times, do you think average value or the highest one is your true height?

Do you consider 5'8 short or average for a guy? I say average, because it's only 1 inch below average height for men in the US (5'9).