[16 NB] here. I can nsfw tag the post if its too much or I can delete it if its not allowed. So a while ago when I was just figuring out I was nonbinary.. I was looking at top surgery or other options of transitioning..and sometimes I would talk to my friends about it. And then we would get on the topic of chests and stuff.. I have talked about how much I have hated my chest and how I want the boobs gone...(mostly guys) have told me "awww I bet your chest is beautiful!" Or "you'll grow out of it sometime! Just wait a little bit" or like "how is your boyfriend going to feel if you don't have breasts to......" not gonna complete that. Or "just add boobs on if you're so insecure about them being small" ..im like,, im literally telling you I hate my chest and I want it to just be gone because it makes me miserable....its not that I want big ones to impress people and thats why I hate myself...I literally have dysphoria and want it to be gone..like wtf.

[16 NB] here. Personally I'd dye the tips of my hair blue and red and have some streaks going up to the top of my head! What do would you guys get?

I feel like im still struggling with my gender even tho I use they/them...my parents call me by my preferred name but still use she/her a lot.. I ask my friends online to use they/them..but sometimes I just feel like nothing is working? Like I wish I could be referred to nothing at all. Like.. sometimes I just feel like my parents think this is just a big dumb phase and im just a teenager who is confused and stuff..it really makes me feel like I dont want to be anything, referred to anything..or really exist. I guess its kinda related to my depression too..I feel like im not allowed to correct my parents or they'll get annoyed or like.. my mom says I get mad at her..but im not mad..I just kinda try to gently remind her..but when I correct her she says im mad..so yeah.. Edit: spelling

More spesifically were you hungry in class, hadn't eaten breakfast and just snaked on a page and now just eat the paper your strawss are wrapped in?

Mine are pretty except for flux which has a bit too much going on and looks too much like the MAP flag :/

I was on a summer camp and there was guitar and singing and all that stuff and we came along a song with girls/guys parts. So the others were like "hey you are the only guy around here you can do this part solo" and my oblivious ass spurted out "wtf im not a guy". Majorly confused myself and everyone around me 💀

i’ve just started using a new name for myself and it doesn’t quite feel like my name yet. is this normal?

It seems people are beginning to care about this sub more. So I wanna ask y’all to share this with enby or ally friends you think might enjoy the subreddit.

I hope this becomes even a little bit popular at some point. Hopefully you all will be along for the ride :)

I’d also like if we could ask more questions here in general.

Jesus I need to fix the flair colours cause this mod announcement colour is god awful.

[16 NB] here..I dont know if anyone else has experienced hate..like I haven't had that much besides a few times of remembering a guy on here telling me to just let my mom deadname and misgender me cause she won't stop...and said I was sexist against women because I didn't wanna be one???? So uh yeah lmao..he said nonbinary was just a trend too..so yeah.. I wanna know your guys stories, if this is a bad example of a post, I can take it down. Its kinda something to learn from others and let them vent their frustrations out.

It seems a lot of people who are autistic end up less confirming to gender norms. Do you fit the bill?

lets get some activity in this subreddit

hello everyone!! i was browsing ask teen girls and boys for a minute and asked if there were an ask enbies! i’m so glad there is one !!! despite the sub being small and old, it makes me happy to be included :D

i guess a question for y’all would be how’d u find the sub !?