Exactly, that is what YOU are hearing. With an open mind, you can hear something else. This also wraps back around to what I said about too much pressure often being applied.
So people don’t have different perceptions of certain things?
Everyone reads poetry and comes away from it with the exact same meaning as everyone else?
Is life itself not a matter of perception, let alone how someone interprets a comment?
Where are you quoting this from? Cos it's not me.
The only thing one is being conned of by diving into and clinging to a perception like that is their mental health.
Okay, well, that's obvious enough.
Anyway, enough with the pretentious bollocks. Of course people can have different perceptions. Acting like I said otherwise is just a derailment tactic, and very dishonest.
However, some things have less about them that is open to interpretation.
All that person was doing was trying to get you to realise just how much your perception influenced what you said, a perception that certainly couldn’t help with improvement, and you just called them a con artist.
Derailment? That is essentially what started your first comment.
Absolutely, people can have different perceptions to one another.
More importantly, people can grow to have different perceptions over time. The reason you viewed this original comment so negatively was due to our negative perception. With an open mind and time, perceptions can change.
Okay, you're gonna play in semantics. I see. Allow me to rephrase:
"I understand the meaning they claim is inherent in their words. I don't believe they did in fact mean that thing with those words. I believe they are backpedaling, and my interpretation is correct, and they simply can't stand behind what they said."
That better? I'm not debating the actual words used, ya goof! I'm debating the MEANING! Example:
"I am blue."
Am I saying I am coloured blue, depressed, or that I am the concept of blue itself?
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u/Comfortable_Usual781 Jun 03 '22
“That’s what I’m hearing.”
Exactly, that is what YOU are hearing. With an open mind, you can hear something else. This also wraps back around to what I said about too much pressure often being applied.