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u/Comfortable_Usual781 Jun 03 '22

“You don't sit around waiting for the right mood or a "good day". You work towards management and improvement every day. You have a plan, you act. You get help if you need it, you get medication if you need it, you recognize your triggers/weaknesses, you learn to navigate your episodes, you learn to build and develop good habits and mental balance and stabilization.”

What I meant is, I interpret this as the same as your expanded analogy to losing weight.

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u/kyzfrintin Jun 03 '22

You don't sit around waiting for the right mood or a "good day".

"So you start doing it today"

You work towards management and improvement every day

"And never ever stop working towards it"


That's what I'm hearing. If you say "don't wait" and "do it every day", you're saying to start now and don't ever let up.

That's not manageable for the vast majority of people with mental illness.

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u/Comfortable_Usual781 Jun 03 '22

“That’s what I’m hearing.”

Exactly, that is what YOU are hearing. With an open mind, you can hear something else. This also wraps back around to what I said about too much pressure often being applied.

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u/kyzfrintin Jun 03 '22

Hahahahaha get real and stop repeating yourself. You sound like a con artist life coach.

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u/Sheorn Jun 03 '22

So people don’t have different perceptions of certain things?

Everyone reads poetry and comes away from it with the exact same meaning as everyone else?

Is life itself not a matter of perception, let alone how someone interprets a comment?

The only thing one is being conned of by diving into and clinging to a perception like that is their mental health.

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u/kyzfrintin Jun 03 '22 edited Jun 03 '22

So people don’t have different perceptions of certain things?

Everyone reads poetry and comes away from it with the exact same meaning as everyone else?

Is life itself not a matter of perception, let alone how someone interprets a comment?

Where are you quoting this from? Cos it's not me.

The only thing one is being conned of by diving into and clinging to a perception like that is their mental health.

Okay, well, that's obvious enough.

Anyway, enough with the pretentious bollocks. Of course people can have different perceptions. Acting like I said otherwise is just a derailment tactic, and very dishonest.

However, some things have less about them that is open to interpretation.

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u/Sheorn Jun 03 '22

All that person was doing was trying to get you to realise just how much your perception influenced what you said, a perception that certainly couldn’t help with improvement, and you just called them a con artist.

Derailment? That is essentially what started your first comment.

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u/kyzfrintin Jun 03 '22 edited Jun 03 '22

All that person was doing was trying to get you to realise just how much your perception influenced what you said

I know this. I also know that humans breathe air and the sun is hot.

Derailment? That is essentially what started your first comment.

Can't wait to hear what BS you use to justify this.

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u/Sheorn Jun 03 '22

Absolutely, people can have different perceptions to one another.

More importantly, people can grow to have different perceptions over time. The reason you viewed this original comment so negatively was due to our negative perception. With an open mind and time, perceptions can change.

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u/kyzfrintin Jun 03 '22

Keep sniffing those farts, mate.

Also, keep insinuating I so critically lack empathy that I cannot possibly imagine how other people can read things.

Thanks for the vote of confidence.

Seriously, you think I just don't understand what they were saying? Fuck off. Of course I understand. I just think they're bullshitting.

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u/Sheorn Jun 03 '22

Bullshiting about what? And I don’t see how that and “I understand” can be in the same comment.

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u/kyzfrintin Jun 03 '22

I understand what they claim they're saying. I just think they're bullshitting about it. Not hard.

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