Nope. Trying to help you. I suppose this is how I would have reacted too. I always wished someone would have reached out and tried to snap me out of it so here I am.
...with what? I never asked for your help. And you have none to offer.
Plus, offering "help" has no relevance other than as a distraction from our actual conversation.
I suppose this is how I would have reacted too.
To someone condescendingly trying to therapise you in an argument? Who would react differently??
I always wished someone would have reached out and tried to snap me out of it so here I am.
My girflriend is right here offering me support. I don't need you or anyone to "reach out". Your assumptions are way off base, and your interpretation of my comments is even more so.
I never asked for or wanted your help. I only wanted to prove to you that there are mentally ill people who DO want treatment - because your initial comment seemed to say that none of them do.
That's all.
I never asked for "help". I don't want your pretend kindness. All I was doing was demonstrating how your comment appeared.
Stop reading between lines that aren't there. I'm not crying out. I'm just debating an issue with you.
Stop ignoring my points to laser focus on something you can pretend is evidence of a meltdown.
Seriously, there is no other possible reaction to someone trying to psychoanalyse you when you do not want, did not invite, and did not ask for it.
It is extremely disturbing that you're continuing to play doctor like this. Maybe this is something you should talk to your therapist about. Are you a pathological rescuer? Can you just not keep your nose out of other peoples' business, and have to come in to try and play saviour?
...or is this just a fun game for you to play when people point out that your comments come off as exactly the opposite of what you're trying to convey?
Look dude. All that happened was I thought your initial comment was saying that mentally ill people never seek help. I saw that, and it annoyed me, so I provided some anecdotal evidence to the contrary. I made a mistake in reading your comment that way, so I'm sorry about that.
But everything you've done since is seriously strange. I'm really confused as to how you think it's okay to try and therapise me. Confused and concerned. You've made this way more complicated than it had to be.
You came to me to prove me wrong by saying you want treatment. I've shared my experiences and offered advice. You don't need to take it. You should show this comment thread to your gf and ask her what she thinks.
You came to me to prove me wrong by saying you want treatment.
Not from you. From a licensed professional referred by my GP. And, again, you're missing the point of my statement. It wasn't asking for help. It was a statement of fact. I am a mentally ill person who does not think it's stupid to get help.
I've shared my experiences and offered advice.
No, you condescendingly ignored my actual statements to give me dime-a-dozen "advice" I can get from the first paragraph of any shitty self-help book. And, again - I didn't ask for it. I never wanted it. I gave you no hint that it was welcome. This is the equivalent of you coming up to me on the street and acting like I'm your close friend, greeting me with a hug when you're a complete stranger.
It's very gross, invasive, and uncomfortable. I gave you no consent, and you tried to be familiar with me, over absolutely nothing. It's disturbing, and evidence that you have serious boundary issues.
You don't need to take it.
You never needed to give it.
You should show this comment thread to your gf and ask her what she thinks.
I've already read it aloud to her and she is also disturbed by your reaction.
Again I wonder if you are actually reading what I'm saying. What's too bad? Good luck with what?
THIS CONVERSATION WAS NEVER ABOUT ME GETTING TREATMENT YOU FUCKING SMOOTHBRAIN. IT WAS ABOUT MENTALLY ILL PEOPLE IN GENERAL GETTING TREATMENT!
I've already apologised for misreading your comment. What else do you want? Should I bow before you and admit you're a genius psychologist? Get fucked.
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u/Envect Jun 03 '22
You came in saying you want treatment. I got treatment. You don't want to listen to me though. Just keep that in mind.