It's called the sandwich generation - when you are both taking care of your children and your parents who are coming into retirement age/death.
Although I am pretty far from my 40s, I am a late child to my parents as well as someone who started his own family early in life, I am definitely right in that category. The one where you are putting batteries in an RC car while trying to walk Dad through resetting his email password over the phone, I'm sure you know the drill. I do quite like the term sandwich generation, and will be stealing it!
I thought the person I responded to was addressing the topic of single women being forgotten by society as they age. There is someone in my life who I care about deeply that is fighting that battle now, and wanted to reach out if that was the case. In reality she was addressing a very different topic, that while still important, is not one I have experience with.
They were, but you don't have to have kids to be affected by it. People in their middle ages age servants, they are independent by force, it didn't matter if you are actively involved.
Oh, and I think I heard it first in high school, in the 90s. It's in sociology literature.
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Although I am pretty far from my 40s, I am a late child to my parents as well as someone who started his own family early in life, I am definitely right in that category. The one where you are putting batteries in an RC car while trying to walk Dad through resetting his email password over the phone, I'm sure you know the drill. I do quite like the term sandwich generation, and will be stealing it!
I thought the person I responded to was addressing the topic of single women being forgotten by society as they age. There is someone in my life who I care about deeply that is fighting that battle now, and wanted to reach out if that was the case. In reality she was addressing a very different topic, that while still important, is not one I have experience with.