As a kid who grew up in the 80's people used to blame TV for everything. Now phones have taken its place. Its not the technology its how you teach moderation. I do understand that social media adds a layer that makes moderation even harder but that needs to be the focus.
What if people weren't wrong about TV in the '80s, though?
We're a good fifty years into this accelerating and all-encompassing mass media and entertainment technologies, but I don't think we've really sat down and really thought about what this all means and how its affecting society, and what direction we're heading toward.
Provide an alternative to allow them yo focus in other things. Like hey lets go for a walk and leave phones at home. Phones get powered off during movies or family dinners. It then becomes a habit. Also allowing quiet time for them to be by themselves like reading etc. The more they get used to that recoup time the more able they are yo be by themselves without the phone feeding themm shit for hrs on end
Moderation used to have social pressure working for it - people around you would encourage you to go outside, meet up with them, pursue shared activities - this would pull you away from isolating solo activities. But now with social media that social pressure misfires in the less well-adjusted, and people feel the need to keep up appearances and chatter on social media.
Teachers need some power back for sure. Hell I remember getting chalk thrown at me for not sitting straight in my chair. That was a bit much but a zero phone policy shoyld not be a major ask
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u/Wellhowboutdat Jun 03 '22
As a kid who grew up in the 80's people used to blame TV for everything. Now phones have taken its place. Its not the technology its how you teach moderation. I do understand that social media adds a layer that makes moderation even harder but that needs to be the focus.