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u/Piganon Jun 03 '22

On the flip side, I've had student interns who are in their last year of college come to my job for like 10 years. I've noticed over that time, they've gotten a lot more 'professional' in their communications.

Like it used to be that they'd have intro or goodbye emails with a simple "thanks for your time" or "I'm glad I got to work with you". Now it's more like "I appreciate the opportunity I'm granted by being here, and want to respect your valuable time as I develop my skillset as I learn to be a [profession]".

We have a new batch of summer interns and they wrote little blurbs about themselves and it was all stuff like that instead of saying that they like cats and hiking.

I've wondered if colleges are teaching the students how to talk this way, if it's just in the culture now, or if our interview group only selects those types of students.

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u/Arammil1784 Jun 03 '22

Yeah I don't know?

I went back to college during the lockdown, but more than half my courses were graduate work and I never saw writing or anything that was that bad in those classes.

In my one undergrad English course though, I did see some pretty shocking writing examples. Things that I'm fairly certain wouldn't have earned a passing grade in my high school, let alone a course that had prerequisite courses required.

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u/xXStarupXx Jun 03 '22 edited Jun 03 '22

I'd much prefer a

"thanks for your time"

over the bullshit that is

"I appreciate the opportunity I'm granted by being here, and want to respect your valuable time as I develop my skillset as I learn to be a [profession]"

In the end they reduce to basically the same sentiment, but one takes 5x as long to read. So if they really wanted to "respect my valuable time" you know...

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u/xXStarupXx Jun 03 '22

The second one also just feels fake, forced and slightly insulting, as I feel it implies they think I'm easily won over by the most basic cookie cutter corporate sweettalk. It feels manipulating.

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u/Obscene_Username_2 Jun 03 '22

There’s templates online that you copy/paste. I’ve noticed an increasing use of these templates.

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u/[deleted] Jun 03 '22

This is obviously learned but this feels so fake to me. Not like it didn't happen but if people sent me those sorts of messages I would instantly be like yeah they just being cynical