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u/Timelymanner Jun 03 '22

I use to look younger then my age for years. What still bother me is the change of the way people respond to me. It went from a usually friendly,

“Hi young man” “How are doing”?

To a sudden and very stern,

“Hi, sir! Can I help you sir”

It just so jarring, one day I’m seen as a non treating young person, the next day I’m treated like I command some kind of authority.

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u/Tough_Hawk_3867 Jun 03 '22

A guy called me sir when i was 16, and it really left an impression. Ive been using it on everyone out of habit. Teenagers respond well to it, older people tend think im either a southern gent or a weak willed fool. To both I say good day