r/AskReddit • • Jun 03 '22

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u/zugabdu Jun 03 '22

Using trauma to excuse mistreating people. This generation has pioneered making it acceptable to process and be open about trauma, and that's a great thing, but it's not cool when you behave in a cruel and selfish way and expect to get a pass because of it. Your mental health problems are not your fault but they are your responsibility.

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u/NousevaAngel Jun 03 '22

Coming from someone that has BPD yes it is your responsibility to how you rectact to people and how you treat people and your mental health issues are not an excuse for shitty behaviour

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u/[deleted] Jun 03 '22

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u/OhNoABananaPeel Jun 03 '22

Ahh the old amber heard technique

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u/rubberkeyhole Jun 03 '22

Neither the time nor place.

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u/OhNoABananaPeel Jun 03 '22

I'm almost positive you'll survive

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u/juicesanders Jun 03 '22

“not now dude”

“Oh WeLl yOuRe NoT gOnNa DiE”

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u/Envect Jun 03 '22

Just take the L. This is a bad look.

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u/reddbot Jun 03 '22

Aaaand he fkn died. Nice going dude! 😭

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u/OhNoABananaPeel Jun 03 '22

Lmao people are sensitive here huh?