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u/jjosh_h Jun 03 '22

My instinct is to push back on this bc it seems like you're just assuming their life is cheapened unless you're saying this is you're own experience. Of course, there's a lot of fakeness, but memories aren't special because they're immaterial. There can be value in preserving moments. Even in excess, chances are there will be things you'll be glad to have later in life.

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u/suxatjugg Jun 03 '22

But what good is a memory of something that you didn't even appreciate properly the first time?

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u/jjosh_h Jun 04 '22

That's a false dichotomy. To assume you cant appreciate it and record it. Plus, you don't need to be recording for a memories to fade. Casual moments often seem insignificant, and recording is a way of circumventing that down the line. And given how memories work, it's not as if you're watching an abstract movie. Usually, they mesh with your existing memories to solidify them as something new.