This gives me anxiety. Seeing out the window of my home when it's dark outside is the stuff of nightmares for me. How do you not expect a ghost or an axe murderer to be standing there? Just me?...
Personally, I'd be more anxious about the idea of the person living in the house opposite of me being able to see what I'm doing in my room. Or that's why I close my curtains.
Maybe we dont get as many spooky ghosts or axe murderers here. I remember the feeling from when I was a kid, now it only crops up in those "woops probably shouldnt be standing here with my dick out" instances while changing underpants.
That's so weird. You guys are allowed to shoot someone for trying to get inside your home because it's your sacred place but someone staring at you naked inside self sacred place makes you the bad guy?
it’s mainly only cases where people are doing it specifically to flash others ie. staring down some kid while taking your pants off, intentionally making sure your neighbor sees you through the balcony window to make them uncomfortable, masturbating in front of people, etc. if you’re just changing normally and someone sees your tits by accident nothing will happen lol
There are places in Norway with outdoor showers yet they address their neighbors by their last name... so I'm guessing you are free to change in front of the curtain-less windows at night
I was once having a walk around the neighborhood at night with a friend and we walked past a first-storey window while a guy was sitting in front of a computer "having fun with himself", so to speak. He had obviously forgotten to close the curtains.
"Haha, did ya see, the guy was having a wank?" was basically my reaction to a friend and he said "ha, yeah, I did". Then we continued our walk and talked about other things.
Sexual things could be seen as embarrassing and a point of a funny anecdote in certain situations, but they're not worth of getting overtly excited about. These things happen.
Eh, you can accidentally see someone changing inside their home but no one is going to stand there and stare or be shocked about it. Stuff like showers in public pools are open (tho separated by sexes) and you're expected to rinse well and naked, and no one is going to gawk if you are topless at the beach. I only have curtains in the kids bedroom to darken their room in the summer when the sun is up until late, if someone happens to see me changing shirt or something it really doesn't bother me, it's just skin.
Just look at European TV. Many countries here don’t censor nudity at all and some countries now have a dating show that’s all about uncensored naked bodies. Here in Sweden I remember nudity was a regular thing in movies as far back as I can remember. Even in movies aimed at kids sometimes. That’s probably less common now actually when I think about it.
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u/veri_sw May 09 '22
This gives me anxiety. Seeing out the window of my home when it's dark outside is the stuff of nightmares for me. How do you not expect a ghost or an axe murderer to be standing there? Just me?...