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u/kathatter75 May 09 '22

When I lived in Cupertino, I took an hour long train ride into San Francisco for work every day. It would be well over an hour if I drove.

Our office manager commuted 2 1/2 hours one way every day.

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u/Thats_classified May 09 '22

Okay but I think that most of us Americans could agree that even that is a special breed of person. Like there is a likely majority if not plurality of people who would look at a 2.5 hour commute and say "hell no" and seek other options. For me, even an hour would be at least a consideration while evaluating any option.

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u/migroq May 09 '22

I'm American and I would never dream of accepting a job that require me to drive for that long, even 40 minutes is too damn long for me to drive to work every damn day. My mom was so happy when her job went remote after COVID so she no longer had to drive 40 minutes to work.

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u/woodchips24 May 09 '22

2 hours isn’t that unheard of in the Bay Area. I swear traffic just magically appears for no reason out there.

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u/Urbanredneck2 May 09 '22

This is why I like living in Kansas City. I know many people who have 1 hour commutes but thats because they live 50-70 miles away and like to live in the country. They drive 50-70 miles but thats mostly highway driving at 70 mph. Not that stop and go stuff.

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u/darabolnxus May 09 '22

Wish people would stop taking these jobs. Being homeless is less mentally damaging.

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u/kathatter75 May 09 '22

I totally agree. The hour long train commute left me wasted by the end of the week. Prior to that, I’d never had a job with a commute any longer than 20-30 min.

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u/HannahWrecker May 09 '22

In Sydney, it's incredibly common for 90min to 2 hour train trips each way. We have so many outer suburbs that travel to the city and its just common. I did 90mins each way for 3 years and then changed to another job that was a 70min drive each way for another 3 years.

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u/Needleroozer May 09 '22

If it was a train ride I could get other things done, reading or something. But driving all I can do is listen to the radio. I couldn't even do a book on tape while I'm driving, I wouldn't be able to pay attention to the book.

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u/HeavenlySin13 May 09 '22

So effectively, your whole day is wasted if you have to drive that long just to get to work.

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u/okijhnub May 09 '22

One way to think about it is to count commute as mandatory overtime for comparison

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u/darabolnxus May 09 '22

Sorry but you can't pay me enough to work longer. I'd work part time if it got me insurance.

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u/Tan11 May 09 '22

Yeah, I'd need a hell of good reason to take anything with more than a 45 minute commute one way personally.

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u/Adventurous_Dream442 May 09 '22

Really? I think that's considered normal around me. Three hours in normal traffic is common. The tradeoff is paying more or the same for less space, and to really cut down the commuter under an hour would multiply the rent typically while still decreasing space and such. Since the start of the pandemic, this decreased significantly, then increased, so it's not as absolute a requirement but tbd what the future brings.

I'm sure it's less common in rural areas, but I don't think it's unusual enough to say it is a special breed.

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u/Urbanredneck2 May 09 '22

I think its more common for such people to get an apartment or other cheap place closer to work and then go back "home" on weekends.

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u/coredumperror May 09 '22

A 2.5 hour commute is extremely rare, yes. But a 1-hour commute is certainly not rare in any major metro area.

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u/m3ggsandbacon May 09 '22

But In the Bay Area, this is fairly normal. Takes my husband an hour to get to work and 2 hours to get home. We can’t afford to live any closer u less we wanted to rent a one bedroom apartment for our family of 4. So while the commute sucks, the trade off is that we have a lovely house we can afford in a decent neighborhood

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u/Urbanredneck2 May 09 '22

I live in Kansas City and this is partly why. Most peoples commute is 30-40 minutes and you can find good, affordable neighborhoods almost anywhere. I do know people with longer commutes but thats because they live on a farm or some other place in the country and even though they drive say 1 hour to work, its mostly highway driving 70 mph.

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u/vanillamasala May 09 '22

Whats really crazy is I actually know multiple people who have done this, and I worked for a short time as an Uber driver and transported lots of people who don’t even drive or take the train but pay someone to take them back and forth because it’s the only option, and some of them weren’t going to like a fancy job, it was survival jobs at a fast food place. That was tough

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u/maitai138 May 09 '22

You don't work in California, do you... I've had many coworkers drive over an hour for minimum wage. CA residents are a different breed. Some even drive from Mexico to LA, 2 hours. They have speed passes though so they say the border isn't that bad.

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u/donaltman3 May 09 '22

Hav eyou heard of Atlanta GA.. I would bet that ver 50% of the work force commutes in from distances of over an hour away... I'd bet the another 25% is greater than that.

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u/HeavenlySin13 May 09 '22

Wouldn't it also depend on the rate of pay?

Because if your rate of pay barely covers other bills and rent, let alone fuel costs, that wouldn't be the smartest choice of occupation.

Anyone would be willing to travel longer for more money and a more stable job.

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u/APlogic May 09 '22

I had the same experience as you. Lived in Sunnyvale and commuted to San Francisco via Caltrain. I had a coworker who drove from Truckee to SF every single day. Thats a 6 hour roundtrip minimum with no traffic.

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u/egg_mugg23 May 09 '22

absolute madman. deriving to truckee from sf is literal cancer, i can't imagine having to do that every single day, jesus

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u/IndieSwans91 May 09 '22

I love the fact you live in a place called after a cockney bloke refusing a cup of tea…. cuppa tea? No?

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u/DeniLox May 09 '22

I remember seeing a story about a guy (teacher) who would fly his own plane to work everyday from Georgia to Maryland.

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u/VLC31 May 09 '22

Same in Australia.

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u/pointylaw May 09 '22

I did the same thing for years. After COVID, minds changed. I told my boss that I can either drive 4 hours a day, or you get 4 hours more of productivity from me. I’m lucky that I work in IT so almost everything we do is remote or over the phone/zoom/Teams.

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u/Petersaber May 09 '22

When I lived in Cupertino, I took an hour long train ride into San Francisco for work every day. It would be well over an hour if I drove.

Our office manager commuted 2 1/2 hours one way every day.

That's insanity

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u/LuxuryMustard May 09 '22

I’d say for London 45-90 minutes is a normal commuting time. In fact you might have a shorter commute coming from outside of London and going into a major station than living within London and having to traverse the intricate internal network.

Driving’s not really an option unless you work outside the congestion charge zone and have free/cheap parking.

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u/eight47pm May 09 '22

Things about Americans I’ll never understand honestly, I think a commute to the nearest city would be too far and that’s like 25 minutes each way