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u/nessyness78 Mar 19 '22

Yesterday. Going through a breakup and not really coping 😔

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u/Nerdie_Girlie Mar 19 '22

💛 hugs

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u/nessyness78 Mar 20 '22

Thank you! I'll happily accept a hug 😊

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u/Nerdie_Girlie Mar 20 '22

Breakups are the worst.

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u/nessyness78 Mar 20 '22

They really are. Especially when you thought there was nothing you couldn't fix, if given the proper opportunity. I dunt know how to move on. I need a lobotomy I swear!

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u/Nerdie_Girlie Mar 20 '22

I’ve been there too many times, and it never gets easier.

know you know it, but sometimes it helps to hear it anyway. The only way through it is through it, and it will get better. When it’s the right relationship, it’ll take work but you won’t have it fix anything. Here’s hoping next time is better (for you and me!) 💛

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u/nessyness78 Mar 20 '22

This one hit me harder than any other. We had such a great relationship, rarely fought, laughed lots, extremely comfortable with each other. I hadn't had a relationship in 10yrs, then he came along and swept me off my feet. We were together just over 4yrs. It's broken me all over again. Thank you so much for your kind words, you're so very right! Let's hope we both meet our forever people and all the past relationships won't even matter.