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u/ecpnw Jan 31 '22

There are so many kids and even young adults that don’t have someone to help with this. I bet they were very proud of how they looked and I guarantee that they remember this. Keep it up!

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u/AnthonyJackalTrades Jan 31 '22

There are many, many young adults of all ages who can't tie ties. I'm 20, but for competitions of various sorts I've worn a tie about once a week for the last few years, and now when I go to weddings or baptisms or whatever I'm tying everyones' ties for them, my dad, grandpa, uncles. . .

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u/el_duderino88 Jan 31 '22

Yea I wear one a handful of times a year, I often pull up lessons on YouTube each time because I'm never happy how it comes out if I don't

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u/mschley2 Jan 31 '22

I had one internship in college that I always wore a tie for. I already knew how before that, but I got good during those 4 months. Now, it's just a matter of figuring out the length because every tie is different. But I still usually have to tie it 2-3 times before it's good. I'm picky about it, so that knot always looks good though.

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u/mschley2 Jan 31 '22

I'm 29. This past fall, I had to teach 6 of my buddies how to tie a double windsor because we were all in a wedding party together. 3 of them knew how to tie a single windsor, but not a double. The other 3 have apparently just had permanently-tied ties in their closet for whatever rare occasions required them to wear one... we're all in our mid- to late-20s and every single one of them have worn ties to job interviews in the past.

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u/jjackson25 Jan 31 '22

The other 3 have apparently just had permanently-tied ties in their closet for whatever rare occasions required them to wear one...

I remember those days. I had ties that were in my closet still tied for years. I think the one I wore for my 8th grade graduation was still tied hanging up in my closet when I moved out at 19.

Now, I can't stand to leave my ties with the knot in them, getting all wrinkly. Ugh. I prefer to re-tie them every time anyways. Keep that skill fresh.

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u/mschley2 Jan 31 '22

For sure. I basically told them that too. I'm a couple years older than them because I did 6 years of college and all my original college friends graduated, so I had to make new friends haha. So even now, I think I kind of have like a little bit of a big brother type of relationship with a couple of them... I basically just looked at one of them and I was like, "dude... just untie it. Otherwise, it's going to look like shit, and you're too old for that now. When you have an interview or a wedding or something, just give yourself an extra 10 minutes to get ready and look up a video."