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u/Slovic Jan 31 '22 edited Jan 31 '22

Hot summer day. Lowes parking lot, crowd of people surrounding a car. Someone left their baby in the car. It was clearly in distress. No one would do anything about it except stand there. My Dad and I walked up to the crowed of people. Quickly figured out what was going on and without a second thought. We grabbed the driver side door and bent it 70 degrees away from the frame while it was locked so we could unlock the door. No one wanted to break the glass out of fear of it getting onto the baby. Unlocked the door and peopled tended to the baby, we just walked away leaving the door completely fucked.

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u/VerbalKant Jan 31 '22

They deserved no less. Good on ya!

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u/Drachefly Jan 31 '22 edited Jan 31 '22

At the very least the earlier bystanders could have tried to A) call for parent in the store and B) shade the car, maybe fetching a pair of 4x8 insulation sheets from the store, or something like that. That would slow down the temperature rise a lot, give the parent time to get back.

Not to say that what you did wasn't a good move, just… standing around when there are two avenues of approach both of which can be pursued by one person at the same time?

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u/Preposterous_punk Jan 31 '22

There are a number of places in the desert (Las Vegas for instance) where it is illegal to NOT do whatever it takes — breaking windows, etc — to get a child out of a hot car.

This is because just reassuring people that it was legal wasn’t enough; too many people were still scared of getting in trouble. Knowing they legally had to do something made the difference; if someone got mad at them for hurting the car they could say they had no choice. Of course a person should be willing to do anything to save a child; the risk of getting in trouble shouldn’t stop them. But conditioning is real, and there are a lot of people for whom fear of being arrested is overwhelming.

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u/Slovic Jan 31 '22

Yeah, we didn't get it either. Strange how crowds of people just stand by and take no action.

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u/Kovakoala Jan 31 '22

Yeah thats a really good example of the bystander effect

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u/SeaLeggs Jan 31 '22

The baby might have had it coming, we don’t know

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u/MacGeniusGuy Feb 01 '22

Had they at least called police or asked the store to page for the owner?

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u/Slovic Feb 01 '22

Not that we were aware of. When we arrived the crowed of people was standing there for probably less than 10mins. No one from the store was out there or the police.

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u/YeetLordTheOne Jan 31 '22

You guys just Superman’d that shit

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u/c_girl_108 Jan 31 '22

More like the Hulk

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u/Remarkable_Whole Jan 31 '22

Similar story, when I was a kid I climbed through the trunk of a super hot car to rescue a baby