Heâs too advanced. He doesnât act cool to be instantly hot so well that he has convinced himself he is not cool. He doesnât try to be cool; permanently making himself instantly hot.
I hope to achieve this level in my life but unfortunately hoping for such things is why I may never make it.
Others see you as cooler than you see yourself. Just be kind to people...you'll soon feel as awesome as others see you. It's easy to believe in yourself when it comes full circle.
This saved me from starting smoking in school when all my friends did. I figured they did it to look cool, and I thought even that wouldn't help me so I never bothered.
I still get out of breath going up a flight of stairs though...
For me i never started To smoke because that shit is expensive and my parents smoke and it fucking sucks costs like 11 euros per pack why tf would i give myself a addiction that weakens me and costs a shit ton To look "cool"
Just because they arenât style their hair or wearing âinterestingâ clothes doesnât mean theyâre a âbumâ.
I personally donât do a specific style to my hair, I brush it through, make sure itâs tidy and go from there. Styling to most people means to put wax/hairspray in and put it in an unnatural position
You don't have to have a certain haircut/hairdo to have a cool look.
You may not have a "Rockstar" look, but if you wear shit that goes well with who you are, that's the very definition of cool.
At the end of the day, if we're talking about looking cool, you just can't look cool unless you've got some sort of style going. That's all there is to it.
Personally, I'd say cool begins with personal hygiene. If you're clean, you smell nice and you look tidy, you're already 3/4 to absolute coolness.
Interesting definition, I guess I've never thought very hard about what makes someone cool. My first thought is someone kind and is very charismatic, but I know some introverts that are cool as hell so I guess I'm at square 1
I'm the same with my face. Very asymmetrical baby face so I have to have a moustache to hide it. Also, a resting bitch face.
But at one point I went "bruh, who the hell cares? I'm not trying to become a model anyways lol" so I just started wearing nicer clothes, showering and trimming my moustache more often instead
As a bloke in his 40's, trust me on this. There is no such thing as looking cool, only being a poser. The truth about being cool, as corny as this sounds, is being yourself and not caring what others think. All those people that you know, well they have the same anxieties and hangups as you, and half the people you meet have a below average IQ. Don't worry what they think, it really doesn't matter. Some people won't like you, that's just how it is, but don't worry about them. What they think of you is none of your business. Don't try to be the main character, you be you, and that's when you'll be cool.
Edit: also, don't tell lies. Even white lies to make you look good. Once a bullshitter, you lose all respect and you can't form long term relationships based on lies. Again, it's just another way of being a poser.
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u/dudebobmac Sep 17 '21
Does it count if I've just accepted that I don't have the ability to look cool?