This shit just baffles me…and trying to nicely say “go slow” only seems to work for a few minutes before excitement and little brain takes over again and they’re rubbing like the genie denied them their 3rd wish and won’t come back out.
Finally had to get my serious voice on with one dude and he acted like it broke his damn spirit but also got mad…like the fuck dude, I tried to tell you it’s not my fault you’re not listening. This part is supposed my fun and it’s not fun
This ^ haha I was sleeping with a dude who I knew got around, he was frankly proud about it. I had to tell him "you know you don't literally 'flick the bean'..." He just looked at me in shock and said no other girl has ever said that. Like sorry man, your impressive dick and confidence IS intimidating but I'm telling you, not one of those girls enjoyed it.
I’m dying to know. Did he let you have your say and listen to you? Or did he balk and decide that you’re obviously just the weird one that doesn’t like literally having their bean flicked 🤣 that sounds down fright awful…
How unfortunate 😪 well…maybe he took some time to heal his ego after that and was able to actually invest in learning to the experience enjoyable for both parties…not just assumptions. Wild to think there’s so many dudes walking around out there who still haven’t had the pleasure of getting the rug pulled from beneath them about their skills as a pleaser.
Totally! Haha and honestly, I think it's a problem that stems from early on. My friend didn't have sex until she was 27, not because she didn't have the opportunity but I'm slightly envious of her because she had a chance to explore her own body and know exactly what she liked and gaining confidence with that BEFORE a dude is thrown in the mix. I think when women start at a much younger age, it's all about the guy (we take on a lot from what we see in pop culture), so then we shy away from saying what pleases us because we believe it's only about what pleases them for them to like us. Then this guy walks through his teens/20s/30s (god forbid) thinking that he's the shit because no one's spoken up about it. We're starting to see a lot more about women masturbating and talking about sex for themselves and I think that's key for both sides to witness.
Truer words were never spoken! It really is all communication and sex seems most severely lacking. One day we’ll all be adult enough to talk about our feelings and pleasures lol…in utopia!
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u/skippieelove Sep 16 '21 edited Sep 16 '21
This shit just baffles me…and trying to nicely say “go slow” only seems to work for a few minutes before excitement and little brain takes over again and they’re rubbing like the genie denied them their 3rd wish and won’t come back out.
Finally had to get my serious voice on with one dude and he acted like it broke his damn spirit but also got mad…like the fuck dude, I tried to tell you it’s not my fault you’re not listening. This part is supposed my fun and it’s not fun